attention all mistresses "Lexapro "really works

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    hello ladies,

    if your looking for that perfect med that will render your hubby or boyfriends ability to orgasm as a thing of the past
    "Lexapro" should be on your list.

    it is an anti depressant and within 3 days he will have to really work to orgasm . give him 3 weeks on this stuff and his penis will struggle to get hard and orgasms will be a thing of the past.. but he will not be depressed

    my mistress has me on 40 mg a day and my gosh it knocked the drive right out of me
     
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    Well this is just a dumb idea.
     
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    It'll kill sex drive in both men and women but then SSRI's in general are pretty bad for sex drive.
     
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    I have long know the effects of SSRI antidepressants since I took about 9 different ones before I found one that did not prevent my orgasms. I will say that my wife and her girlfriend did enjoy having me take a Viagra and ride me until they had several orgasms and I was sore. They loved it, but I did not. Some ADs will prevent erections too and that is the most frustrating for me. I have asked before in several forums if any professional Dominatrices ever get their subs to get a prescription for an AD so that they could not orgasm without constant supervision. No one seemed to know about it which surprised me as it is a natural for a D/s relationship and helps the sub with any form or depression he may have. My Psychologist told me that fetishes like BDSM, which was my main one, is often the refuge of the depressed because they take your attention away from whatever is troubling you. I found that to be true because once treated for depression, I no longer wanted to engage in the extreme S&M I was into with my wife's girlfriend.
     
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    This shit is gospel. No lies in this post. I tried lexipro a few years back and besides the wonderful weight gain and vivid dreams, inability to reach the finish line was indeed a hallmark
     
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    Watch your tone girl ! :p
     
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    well just taking 40 mg daily has made orgasm next to impossible
    I imagine after taking them long term I will see my erections fade and sex drive wither away to nothing

    for all of the mistresses out there chastising their hubbies this might be a necessary step
     
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    There is chastising and removing the ability or desire to orgasm through chemical castration (or real castration for that matter), and there is chastising where the sub is going half crazy with desire for his mistress, unable to have an orgasm but only because of the command and assertiveness of his Mistress, desperately wanting one and turning his desire outwards into complete subservience to his Mistress.

    I know which type of male chastity my Wife likes :p
     
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    I'm on Lexapro, Estrodial and Provera and love it
     
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    So how are they effecting your penis and sex drive
     
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    I no longer have any sex drive and my pens has contracted to 1"
     
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    Is that a good thing for you?
    How long did it take for full shrinkage and impotence?
    How long were you before you started
     
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    For me oddly when I was taking a SSRI it had the opposite effect at first. My sex drive was through the moon. After a couple of months it wore off though and drive returned to normal.
     
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    Lexapro didn't affect my sex drive or ability to orgasm, but Effexor made orgasming basically impossible. It was nasty stuff and while I enjoyed not being able to come, I never would have allowed my doctor to prescribe it had I been aware of all of the horrible side effects.

    Please learn all you can about antidepressants. They're very dangerous medicines and most doctors don't respect them as the powerful drugs that they are. If you can avoid them, please do so. If you must use them, please do research, make sure you and your doctor understand how they affect you. Work with your doctor to monitor how they affect you and please please please talk with them regularly.

    Now don't take that as me being anti antidepressant, but more as someone who has seen them abused by ones I've lived, and as someone who has had doctors not be careful with what they've given me.
     
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    @tomf_22033 you are so right on this , thankfully I have never needed to take any form of antidepressants but I know several people that have , in most cases the side effects they experienced or ended up being left with were worse than the initial reason they had for taking them in the first place , so a last resort only and even then not a cure , in my experience these things bring with them more problems than they alleviate .
     
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    My Wellbutrin is not working anymore. It actually makes you hornier and gives you more intense orgasms. So I will be seeing my doctor in 3 weeks and go on one of the other AD drugs that will make me inorgasmic, impotent or both. In the past I stopped those drugs due to the sexual side effects but now that I am not using my penis much, the sexual side effects will not matter.
     
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    I have never needed to take any form of antidepressants. In our FLR and never inside relationship we should be preventing my erection. First, two years ago, we started taking Androcure in small doses. The success was only moderate. An erection was still possible. The sperm disappeared and only clear aqueous solution remained. For some time now I have taken the medicine edronax additional. It changed my situation immediately after taking. I have no more possibility to get a hard errection. with all efforts the penis become a little more size but is still soft. A long time ago my relaxed penis size in lenght approximately 3.5” or 8 cm and diameter of 1.2” /3 cm. Now I have all over relaxed penis size from only 1.5” / 4 cm lenght and diameter from smaller than 1” / 2 cm. I the past my errect penis, was hard has maybe 12 or 13 cm lenght. Now with all handwork of my wife the penis grown to 2.3” /6 cm lenght and not noticeably more diameter. This state of very small growth is only maintain for a short time of a few seconds. To reach this small noticeable enlargement of the penis it required a lot handwork. With thoughts about my favorites fetish fantasys or my sexual preferences it is absolut not possible to see or feel a real penis movement. The testicle a shrinking and move near to the body. To urinate is nearly normal possible. (I am incontinent and my urin flows out almost unhindered) Yet I feel during urinate the change of the small size of the sexual organ. I think the urethra also is reduced in size. Now I have on disability more and can say "I´m IMPOTENT". It is a grat feeling to know that between the legs nothing works. My statement for you - I have BIID „Body Integrity Identity Disorder“ and want to be form the waist down to live without function. I have no more sideeffects with edronax.
     

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    I lost about five years of the life kinky to SSRIs. Never taking them again. It's all very well to think "it would be so hot if..." but when you take them you find out that nothing is hot any more. Not even nothing being hot is hot. I take mania suppressants only now and they have no effect on my sex drive, phew.
     
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    I have been fantasizing about being impotent, to avoid the nocturnal erections when caged to start with, and maybe end up with a smaller penis too, but when I read all these testimonies on use of these medicines, it indeed makes me think twice...
    Only thing I want, is to be come erection free, but I would not like to be 'libido' free, if you get my explanation.
    My wife and I stopped using my penis for penetration anyhow, so that part is not important to me, but I would not like to loose libido or energy whatsoever.
    I'm looking for a possibility that only reduces my performance down there but not over all.
    I started taking Saw Palmetto about one month ago as it is claimed to be positive for prostate growth (not ejaculating very often anymore my prostate might need that) and on some fora has the reputation to cause erectile dysfunction (absence of morning wood etc..) but so far the latter is not applicable for me yet..
    Isn't there anything that just stops the erection but doesn't influence the rest and leaves it in same condition as before taking med's?
    Probably not, but where else could I ask this question?
     
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