So for someone who loves to hear dirty talk, femdom and humiliation talk, I am not very good at talking back. Last night she decided to unlock me and have a ride. She started talking and I could tell she wanted me to join in because she was asking me questions. Maybe that's why being a sub appeals to me but it usually takes that out of the equation. When she asks me how her pussy feels, and to describe it...it's like trying to describe a hot bath...wet, warm, nice, etc. So much running through my mind, and to be honest, a lot of concentration to not cum in 10 seconds, hard to really think on the fly of something sexy or appropriate. Do I say it feels wet , loose and slippery which makes it sound like she's too big, when in fact I'm just small. Do I say it's super tight making it sound like she is a prude and never does it... in my head I over think it and nothing comes out unless she leads me there and asks me redundant questions like does it feel good. I can think off the top of my head at least 30 things for her to say that really get me going...I don't know how to talk dirty to someone that is my domme without it sounding like I'm telling her what to do. Anyone else have a problem being a sub or bottom type and not knowing what to say?
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My wife does not like talking during sex. If I start talking she tells me to shut up. Apparently talking disrupts her concentration on her orgasm.
@Nicoftime, In my opinion you should really always be in a quandary as to what to say when asked such questions by your wife/partner/Mistress. What do you think of my new dress/shoes/hairstyle/Pussy etc? I think that questions of this nature should make you feel as though you're walking on very thin ice made of eggshells and without a parachute.
For me it's easy with my wife. She has always been turned on by fantasizing about having sex with other men, usually a bunch at once. In her fantasies she's even into anal which I can assure you ain't anything like real life. So talking dirty to my wife usually constitutes me telling her how beautiful she looks with all of those men. I have to admit though that if she asked me a question out of left field that she never has before like "how does my pussy feel", I could probably only come up with "good?"
This is one of the big differences between how Men think and How Women think. Women need the emotional reassurance More than men do