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    #1 taped2, Aug 14, 2019
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    Last night I made a breakthrough: I discovered that while wearing a specific cage in my collection I can sleep all night without chafing from the main ring around my scrotum. I should mention that the main ring is adjustable and though I need a large circumference, this device can provide it.

    This means I can wear at least one cage (in my collection of eight) all through the night and not have to remove it in the morning.

    Ergo, I can also extend my imprisonment (or my wife can extend it) from the night into the day and my lock-up can include all the day's activities. Prior to discovering this cage I was unable to drive my car while locked, or do any protracted outdoor activities while in chastity.

    Essentially, I am ready for chastity 24/7. (Ulp!)

    And I have a wife who is tolerant / mildly interested in chastity play. She is a relative newcomer to the idea. And she's cool with it; she just doesn't want to talk about it all day. (Guess who does?)

    So, this will definitely put me to the test. Am I ready?

    At the moment, I have been in this one miraculous chastity cage for thirteen continuous hours. My longest previous uninterrupted lock-up was for six hours. I am locked with a plastic tab, so I can shower anytime without unlocking . This was another old "excuse" for not staying locked up for long. Having to unlock the brass padlock for every little thing.

    So, this morning I took my wife to do a number of errands in the car. I was horny all the time. In and out of every shop. Getting in and out of the car five or six times. Trying to keep up my end of the conversation with her and not run into a lampost. Trying to keep my mind on what I was saying to retail employees.

    I know the city very well, so I didn't get lost and I didn't get into any accidents. (As a former bus driver, I have excellent safety and driving skills.)

    But . . . holy smokes. After playing with chastity for over a year, and experimenting with a number of devices and agonizing over all the options: the fitting challenges, the metal/versus plastic question, the philosophies of sub-space and being caged as a deep dark secret that only my wife knows -- after all that, today was still amazing.

    It's like I woke up inside a dream: driving around this town I know so well, where I used to have a public service job. A place where many citizens knew me; now I"m in a goddamn cock-cage. There's my loving wife beside me, my only and devoted passenger. She looks at this and that landmark through the window. For her, nothing is amiss, nothing is different, and nothing is out of the ordinary. She was so blase I honestly thought at times she had forgotten my new status as her "caged driver."

    Meanwhile, my cock and balls are telling me, in no uncertain terms, that I'm hooked on a new thing. And she's got me. My cock and balls are so comfortable in this cage while I drive. And my life as a chaste driver is about to get much more intense.

    Thirteen hours inside the cage. My god, I'm horny!
    (I cannot cut off the numbered key. Only my wife is allowed to touch it.)

    The device in question is model P6, purchased from the Oxy-Shop website.
    Not wishing to talk about this all day, I'll stop here. For now.
     
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    This is the cage that seems to have made the difference in my "endurance."
     
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    good luck. Here's to longer and longer...
     
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    It will soon be time to tell her, and hand over the key, before you get second thoughts ...
     
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    Congrats on finding a good fit!

    Brass padlocks are generally quite water tolerant. I've only recently gone full-time, but I have one brass lock which has been through dozens of showers and shows no sign of seizing up. Add a drop of oil every once in a while. You could also buy a marine one - they're titanium and basically corrosion-proof.

    Of course, the plastic security locks have their advantages. Certainly lighter, and it's easier to remove in an emergency. But don't write off locks just because of water.
     
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    #6 taped2, Aug 16, 2019
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    Thanks for all your supportive responses. Last night was "date night." I was locked in my heaviest steel cage. (Stock picture below.) After mutual baths, we retired to the bedroom where she received a long massage (with body oil) and I was directed to all her aching parts, for reason of muscle strain, and of course her erogenous zones.

    Then she collared me (leather collar tight, with a lock). She ordered me to put on a short leather leash too. I was ordered to rub my steel cage against various parts of her body and finally she took control with a riding crop and a wooden two foot slapper.

    After a short break, she handcuffed me (in Peerless police-grade cuffs) with my hands behind my back, put me back down on the bed, and continued to play with my nipples and imprisoned cock. Oh, how I swelled in there!

    She was lying on her stomach. She began to gyrate on the bed, instructing me to keep up a stream of erotic banter (I am the talkative one). Eventually, she got herself off. She paid me the compliment of saying she'd had better orgasms from my tongue, but tonight she wasn't in the mood for that.

    I asked her did she remember that I was caged almost all the day, a few days back, while I drove her around on her shopping errands? She said yes, of course. "I just didn't want to discuss it. I wanted you to be aroused, but not to the point of being dangerous behind the wheel."

    Then she blindfolded me and left me, in handcuffs and cock cage, lying on my side on the bed. I heard her go to the bathroom and she spent at least five minutes looking after herself. Then she padded downstairs and checked the house locks and security alarm settings.

    She came back up stairs. "Someone left the front door unlocked. I don't know if it was you or me, but you are going to be punished for it." One of my knees was bent up under me. The other leg was extended. "Your ass makes a very nice target. I can see your cage is still secure. That's a very thick piece of steel under your balls." I heard her pick up the riding crop. She hit me about eight times with it, across the ass and upper thighs. "Did that hurt?"

    I could not tell a lie. "No Mistress. It did not."

    She turned to our closet and pulled out our one and only cane. "Try this!" she said in a more venomous tone. She gave me five rapid strokes across the ass. They didn't really sting any more than the crop did, but one must never complain about such things.

    "Thank-you Mistress," I said, into the darkness of my blindfold.

    "I'm going to leave you in your cuffs for another five minutes, and then after I release your hands, we are going to sleep. You can release your cock and pleasure yourself if you want." She removed the blindfold.

    I shook my head. "No mistress, I don't deserve that."

    She shrugged and smiled. She left me in the handcuffs for the promised five minutes. We went to sleep, but I woke two hours later and had to take the cock cage off. When I woke again, it was morning. My wife was up and downstairs. I washed up quickly and put on a different, smaller plastic cage. Too tight for driving, but perfectly snug for all the domestic chores I had planned. Dish-washing, vacuuming, preparing for our forthcoming vacation.

    Which cage to pack? Mistress has said only one will be allowed.
     

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    The one you can wear for long periods, obviously, and maybe, somehow, forget to pack the key ...
     
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    Or maybe just make a mistake and give her the wrong one?
     
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    The cruise is over. Although I packed a chastity device, a few lengths of rope, and a blindfold and ball gag for mistress to use on me, we never got a chance to play. We were on a cruise ship. Members of her family had booked staterooms on the same vessel. They were next door and across the hall so we were constantly in their company, it seemed.

    I just never got into the mood to put the chastity on. Perhaps it was the frequent knocks on the door from all manner of people. There was virtually no Internet for the whole trip so I didn't get overstimulated with bondage porn either.

    Now that we are back home and her family members are all back in their own orbits, in their own towns, my wife is starting to feel more frisky, though at present she has a cold/flu. I'm locked both night and day now. She has promised me a full domination session soon.

    I'm going to get one of those day-counter things on my profile, since there is finally a prospect I might be locked up for a week. I've had the new "best fitting" device on for over twenty-four hours now. (Still taking small steps over here, but I feel like I'm making enormous progress.) Every morning since we got back, my wife has playfully checked in with me to make sure I'm still locked. It is so gratifying that she shows a daily interest in my chaste cock. And I'm really enjoying not being driven by the urge to masturbation. And I know that if I take the cage off, I'll be right back with that rather depressing habit. Be faithful to your love . . .
     
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    Congrats my friend going on six months for me since my last release
     
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    Six months!

    Well done. I can only imagine how that feels. Thanks for giving me a target to shoot for. (Pun intented.)

    :D
     
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    Your very welcome :) Thank uoi
     
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    Two days ago I received an authentic BON4 (medium length) with seven base rings. After struggling with an Asian-sourced knock-off for too long. The BON4 comes with seven rings that are each 2 mm different in diameter. From 40 mm to 52 mm. That was the kind of "flexibility" I needed to find the best size for long-term wear. I've discovered that most of my other cages have base rings that are just a little too tight for extended wear. I'm back on the Locktober bandwagon. Wife is going out to a show tonight. I'm to be locked up at home.
     
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    Congrats on the progress you've made in your journey. Always encourages me to see others succeed at chastity play. I hope your wife takes more control and you get what you deserve.
     
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    i glad you got a cage thats ok. i look at the piccys you put here and i like the metal one best. its very very smooth and shiny.
     
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    Thank-you. I'll have to take a picture of the new BON4. Metal has its advantages, especially the sense of strength and durability it conveys, both visually and to the one wearing the cage. Most days I've been wearing a plastic one with a very adjustable base ring. It's a good long-term option too, but it doesn't feel as restraining. And body moisture doesn't escape as easily as with a metal cage-style. Wife and mistress likes the plastic one, but I look forward to her taking "tighter" control -- expressing her preferences -- in a more dominating fashion.

    I celebrate the progress, however it comes . . .
     
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    As I grapple with fitting issues - - primarily with the base ring around the balls, I've made two discoveries.

    1) If I am wearing blue jeans (e.g., Levi's or Lee's) or any pair of pants with a substantial heavy cotton seam through the crotch, the seam will put pressure on my balls, especially when sitting or driving a car. One solution is to not wear jeans when caged. Lately I've been wearing cotton work pants (such as are worn in industrial settings). In my case, the lighter weight work pants i used to wear as a bus driver are much more comfortable than jeans, when I am caged.

    2) Shave my groin more often. Most of my cages give me "pinching" problems if there is stubble growing anywhere around the base ring of any of my chastity cages. What I thought was chafing from using rings that were too small, can be alleviated (in my case) by shaving my whole groin more throughly and more often. Especially all around the ball sack. Though I have also purchased replacement rings for several of my cages that are 5 mm larger than the originals.

    I wonder if any others have experienced these problems -- having pain and thinking that their ring was too small -- when in my case I found that my choice of trousers and / or stubble growing in was contributing to pain when I was in chastity. (Side-point: I read often that one might be relieved by lube under the balls but for me, adding lube only gives momentary relief.)
     
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    Totally agree on the loose fitting pants solution. the thing I found with tight pants is they push everything over to the right, which puts make a pressure point from the ring on the left. Actually, basically all pants with a zipper do this. for me, a shorter cage does help with the interfierence with the zipper.
     
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    well its a lot more comfy in some panties and a skirt and not have no hairs.
     
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    I'm sure panties and a skirt would be more comfortable. That would be another bridge to cross, to share it with my mistress.
    :D
     
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    I've been away. Nowhere specific (what with covid-19 seemingly growing everywhere) but I've been out of chastity, had a skin graft surgery in my mouth, endured a kitchen renovation that lasted close to three months, got nasty plantar fasciitis in my left foot, lost access to libraries where I usually do my work (writing), and I feel like I've just been spinning my wheels for months with all the things I used to do that have been closed down where we live.

    Perhaps this is needlesss to say, but the kinky side our lives -- my mistress has kind of reverted to being my vanilla wife and our intimate encounters have lapsed -- has slipped away too. My old porn addiction is creeping back into my life. Ugh.

    But I think she and I can return to our kinky ways -- and me to more chaste ways -- as soon as I show her I'm up for it. I put on my BON4 for an hour yesterday and have been wearing it for a few hours today. So much to do. Will start keeping this blog better, for one thing. Will continue better with the physiotherapies I've been assigned to get my foot and shoulder back working painlessly.

    Sorry. Nothing erotic in this post. But I'm sure something interesting will turn up.
    :)
     
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    This year has been so difficult to so many people in so many ways. I hope you regain your health soon. And the you and your wife get back in the swing too. Hang in there and good luck.
     
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    Thank-you homebody, for that supportive post. I'm experimenting today with a cage with a flexible latex urethral tube. I sterilized it under very hot water from the tap and lubed it up with Ky Jelly before I inserted it.

    Not sure how long I should wear it. I've heard (anecdotally) that two hours should be the limit for this kind of thing. The cage is CH09 from Oxy-shop, if anyone is wondering.

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    Back in chastity most days and most nights too. Mistress/wife is almost ready to play.

    I'm doing physio daily. Almost back to being ready to serve her.
     
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    Yesterday afternoon, I was tied on the bed mostly clothed (roped at ankles and with wrists tied behind me). I was gagged too with my favourite blue ball gag on a leather strap. I was lying on my front, my Bon4 chastity cage had been on all day and was feeling really, really comfortable. (I was aroused but unable to touch myself at all.) My ankle binding kept my feet together and Mistress/wife had run an additional rope from the ankle cinch to the metal foot of the bed. We have recently set up a new steel frame bed in our bedroom and my wife has been keen to try its suitability for bondage scenes. She has made passing comments about it for a couple of weeks since we set it up.

    Mistress promised she was going to leave me there for an hour. A digital clock was within my view. It was a gloomy, overcast day. The bedroom windows (on the second floor) look out across the street at my neighbours' houses. As I lay there bound, trying to stay comfortable, with my mouth stretched open quite stringently, I did wonder what those neighbours we've known a long time would think if they could see me bound, for some "maintenance submission" midday, before the supper hour.

    That's what struck me about the whole scene. Mistress had told me around 4 p.m. that it was time. Perhaps she had sensed my mood earlier in the day, my neediness.

    She was so direct! Unambiguous. In reply, i suggested a simple configuration of ropes. (Mistress doesn't like to be advised on tying knots, so I've learned to be terse in whatever suggestions I make.)

    After I was fully bound, she still managed to come in every 15 minutes or so to check on me. After about 25 minutes (by the clock) I tried to roll over, because my right shoulder was hurting. In the process of shifting, my wrist bindings, which had been a little too loose to start with, loosened even more and I was able to pull my left wrist free.

    I quickly turned over so I was now on my left side. I tried to retie my wrists in front of me, but of course that was impossible. Even after I removed the gag, in order that might use my teeth to help my fingers, I settled for tightening the wrist cinch and holding it tight with my fingers.

    When Mistress came in (at about the 45 minute mark) I was so comfortable I was almost dozing off. She adopted a stern voice -- obviously she was disappointed in her own ropework, and also that I had not only got my hands sort-of bound in front of me, not behind, but also that I had removed my gag.

    Without any warning, she began to hit me on my ass with a heavy leather tawse I had left out on top of her dresser. Even though my light cotton work pants, the tawse stung me. My cage felt like it was being driven into the mattress with every blow.

    After five or six strikes with the tawse, she said "That's nothing less than what you deserve."

    After she freed my ankles I was ordered to loosen my hands and tidy up the room. Then she turned away abruptly and went back to her work in another part of the house. When we crossed paths a few minutes later in the kitchen (I was beginning to prepare dinner) she sidled up to me, and smiled very delightfully, and she reached down to handle my chastity cage through my pants. She enjoys reaching out to me this way. It's probably her favourite way of indicating interest in some playtime.

    Actions speak louder than words.

    indeed. I'm wearing my cage as close to 24/7 as is humanly possible for me.

    "Practice, practice, you chaste fool." I have to say we're doing pretty well this week (and it's only Tuesday.)
     
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