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Actually it is not difficult. Our sex life has been based on Chastity for the last few years. Long term for us is 2-4 months depending on the next special occasions. Sex is for my wife's pleasure and she is having some of the best and most intense orgasms of her life at the age of 65. Yesterday she almost passed out from her orgasm and was a happy camper all night.

What happens is that you get to enjoy the anticipation of an orgasm more than the orgasm itself since the orgasm lasts only a few seconds. You also get used to the sexual energy coursing through your body 24/7. When it is gone after an orgasm, you feel the energy drain and miss it. My personal viewpoint is that I love all the things I feel daily. The sight of a bare shoulder making me try to get erect. A simple touch turning me on. A constant desire to have sex but not wanting to orgasm. We have tried to quit chastity a few times and always went back to it.

However, if you view chastity as more than just chastity, such as BDSM, cuckolding and any other sort of D/s relationship, you are not really talking about chastity. You are talking about a larger fetish in which chastity plays a small part. The problem is that Chastity on its own has little to talk about. I am locked up again and denied an orgasm. That is about it. We still have regular sex with the only thing missing is my orgasm. The effects of chastity are mostly psychological unlike BDSM where you are physically restrained, whipped, etc.. Or like cuckolding where your wife has sex with other men and makes you watch while locked up or humiliates you. Chastity is just there and nothing much happens other than clicking the lock shut.