Article in The Guardian

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    Actually I got into chastity because I was masturbating several times a day and when the wife wanted sex, most times I had just cum and at the age of 61 at the time, I could no longer give it a go and made excuses why I did not want sex. Our sex life started to go down the tubes so I talked to my wife and we started tease and denial on the honor system. I got a cage when she wanted to deny me for very long periods of time measured in months.

    I learned my lesson about suggesting chastity on other forums. All I got was ridiculed for being stupid enough for not wanting orgasms. Things like, "sure, not having sex will solve your sex problems" type of replies because people do not think sex is sex unless you orgasm. I still bring it up in some Marriage and relationship forums but no one has shown any interest and they just think I am a pervert. Between this, BDSM and a poly marriage, I lose a lot of credibility among those that cling to a morality that destroys marriages 50% of the time, rather than to change their morality to fit their individual needs. Even rats have enough sense to desert a sinking ship.
     
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    He has desensitized his penis.

    Some women might like the fact that he can go a long time. From the woman's perspective, his inability to cum is a positive.
     
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    Your masturbating might have something to do with that. My question is is your partner getting as much pleasure as you are? Have you ever heard the saying " it's better to give than to receive" Try giving your partner 2 Orgasms to your 1 for a month , than 3-1 for month, than 4-1 for a month and see how things are than. If you try this keep us posted. Enjoy
     
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