I'm still only a little past half a year into chastity and the FLR that has developed with my wife because of it. I assumed I am naturally submissive because I truly enjoy her dominance of me. I'm starting to question that because I don't think my natural state is submissive. Left totally to my own devices I gravitate back towards doing what I want when I want and I start to taper off on my desire to please my Mistress. She can snap me back into a highly submissive state through any number of methods. The most successful by far has been our weekly punishment spankings. After she wails away on me with her wooden spatula I am hyper submissive. The problem comes when we go too far between demonstrations of her dominance or if her effort at dominance is weak. As an example last weeks punishment should have been brutal. The prior week was way out of line on my part and we were coming off our vacation from chastity where I had 4 un-permitted orgasms. I was really scared headed into that punishment, but she stopped after 6 or 7 whacks (previous high being 30). In addition she made only one attempt at tease and denial and it was pretty weak. I wasn't expecting anything at that point because she had just had an orgasm and that usually means time to sleep. On one of the other days though something would have helped. So as of now I have gone about 9 days with no true strong act of dominance on her part and I'm not feeling very submissive at all. I almost skipped making her smoothie and making the bed this morning because I didn't want to. So this leads me to the title of this thread and what I am curious about all of you. Are you naturally submissive? Or do you require dominance to bring out your submissive side?