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Appropriate Sissy Slut Punishments

Discussion in 'The Powder Room' started by Precarious PET, Nov 29, 2014.

  1. eeeek it bad enugh to has to stand for ages without have to do that as well.
     
  2. Icy hot applied to penis then placed back into cock cage

    Struggle with the heat and no access to it.

    Cage becomes a oven to roast the bad penis
     
  3. please you cant do that. that will burn you and you will has to go to hospital.
     
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  4. I have a Centurions hard jock. It is leather and not suitable for long term wear, but when Mistress wishes to punish me, I am locked in the hard jock over my cb2000 (smallest ring, minimal spacer) and a large butt plug. I then have to beg her to unlock either the jock font to urinate or the rear strap to defecate. Continual and severe punishment ensues if I fail to keep the hard jock free of drips or smudges.
     

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  5. For me, punishments that involve pain overlap with my fantasies too much. Yes, they can suck while receiving them, but that doesn't prevent me getting turned on by the thought of it, so it's not really an incentive to avoid it. (The only exception is capsaicine creme, I tried it once and I'm totally scared to ever try it again).
    What works very good for me are boring things like corner-time or kneeling on rice. Both can be combined with holding an enema or line-writing. I once had to stand against a wall for one hour, holding coins with my nose and outstretched arms. It sounded so harmless, but with no clock in side and no other distractions, the boredom set in quickly and nothing distracted me when my arms started getting sore. I certainly learned my lesson that day...
     
  6. @occorics@occorics youm right there. having to stand for ages in the corner is horrible and even tho a paddling hurts my bum i rather has it that than the standing bit.
     
  7. threaten me with a spanking and I'll disobey on purpose... :D
     
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  8. My KH and Bride is always amazed at my ability to still have an erection after she has paddled and canned me. She laughs. She is not into funishment either. It is always punishment. There have been a time or two when I cried a bit, and then there was no erection left for sure. I must say, I have been tempted lately to disobey purposely so we can get together with the paddle..lol.... but she hits so freakin hard.
     
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  9. has anyone tried FRIGGING peel ginger shape it into a finger insert into hole no lube and wait, best if wearing locked latex shorts
     
  10. yes, figging is fun! The ginger gets even stronger when you store it in a closed plastic bag in the fridge for a few days...
     
  11. I'm two days away from finding out what my punishment is going to be. As I said elsewhere, I've been having trouble with my new cage allowing one of my balls to retract and having the cage pop off. It happened again yesterday in the shower and I took advantage of the opportunity to play with myself. I confessed to my KH ( I had not told her about the other two times it happened, just used the emergency key I keep at work to put it back on). She didn't mind so much about my masturbating (what else is a sissy going to do in the event that happens) but was really mad about me not telling her when it first happened. She lives in another state, so we don't see each other as often as we'd like and she can't be here to punish me regularly, but she said that my punishment would be this weekend and I would definitely not be making the same mistake again. This will be the first time she's tried any long distance punishing, so I'm both fearful and interested in seeing what it will be. She did say I should stay uncaged til then and enjoy it while I could.
     
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  12. Hello @bethanise@bethanise Try not to worry about it. Hopefully you will find as much pleasure as discomfort in her punishment, and that comes from your desire to serve her and need to make her happy. That's like having something to look forward too.
     
  13. For me, it's spankings. He's always dressed when I apply physical discipline to his rear end (panties pulled down, of course, and skirts, petticoats or slip lifted up, iff appropriate). We have rituals, too. Unless I decree only lingerie, makeup and the little bit of jewelry (clip on earrings, pearl necklace, pearl bracelet), he's fully dressed and waiting in the corner for his disciplinary session.

    When I call him out of the corner, he has to come to me, and if he's wearing a dress that has petticoats, he has to curtsy. If there's a witness or witnesses, he has to curtsy to them, first, then to me. I review his conduct, decree the spanking, he begs me not to, I raise my voice, he's silent. First, he has to be stripped to his underwear and dragging that out humiliates him. He curtsies to the guests, tells them he's been a naughty panty boy and it's time for his discipline and would they like to see him get a spanking? Of course they would. Then he curtsies to me, I tell him to turn around, unzip his dress and tell him to hang it up. There's a clothes tree with plastic and wood hangers in one corner of the room (wire hanger make me go Joan Crawford on him, she hated them, too). He hangs up his sissy dress and goes over to the guests and curtsies to them, again, then he curtsies to me. I take off his full pettislip, point to the clothes tree, he hangs it up. Then he curtsies to the guests, again, comes over to me and curtsies and I pull down his last petticoat, point to the clothes tree and he hangs it up and comes over an kneels in front of me.

    Usually, he has to bring the implement I decree, and he has to carry it with his head bowed. If I order him to get some implements, like the Brown Spanking Paddle, he'll protest or try to bargain, of course. A stern voice gets him to bring what I decreed. Of course, while he walks around only in basic lingerie, I invite my guests to comment on the tent in his panties and how much he likes being a sissy. When he brings it to me, he has to kneel, kiss the implement and ask (or beg, as I decree) me to use it on him. Then I tell him to stand up and on my right. Then I pull down his panties, and ask him if he knows why he's getting this? Of course, he says "Yes, Miss Cecilia and I have him say why he's getting it. If he doesn't say it loud enough for my guests to hear, I make him say it again. When he's facing sideways, the witnesses can see his erect penis with pre-cum on the tip.

    After the spanking session (and eating his ejaculate, since he usually ejaculates at least once if he's not in his cage), he gets up,. I pull up his panties, make him kneel, take the implement with both hands, kiss it and thank me for the lesson. Sometimes, I'll make him kiss the implement again and say "thank you" to it for teaching him his lesson. Then he carries it back across the room and puts it away. Usually, by this time, his erection is back, so we comment on the tent in his panties, again. When he puts away the implement, I order him to the corner. When corner time is up, I order him upstairs to his vanity to fix his makeup. I remind him that he's to sit at his vanity and not to touch his bottom. I've walked up there to check on him, sometimes, and brought my guests, too. I've never caught him standing at the vanity or touching his bottom. When he's finished his makeup, i have him come back down, and get fully dressed again and wait on us hand and foot. Sometimes, I'll have him put on a maid's dress before he comes back down to wait on us.

    Humiliation and physical reminders of the conduct I don't approve of are important to disciplining my panty boy.
     
  14. Taking away personal privileges and things you enjoy are always good lessons to learn from.

    We're like children.and should be punished as such. Not knowing specifics of your relationship with your KH but maybe a stricter "allowance" would teach you. Also social activities could be limited.

    Pain teaches a lesson but the absence of enjoyment, can drive the point home...


    Also, i love your flats
     
  15. I use chastity as a disciplinary tool as well as for other purposes. I don't approve of him looking at pornography and don't approve of him masturbating. On the other hand, if he's not in chastity or under discipline, any time he wants anything sexual, all he has to do is ask. I've told him time and time again, even if I'm tired or whatever, if he wants it, he'll get it. Now if he wants to be a gentleman (which he is, and I'm lucky to have him) and not ask me if I'm beat up, well that's on him and it's not an excuse to masturbate or look at pornography. If I find out he's looked at pornography, it's presumed he's masturbated, too. He needs to learn to control himself. If he won't control himself, I'm going to control him until he learns to control himself. I'm to be the only source of his sexual delight, If he's going to abuse his privelege of ejaculating, I'm going to take it away.

    We've gone through a lot of things on this. For a long time, he wouldn't submit to chastity for more than 24 hours. He couldn't wear a cage to work because of safety rules. We're at the point now where if it's disciplinary chastity, he's in chastity for as long as I say he is. Since they've been having him work in the office more, and less in the field or the shop, the safety concern is gone, so he wears it to work, when he's in chastity. Until 2 weeks ago, he hasn't been in the field or shop since Jan. I had him in chastity for 6 weeks starting in Feb. It was supposed to be only 4, but one of the conditions was it came off during a supervised masturbation session and sissy maid service in front of some people at one of my friend's houses. One of the people had something come up at the last minute, so we had to reschedule it and 2 weeks later was the only time everyone could make it. I simply announced to him he was going to be in his cage for another 2 weeks. He protested and complained but didn't use his safe word. After he got out, he didn't look at pornography until May. I'm sure what kept him away from it was both his memory of the disciplinary session before I locked him up, several spankings while he was locked up and just being denied for 6 weeks. It was the longest he'd gone and he didn't like it. About 3 weeks ago, I found more pornography on his computer, so he got a week of chastity, a disciplinary session before I locked him up and another one when he came out in front of my best friend and her boss. He did have to cut off the lock one time during it, because they sent him in the field to cover an emergency. I don't give him an emergency key, because he has tools at home, at his job, in his truck and in his car that can get the lock off. He made sure long ago that I understood that it might happen. Now, I have "emergency locks".

    His pornography viewing has been less and less frequent, Taking away his ejaculation priveleges has been responsible for a lot of that.

    I can also use chastity as a bargaining chip. I will originally decree a long sentence, but offer him chances to get time off if he does this or that. This is especially effective for getting him to do things he would have safeworded out of before. For a long time, no males was a hard limit for him. I've gotten him to go to get togethers at houses where other submissive guys were present and be dressed and disciplined in front of them and their Mistresses by offering him time off. Of course, they've been disciplined in front of him, too. His 6 week sentence was originally 10. After a week, I offered 6 weeks off if he'd agree to let one of the ladies' bulls and her cuckold husband watch the supervised masturbation and get the sissy maid service. Since that friend told me she was going to have her bull do PIV and have her husband clean up after in front of everybody, I told him he had to watch and couldn't close his eyes. At first, he said no, but after 3 more days, he asked if the offer was still available.

    Afterwards, he said didn't mind watching the other guys get disciplined, but he said he still didn't like waiting on my friend's bull, He didn't like watching the other guys eat their own ejaculate, either. The one thing he really didn't like was watching the cuckold husband clean up after his wife's bull. He said it was worse than the bull seeing him in a maid dress and lingerie and the bull seeing him masturbate, eat his ejaculate and get spanked.
     
  16. @Cecilia B@Cecilia B

    Aside from pornography (lol) what else does he like? I'd imagine you. Can cater his interests and time spent.

    Full disclosure: I unfortunately don't live the wonderful life he lives so I'm sitting here jealous of him.

    Bravo to him for breaking through a hard limit. Appreciating a male presence always heightens things but then I've dated more men then women so maybe I'm a bit biased
     
  17. The things he likes that displease me most are
    1. pornography
    2. locker room talk with his buddies, regardless of where they are
    3. Getting the walls dirty when he works on things (and it's his house)
    4. leaving the toilet seat up
    5. throwing his dirty clothes to the bottom of the basement stairs and leaving them there until he or I decide to do wash.
    6. Not being shy about telling someone what he thinks of them when they piss him off.
    7. sometimes he drinks too much.
    8. Grandstanding in his antique car.

    #1 gets him spankings and chastity, no questions asked. I see it on his computer, he goes under discipline, which may or may not (usually it does) include chastity. He never deletes his history. He doesn't believe in hiding anything.

    #2 I have to put up with unless it's really bad. When we first met, I let him know I told my Best Friend everything. He said he understood. The first time I put him in panties, afterward I reminded him I was going to tell my Best Friend. He said I'd told him that from the start. The first time I spanked him, I reminded him I was telling my Best Friend. He said, again, he knew that. Well, Best Friend is what she is, so she gave him some real out of line kidding about it. He asked her to drop it, she wouldn't, so he told her just what he thought of her in the grossest terms. They didn't really like each other from the beginning, and I could tell that. Anyhow, it made me real mad, because he didn't have to take it to the extreme he did. It got pretty tense between us for a while. Finally, I told him I'd let it go if he agreed to be disciplined for it in front of her. He's gotten too far out of line a few other times, and had to pay for it with a red bottom, usually in front of the people he pissed off.

    #3 I just have to put up with, even if he's in chastity or under disciplilne.

    #4 when he's under discipline or in chastity is a spanking offense. Sometimes it gets an immediate spanking, sometimes scheduled and if I happen (ahem, ahem) to have a friend with me at the scheduled spanking time, well............................... If he's not in chastity or under discipline, he doesn't have to put it down, but I still don't like it. It's his house, though, so I can't really say much unless he's in chastity or under discipline and I'm in charge.

    #5 is a spanking offense and requires doing the wash in full maid dress and not using the dryer. He has to hang the clothes on the line in his maid dress.

    #6 is alot like #2.

    #7 I just have to put up with, unless he gets real out of line with someone.

    #8 I just have to put up with. He made it clear from the start that anything negative about that car is not a subject for discussion. The car stays, non negotiable.
     
  18. As I am obliged to wear a small chastity cage now every day, being asked to take a viagra with my breakfast means an uncomfortable frustrated day awaits this sissy.
    Not only do bad thoughts mean pain but extreme frustration as I involuntarily attempt to erect inside a 2'' cage with penis insert. Not advised.
    I have managed to master and control my excitement and thus my normal ability to attempt to erect while caged is normally subdued. I no longer seek stimulation while caged as it just frustrates me so my aim is to be calm and limp. Viagra messes this up and erections are attempted frequently and it is hard for me to stay non aroused.
    A good punishment that is mental and physical.

    Mitch
     
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  19. i has pills as well but theym Ladys pills.
     
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  20. Hi @Submissive_Michelle@Submissive_Michelle
    How often must you take viagra while caged ? Daily ? Weekly ? That does sound like one stiff punishment, excuse the pun. lol...As much as I would like to try that sometime, I don't think my KH would let me. It sounds like a very challenging punishment. Does anyone else out there have experience with this punishment. ? The closest I have come to something similar was to impose the opposite, taking a combination of chasteberry, hops, and flax seed oil. This drives down T levels and makes your ability to become erect much more difficult, especially if you follow the regiment for any period of time.
     
  21. As previously mentioned, there is a difference between fun punishments (funishments) and actual punishments for us.

    Funishments are an extension of play, role play or games. I generally enjoy them, even if they're uncomfortable or frustrating or humiliating.
    Punishments mean I actually, genuinely screwed up, broke a rule, and I won't enjoy them, or find them a drag.

    Examples - a funishment is being put in a large dog crate at the back of our closet, locked up, and left in the dark. A punishment is kneeling in rice with nipple clamps on facing a corner.

    It's always a fine line, and I'm sure varies for everyone!
     
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  22. Thats what I would call a real punishment more so if it post orgasm. Wrting task as a punishment are my pet hate.
     
  23. Okay, as I mentioned further ^up there^ my KH told me my punishment would be last Saturday. It's actually been taking place over the last week, and part of it was not being allowed to post to any social media, including here. Just to refresh, I've been having a problem with my cage spontaneously allowing one ball to retract and then coming off me altogether. The first couple of times it happened I used our emergency key to put it back on. The third time was in the shower, and I masturbated furiously. I admitted all this to her finally, and she was upset that I had not told her the first time it happened. She lives in another state, and is ambivalent about punishing me as it is. She likes my chastity more for the fun of keeping me locked up and doesn't want to 'be a dominatrix or something'. I love how she plays with my key now and then, as if tantalizing me with it. She did say once that if I really wanted to be spanked I should just ask her bff Lisa to do it, cause, I guess, Lisa must have expressed some tendency towards liking that kind of thing in the past. I told her no, I loved her, not Lisa, and it was her I would want to be spanked by, not just any woman. She said okay, and never mentioned it again. I should also mention that I've tried spanking myself in the past when not with a partner and found that it is not the same thing as having someone else do it.

    So I was uncaged for about 3 days, from Wednesday to last Saturday. I enjoyed the time off immensely, but I was starting to feel anxious about getting the cage back on. I just feel more secure that way. Weekends are usually my days to spend the entire time in female attire, and I was enjoying my blouse, skirt, hose, panties, bra, heels, wig, makeup etc. when KH phoned me. She had me put her on speaker, so we could talk easier. We chatted for a while, not bringing up the punishment question, when there was a knock on my door. I peaked outside and it was Lisa. KH told me to let her in. I asked her not to, that I was all dressed up, but she wouldn't listen. She said, 'You should have thought about that when you tried to hide things from my like a child. Now you're going to be treated like one.'

    It took a lot of arguing, but she wasn't relenting, and Lisa wasn't leaving, so finally I pulled up my big girl panties and opened the door.

    More later...chores to do now. Just wanted to get the history out of the way.:)
     
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  24. Your K/H knows best. I am looking forward to hearing the rest of the story once Lisa was invited in.
     
  25. Ar
    are they female hormone pills to make your cock shrink and your breasts grow?
     

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