Anyone into permanent chastity and denial ?

This is one situation where the fantasy may be WAY better than the reality. That's just my opinion. Different people take up chastity for different reasons. We took it up mostly to make me more attentive to her needs. It also increases my desire for her. On those occasions when I do get release, I will appreciate her much more. IF you simply want to be denied for the sake of being denied, then be careful what you wish for.

 

If you are denied permanently you lose all hope. If you get told that denial is forever, what have you got that will feed your fantasy? But if maybe, just maybe, you will be released tomorrow, then your fantasy is everything. It might be that tomorrow never comes, and neither do you, but at least you have the possibility to work with.

 

I agree with the others, having only been locked up a few weeks, I've still been let out a few times and feel like I would have died.

I love the feeling of being dominated, feeling horny all the time, and watching my girl get better orgasms from her toys than I can give her.

But permanent denial does seem kinda hopeless and pointless.

 

I have seen this type of inquiry several times over the years and never got any kind of reply by the OP that clarifies what they mean. It seems that the initial excitement of chastity clouds their judgement and reality as to what they are inquiring about.

Does permanent chastity and denial mean being locked up permanently with no unlock which would automatically mean permanent denial? If that's the case, first off, one has to have a cage that can be worn like that. The plastic device will not work for this. Second, you will have to develop a strict regiment when it comes to keeping clean. Third, like @Jasmic68 stated, there would be nothing to keep you motivated. Zero stimulation will eventually wear you down and the excitement will be gone. You're better off setting lesser goals to begin with to see if you could even handle long term. 3 months, 6 months or longer can seem like an eternity. Heck, for some guys, a week seems like an eternity.

We live a permanent chastity and denial that goes as follows. This has been going on for years.

Permanent chastity for us means I wear my device 24/7/365 including vacations, only being let out for some T&D with a cleaning and immediately locked back up when she is done with me. The longest I have gone without my device in years was about 8 hours when traveling. I haven't touched my penis in years also except if unlocked for doctors visits or airport security. My hands are always cuffed when unlocked in her presence. Time between releases varies all over the map. Sometimes she will unlock me a few times during a week or go as long as six months plus before unlocking me. Typically, it's 3 months or less. We have noticed that being locked with unlock for 6 months tends to make my libido drop. Not a lot, but it drops. We have found that some physical stimulation to my penis at around the 3 month mark keeps my libido strong. She still wants to try for 1 year which will happen because she wants to. I just don't know when. I just know that it's going to happen.

Permanent orgasm denial for us means I am never allowed to orgasm. Never. Haven't experienced a full blown orgasm in years. She is very good at teasing me while I am locked and does it quite often. Sometimes I am unlocked just to experience an erection and locked back up again. Sometimes she will lightly touch me with her fingers or hand or lips for a little while then locked back up. Sometimes she will slide her vagina on my cock or just over head for a couple of minutes then lock me back up. Sometimes she will slowly edge me in any manner she wants with her body and locks me back up. Or she with do the same over and over and over until I am out of my mind then lock me back up. Sometimes she will ride me like a bronco and slides off at just the right moment then locked back up immediately. Or maybe although are rare as can be, she will make me have a ruined orgasm where only a very slight amount of actual cum just leaks out. No pulsing or throbbing just the tiniest amount dribbling out. Typically when that happens, I know I am in for a super long lockup afterwards. Whatever she decides to do when she unlocks me is totally up to her. She gets all the sex she wants if and when she wants it whether I am locked or unlocked. The one constant being that she will not allow me to orgasm. She dangles the carrot in front of me by telling me that maybe, just maybe, that I will get to have a full blown orgasm the next time she unlocks me. She has gotten me so close, but......as usual...... Sigh!

Our permanent chastity and denial keeps me crazy aroused for her all the time. I wouldn't want it any other way.

So when you ask about permanent chastity and denial, just be sure you know what you asking and what you mean before you jump right into it. Permanent is a very long unsatisfying time if you are simply locked and forgotten. Not much motivation there. Doesn't do much good for anyone involved.

 

Locked and left doesnt work for me, but been locked, denied, teased and worked over regularly ie maintenance discipline certainly works !!

 

Pretty similar for me. Locked 24/7/365 except for going through airport/Eurostar security. Birthday, Christmas, doctor etc makes no difference. My wife had to rush off today to help someone out and I shall stay locked for New Year. When my wife and I have weekly sex (pussy worship) I stay locked. My JB does not allow any erection. At night my body seems to realise the situation after a few minutes and I'm not kept awake, but after pussy worship it takes a while for the burning sensation around my balls to diminish because I've been so stimulated by my wife's caresses all over my body except my penis ; I find that burning sensation the worse part of chastity. Milking happens about once a month. Even so I'm leaking quite a bit every night. I've had three ruined orgasms in the last year, all inside the cage and one ordinary orgasm outside of it which was extraordinarily strong. I'd like her to unlock me more often but I think she likes the spontaneity of just deciding to have sex and is put off by using her combination to unlock the mini-safe and fiddling around with keys, so I stay locked. We've never really said "this is what I'd like" to each other, things have just developed organically over a decade. We hardly talk about my locked-up at all, it's just the way things are. I can't really see them changing much at all in the future as she definitely loves not having to think about my orgasms during sex, she enjoys it much more when she can be self-absorbed and I do so love to see her thrashing around in ecstasy until she pushes me away with a plea of "no more!"

 

@harddenial My Holy Trainer appears to be having more of an issue containing my erections, especially reading posts like yours!

 

@harddenial nicely said . . . I agree

 

I was released 3 times in 2015 i hardly ever get releseased anymore.

 

I was released 3 times in 2015 i hardly ever get releseased anymore.

 

This maybe a complete fantasy and that is perfectly fine, but the realitiy is, this is not something most women would agree to or desire. I could be wrong. There might be a woman somewhere that wants an "it" to be a servant and that's fine too. I assume you are referring to denial of penal penetrative sex and not oral or reciprocating masturbation. If you truly wished this I can't for the life of me understand why you would post here in the first place. Forgive me, I am not trying to be antagonistic, or argumentative. I only want to filter through this and search for an answer to your question. I do know women that don't care for penetrative sex, but enjoy a fulfilling sex life.

I do not believe it is a common fantasy. What is a common fantasy is for a man to dersire a dominate woman to lock up his cock and not let him out, for a day or two.

My husband and I tried "permanent chastity" and I failed miserable. I'm the first one to admit it. It is not what either of us actually want. When a lock is sealed control is taken out of the hands of the dominate. I cherish the fact that I can unlock him any time I wish for any reason I want. That is why I don't care for some chastity games that are based on chance.

I suggest you rethink your original question.
And thank you for post it.

 

But that means you still had a release, and the chance of a release to look for. If your device was permanently sealed on the dynamic would change immediately. I would like to be released less than I am, but I couldn't go a year without release. Not yet.

My Wife is exactly the same as @MistressL She still wants to have sex with me. I am still trying to convince her that doing that but denying me the right to cum is absolutely what I want. We have only been doing this a few months so I am in no rush.

 

Your desire is my reality
I am locked and denied permanently since November 1, 2014
My wife has sealed my cage with epoxy adhesive
Now the only way to unlock (in case of medical emergency) is cut the locking post
Fortunately I can thoroughly clean my cage with hand shower
Permanent chastity is altogether a different life!
PIV sex, masturbation, handling my cock etc have disappeared from my life
My wife enjoys oral sex from me whenever she wants

 

uhm, uhm, point of order... permanent denial impacts the wife as well... what does *she* say on the matter?

This is where fantasy and reality conflict often...

 

Permanent denial of my orgasm has no impact on my Wife other than she never gets hot globs of goo shooting out of me into her. it does however have the impact that I am always desperate to pleasure her, as when she has an orgasm I reach a state of near bliss. I thought I was not into permanent denial until my Wife informed me that was what we are doing from now on. I don't know if I am ready for it, but I am ready to try.

 

Sounds like you *both* have a common interest in it then, and that's exactly how I hoped it could be for anyone!

 

I have to admit that before this happened I happily spouted the opinion that anyone brought to permanent denial would have nothing to hope for, nothing to keep them interested. I was wrong. I agree though that it does have to be a common interest.

 

Exactly what I was trying to get across in my previous post on this thread. I also try to get it across on other threads also when people talk about permanent chastity.

Permanent orgasm denial is a far cry from permanently locked and is unbelievably rewarding to both people involved. We have the best sex we have ever had yet I don't get to orgasm. I only get unlocked rarely when she is in the mood to drive me crazy since she could care less if she ever had intercourse ever again. Her favorite has always been to be serviced orally and gets plenty of it and is my favorite too. It keeps me exactly where I want to be. There's no feeling I love more than getting erect and throbbing in my cage for her almost all day, everyday. The longer I go without an orgasm, the more aroused I am for her. Like Viagra on steroids

Permanent orgasm denial with a chastity device involved = The best as far as we are concerned.

Permanent lockup with no unlocked stimulation ever = Why Bother?

 

Yes: its fantasy for some, real for others, though I think a minority. Not very common but it does happen.

 

I have no penetration sex with my girlfriend at all, just cunnilingus for her. And she demands permanent orgasm denial. So it is real for some

 

It's not an uncommon fantasy, I myself have had the same fantasy, but to be honest it's probably best kept as a fantasy. from a practical point of view, in my fantasy I would want my device to be permanently locked on, never removed for cleaning etc, and that's just not practical with my device, that's quite ignoring the other factors that make the reality unfeasible. which include what would happen if my relationship ended, the desire for sex despite the fantasy, etc.

 

Wow!

 

Permanent Chastity is a fantasy of mine as well. I often think about what the ideal device would look like and how it would lock permanently. Engineering is my hobby and material science my profession, so the "what" and "how" have been worked out several times over. I also get a thrill when fantasizing about producing and locking such devices on others. Not sure why Just to throw this out there, I think the excuses surrounding airports, Doctors, cleaning, and things like that are simply excuses. Problems that can easily be solved by anyone who is "actually" serious about the lifestyle. The "why" for me, is a little harder for me to put a finger on. I feel as if my life would be vastly simplified, more productive, and I'd be a better husband because I'd spend less time trying to fill my own bottomless pit of sexual satisfaction. An endeavor that thus far has led me down many unhealthy and damaging paths. My wife really doesn't have a need, want, or desire for intercourse with me, she's told me that. She still wants the all the intimacies and touch that go along with a healthy marriage, but any time she is in the mood for an O, my penis is the last thing she wants. She also hasn't the desire to lead the relationship or be dominant in any way. So for us, her loosing the leverage of "holding the key" isn't that much of an issue.
In realty, I don't think we've experienced the lifestyle enough yet to make the decision. One day, I see us celebrating the one year anniversary of my being locked and making an informed decision at that point. Which at the moment, I hope that means sealing the lock. Truly though, any speculation about actual results of such a decision at this point for us, is just that, speculation.

 

@Unyielding , you read my mind lol. I have had the same thoughts exactly. Though in my situation my wife still wants my penis occasionally. But I definitely agree with everything else. My life seems to revolve around filling my own bottomless pit of sexual satisfaction.