Well, maybe not a problem. I am never allowed an orgasm, but I can lick my wife's pussy and ass almost any time I want, even drink her pee, but she acts like she could care less, she just talks about shopping or the events of the day and all I want to think about is sex. Ok, about once or twice a week she wants an orgasm with her Magic Wand, I sit between her legs and she works her pussy with the wand and it takes 5 to 10 minutes for her to get off. Now is the only time she really enjoys me licking her pussy and ass, she is really turned on with my tongue in her ass. She says it extends her orgasms. About every 3 hours of the day I ask her if I can lick her ass...she always says ok, but acts like she could care less.