Any of you guys ever broken down and cried??

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    My girlfriend/kh had me read "Practical FLR" by J M Scott.
    In it she says that a man will break down and cry when he fully realizes he is powerless. She says it's a stage all FLR relationships come to if they go far enough.
    Any of you guys ever break down and cry?
     
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    Not going to happen for something I can always change
     
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    If she carried it too far, it would be her tears. Remember its only what you are willing to give up. She can't take anything.
     
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    haven't read the book but it sounds to me like the author is trying to turn this into a psycho-medical situation, like the stages of grief following bereavement.

    But it's not the same. This is a lifestyle choice based on my beliefs, not something imposed.

    So no. It wouldn't happen.
     
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    I don’t cry easily. I’d love to try a scene intense enough to make me cry.
     
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    I am not feminine but I do cry at movies. I dont know why.
    That said, what I am discovering is, at times my gf/kh will bounce an idea off of me to try. Sometimes my initial reaction to some of these ideas will be "no way". Then, every time I have said "no way" I end up changing my mind and saying "sure".
    That being said, there is no telling how far she will be able to break me down, if she takes her time and does it right.
    It's kind of scary.
     
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    I may have gotten a little misty-eyed when we first locked up and were spending a lot more time cuddling. It didn't occur to me how much I missed the physical affection and when it returned so quickly at the beginning of chastity, it struck me pretty sharply one evening.

    No sobbing. No crying. No loss of control.
     
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    When my partner introduced me to this Life I thought I had to read as much as possible and become someone else to please him because it so far from what I've ever had in life and social norms and the image you have when people talk about chastity and bdsm ect but from what I've learnt on here is not about following directions in a book it's about living your best life being yourself and having fun enjoying who you are and what turns you on together as a partnership respect loyalty communication and trust
     
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    Thanks very much for that-
    That's fantastic advice.
    I think we are just finding our way and we have lots of questions. We are still trying to learn, and wondering what's in store.
    What you said feels true for me, though.
    I'm going to show my kh/gf your post. She is your age, actually.
    It's nice to meet someone with a level head about things.
     
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    My apologies for the double post. See my response below. Again sorry about that.
     
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    Bravo!! you are 100% correct. You cannot and should not even attempt to change who you are or who your partner is. The best we can hope for in life is to find some one we are compatible with and grow together.
     
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