Hi, I feel more and more the need to submit and serve. I am looking for someone to be in real life. I am in Boston. I am educated and can enjoy both complexity and simplicity. I can sustain an interesting conversation and abound that goes beyond mere kinks. Cultural events (concert, movie, museum), cooking, walk in the woods, sport/gym, etc. I need to be controlled, used, abused maybe. I've always been a switch, so I can do that too if my partner wants.