Hello all.... I'm a mid 50's single white male who has grown into a submissive over the past 20 - 25 years to include chastity. I bought my first in early 2015, was so excited I could barely get it on. Now 3 years later I have purchased my second cage, somethimes still a challenge to get into but easier. While I've chatted or played with many online there is no longer much satisfaction in that venue. I would like to find a true, real key holder (KH). The lovely lady does not necessarily have to have experience, we could learn about how to incorporate this into real life together. In my daily life most if not all would not suspect this submissive desire to serve side of me. I have extended my time caged, restrained on my own and look forward to learning how to further push my limits. Hopefully most of the real ladies here do understand the differnce between submissive and stupid. While I may be submissive I have also learned that means I offer up my submission. Sending a message with a demand with instructions of 'if you don't follow this, you aren't submissive' just isn't what this is about. Respectfully & thank you.
Welcome to Chastity Mansion, @KHneeded4me2018 I am both new to chastity and new here so am learning like you. There are plenty of wise and knowledgeable people here to help you.
You realize that there are female locked slaves here, right? My slavegirl is often one of the first to welcome new people, and always happy to chat. But she really didn't have a response to your poll.
Welcome, I am similar in age but have been wearing device(s) for quite a few years now and if I can share any experience that may help do let me know. Regards Paul
I guess I could also quality as an "older newbie." I am 62 and have been married for 33 years but, like yourself, gradually evolved and accepted my sub nature. I have only been locked (with my wife as my quite enthusiastic KH) since November 2015, so almost 2 1/2 years now. Anyway, a big welcome! Allan
I too am an older convert: soon to be 60 and evolving into submission and chastity relatively recently. However, my journey has been in the context of a 30+-year marriage, so I don't have experience with the problem of finding a KH from scratch. But I'll chime in when I can on more general issues.
Thanks to all of you for the warm welcome and support. PrincessK, I did not realize there were locked F's, my apologies. Learned something new already. Currently still unlocked enjoying the threads / forums.