I need to start thinking of an anniversary gift to get my Wife this year. It will be 4 years. Last year I went with a leather whip. This year the tradition is flowers and/or fruit which is simple. The modern is an appliance. Question: wanting to stay in the realm and give something in the sex/fetish/kink area, what should it be?
Do not remember where, but I have seen roses made out of leather, I believe there were both black and red ones. But I would also get something else besides those.
I don’t know what kind of toys you already own but...some standards never go out of style. Wand type(hitachi or doxy) vibe A very nice rabbit style vibe Nice leather boots(know her size) Massage by a masseuse or spa day Bath soaps, oils, and lotions...and the time Hotel room, plan things she enjoys I suggest getting a less kink or sex oriented gift as well
Make her an appointment for a spa day. Massage and full body pampering. Dont just give her a gift certificate for it. Drive Her to the spa and wait for Her. Then maybe take her out for a nice dinner. While a whip, or sexy high heels are a nice gift, that is giving her something that pleases you more than Her.
don't make it something she would use on you, like whips or the like. Make it something purely for her. The spa idea mentioned above sounds excellent.
Yes to all great ideas . I don’t have a problem with the pampering of my wife as that is an easy side of this however I do like to also go outside the box and get something on the naughty side. So I like the idea of the wand. Any other naughty appliance ideas?
Not really much of a choice to stay outside the “box” till she unlocks you lol Sorry had to ! The wand massager is always a great gift for them they always do the trick! Unlike us sometimes unfortunately lol
A spa day is a great idea. I bought my KH a spa day for her and a friend. She loved it! A little more of an “outside the box” idea would be a pair of leather boots. Ones that can be used behind closed doors, but she can also wear them out in public. Same goes with leather (or pleather) pants. I agree with other posts that something like a whip is more for you than for her. Theres nothing wrong with buying her a whip, but save it for a “just because” gift. Not for an anniversary.
My wife loves heels and has a vast collection. She always wanted a pair of red bottoms so when we were in Vegas last fall, I said if you really want em, go for it. We went shopping and she couldn't get em to fit. 5.5 was too small, 6 was too big. I got major points for encouraging the purchase but didn't have to fund it. Whew.
According to Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_anniversary#Celebration_and_gifts For 5th you have the fruit/flowers (Traditional), "linen/silk" (UK), or Electrical appliances (Chicago Public Library). I vote for a nice silk corset (or other lingerie) Or a Hitachi-style wand (it's a plug! that's an appliance)
These folks - Fernando Berlin - are in Portugal and they make HIGH QUALITY boots made to measure. Here's an example above. You start by worshipping her feet - maybe giving her a foot massage - and then while you are on your knees you carefully begin to take all the measurements needed for her new custom boots, while she decides on the exact style, material, color etc. While certainly more expensive than your typical cheap-n-cheerful Chinese imports, Fernando Berlin's boots are an absolute bargain when you consider the quality of the materials, old world workmanship, and that they are made to measure! The pair pictured above is about €500. And, there are less expensive boots to choose from in different styles / lengths. Mistress has them - Mistress loves them. See: https://www.fernandoberlinboots.com
Great great awesome ideas and started looking at heels and the wife caught me. Said was doing some research and she went and put on some black high heels and we definitely got frisky.