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Discussion in 'Difficulties with wearing a device?' started by Setaphen, Sep 14, 2018.

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    Hi, this is my first post. I was originally excited about chastity, but the steps I have taken thus far have led to disappointing discoveries.

    I had started out by purchasing a silicone CB6000S-type knock-off. My first observations were that it was extremely difficult to get inside the cage. The material was quite irritating against the skin, and the ring gaps would pinch. Most ridiculous was the fact that the whole thing was easily removable with some effort. Even when locked, with the smallest ring size, the flexibility of silicone allowed such that it could be bent and then pulled apart, and the locking pin could be sent back through the ring. It’s laughable, to be honest. However, worst of all was what would happen as an erection approached. My balls would move upward, and as much of the skin and testicular matter as possible would feed back through the ring while the cage would be pushed downward, taking the ring farther forward. This essentially made the device horribly painful with the amount of tension it created. I knew it was no good and I looked for something different.

    My second candidate was a Rikers-style polycarbonate cage (again a knockoff), main appeal being the fact that it’s not silicone. The cage was a tight fit both length and girth-wise. But it actually worked. It was effectively inescapable. But then, the same problem. As the erection attempted to form, my sack would feed right back through the sides of the ring, and the tip would push the cage and the ring as far forward as it possibly could. Even with the smallest ring size this would happen, and once that skin was through it couldn’t be tugged back inside the ring. The entire contraption slid so far forward it would create immense pressure on my balls turning them purple. The ring was no longer between my legs, my mound completely on the wrong side and being squeezed, to add to the discomfort. Once again, no good.

    So from what I’ve gathered from seeing complaints from people suffering the same problem, it might just be that our anatomy is fundamentally different, making many of the options out there just not viable. I’ve also gathered that there may not really be a solution for us short of the PA or perhaps a belt (both of which I’m not willing to do). So through my limited exploration of this kink I have come to realize that if I want to continue, then there will likely be a very cruel road ahead for me. My instincts are telling me to quit but I really just want to find the one that works and put the disappointment past me. Is there any chastity device you could suggest? A non-piercing non-belt solution for a grower nearly ready to throw in the towel?
     
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    Finding the right fit is definitely a challenge for growers, you are not alone. The trick is to find a cage short enough to prevent the erection from really getting going. Having a ring that gets some grip on your skin may be necessary, and one that fits pretty snugly. I wound up custom designing cages to my liking, and haven't looked back since! Each one has been a a bit smaller than the last, and each one winds up more comfortable.

    Leaving room to grow in cages is not the right answer unless you are a show-er, and have very little change between flaccid size and erect size (even then I'd argue to squish it down some!)
     
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    The only solution I would think is to get a longer cage. The first device I bought was an Evotions Chinese knockoff (green and white). When it was on it felt great and comfortable. I would be able to get an erection for the most part without much tug on the twins. What I didn’t like is that flaccid I didn’t come close to filling the cage (along with other design flaws the cage had). So I got a smaller cage and on occasion have had the painful ball tugging situation you have described.

    With a longer cage you are still in chastity but have the ability for more self pleasure as you can become mostly erect in it. Pros and cons.
     
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    Two responses, two opposite answers... what that means really is there's no one right solution that works for everyone. Keep at it, ask for advice, and try a bunch of different things until you find what works for you!
     
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    A longer (and probably wider diameter) cage might just be the answer. Come to think of it, I believe the main issue for me to be the expanding girth during the attempted erection, which, beginning at the mound, will begin to squeeze and push the entrance of the cage, taking the whole contraption with it. Also not sure why the Rikers knockoff cage’s entrance bends down at close to a 90 degree angle, but did add immensely to the pain as it dug into the shaft skin and likely contributed to the forward sliding of the device.

    Now, knowing this information is one thing but having some idea of where to go from here is another entirely. Without specific guidance it just feels inevitable that I will countinue to run into versions of my predicament.
     
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    i wore a Rikers for an extended period of time, difficult for hygiene and for longer term wear, also bulky as the base ring can be uncomfortable. If your serious and want a really comfortable and secure device invest in a Mature Metal cage. i can't say enough about how a custom build chastity device can make all the difference.
     
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