An overdue introduction

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    I've already jumped into participating in threads in other other forums but have not taken the time to introduce myself. I feel it is overdue that I try to tell a little bit about myself.

    I'm a man in his mid-50's who has been aware of submissive tendencies and desires for 40+ years. There are a few reasons, I think, why this developed so early in me but that's for another thread. I'm married and my wife and I have employed chastity at various times in our relationship. The last year has been rather disruptive for us but there is usually a D/s dynamic in our relationship.

    We started out with the CB-2000, the Curve, the CB-6000 and then tried a NeoSteel belt before settling on the JailBird by MatureMetal. About a year ago we also bought a Tiffany from Steelwerks Extreme. The latter is a work of art but I fear the sizing is a bit off. In fact, I think I still need to tweak my JailBird but for now I alternate between the two when in chastity.

    I introduced this concept to our marriage and my wife's interest level varies from indifferent to fairly engaged and sometimes I am just too stressed about things to let go. I imagine this is not that different from what many real world couples experience.

    Personally, I would love for my wife to re-engage and put in place an enforced chastity program but that does not appear to be in the cards at the moment and I don't wish to put any pressure on her.

    Our story is more complex than this but that's a decent synopsis for now. I'm here to learn more about what others are doing and in same ways to live a little vicariously through the stories of other IRL FLR couples. When I can, I will try to share what I have learned or seen.
     
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    Welcome to the site :)
     
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    welcome. You'll find plenty of kindred spirits here. Hope you and your wife find a way that satisfies you both.
     
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    Welcome
     
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    Welcome @subiam ! It sounds like you are pretty typical of the married folks on this site. Chastity interest seems to peak and wain from time to time in all of us and open communication seems to be the secret elixer to a successful relationship. Enjoy the site!
     
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    Welcome to the wild world of being Locked
     
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    Welcome!
     
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    heeloo @subiam and welcome to here and I hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion.
     
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    Glad to hear your story, hope you'll share your experiences and likewise learn from ours.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion. Happy that you found us. We will do all that we
    can to help, enjoy your stay:+1:
     
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    Hi all! I have been wanting to join this site for quite a while and am excited to be here :). My fiancé and I have just decided to make my chastity a lifestyle and I am now her cuckold slave. I am enjoying every bit of it but am hoping that she becomes more dominant on a day to day basis. Any ideas or advice are more than welcome.
     
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