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    You are understood loud and clear. Great read so far.
     
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    Good morning. He slept a bit restless last night, completely satisfied but in the small tube. Did I took it intentionally last evening?
    Today I will go to my company office and he can stay at home.
    With a plaster attached I can handle to wear a thong again. I can feel every heartbeat in my clit.
    Remooving the plaster becomes uncomfortable, it gets furry downstairs.
     
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    No comments on lock picking?
     
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    There is no fool proof method of locking in chastity. In the end, even when pierced, this is largely symbolic. Any lock can be picked, a vibrator can be used on the cage, even pulsed water from a shower head can get the job done. Chastity is often said to be a commitment of the mind and the device is the physical symbol of it.
     
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    I think, I can finish my work for today soon.
    He texted, that he is fine, still in the small tube, quite comfortable after the relief.

    On the way home, I will buy us some cake and we have coffee together.

    I am phantazising about washing him, I want to care his cock. And I want to introduce him caring my wound, careully with desinfection, Q-tip and flowing water. It seems healing normaly, just careful attention, no playing yet.
     
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    I totally agree to you. Mutual comittment is definitely fundamental.

    My point shall not be about leaving the road but about technical issues.
    Are these locks diferent from a higher standard company to a chinese knockoff?
    I read that it is often a long road via some different devices. Anybody there with a few of this devices and tried other keys?
    These locks go into shower and aren't not used often (intentionally ;)). Do they need maintanance, do they break? Did anybody made such observations?
     
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    Agree fully. It takes some mental gymnastics to convince yourself you're helplessly locked. Most men, could, you know, overpower most women and just take the damn keys away if they really wanted.
     
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    I use a Burg Wachter barrel style lock. They are the industry standard for barrel style. Yes, I have tried other keys from other barrels and one of the keys worked. It’s just too small to effectively get enough variation. It’s a good idea to occasionally apply some lock set oil or equivalent into the key hole from time to time. They are solid brass so they should last a lifetime. If you have a padlock style then I would ditch the chinese junk lock and buy a solid brass Master lock.
     
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    I have a Vice Mini which uses a padlock. I've replaced the cheap padlock (it rusted quickly) that comes with it with a Master Lock. I don't think the Master padlock would be as easy to pick based on that video you just shared. The Vice also has an anti-pullout which makes it more difficult and painful to pullout and almost impossible to get back into without removal of the cage.

    What type of piercing did you get? is it one of the piercings on this site? https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/vagina-piercing-risks-benefits-photos
     
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    Thanks for asking, It's a vertical clit hood piercing.
     
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    Sounds good! I'll be interested to see how it works out for you and if it enhances your stimulation / arousal.
     
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    Convincing
     
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    Extremely convincing, actually.

    just grabbing the key at an ocasion e. g. cleaning seems to be far away from domestic violence. And then actively decline is always an option. But staying in the relationship seems to be better than breaking it maybe. Or beyond that actively accepting an own submissive role. Does this describe the situation for the experienced couples here?
     
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    Wow. I missed a lot. Been interesting reading and catching up. I'm glad things are going so well for you both.
     
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    On easter Sunday we are visiting our parents house.
    There are living my mother, our younger brother, aged 33, is wife around the same age, thier four year old son and two year old daugter.
    He said, he can not wear a cgae while they might jump to his lap. I agree to that, we will find a solution.
     
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    Don't fall for it
     
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    I watch small grandchildren 4 days a week who are always jumping on my lap. I wear padded disposable underwear around them and have had no problems. They DO jump all over me too.
     
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    Thanks for your sugestions but I think I found a different approach.
    He won't have to wear the cage for the visit but we won't count this day in the sequence we are agreed on. I am confident to onvince him in some tease and denial. we didn't try his Gush toy combined with the cage. We both will enjoy that.
     
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    I texted him that we will have toy time tomorrow in the morning, we will egde eachother. He may have this in mind the whole day. And I told him that I am very proud about him to commit to our agreement and that it would be suspicious if he wasn't leaking tomorrow, because this was the case after three chaste days recently.
    I love him.

    So he does, he replied, added a devil emoji.
     
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    Well said.
     
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    I'll keep you on track. I am deeply interested as well ;-)
     
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    Won't fail, have to be creative.
     
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    Bavarian Woman,

    I bet you have a devilish smile.

    Tease us with a pic of you!

    Just a sample...
     
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    Good morning everybody
    Before we wnet to bed, I asked him to check that our toys will be fully loaded in the morning.
    Currently we are spooning the opposite than usually. Now I am backside, so his arm are in front and I can hide my wound inside my thighs. I whispered in his ear if it was easer or harder for him if I would cress his ball.
    Harder for sure, the said. So shall I or not? Please touch them. So I did until I felt some dropsleaking. He moaned silently.

    He is in the kitchen preparing breakfast in bed. I let him struggle a bit, he already wanted to play before breakfast.
     
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    I am sorry for the typos, used the phone.
     
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