In a previous post in the Foyer, as way of introduction, I described how my wife and I found chastity quite by chance. I bought a CB 3000 for fun, I thought, and mostly hers, intending for it to spice up our sex life a bit. Like mostly on weekends, I presumed. Well she has really taken to it and now it seems she wants me in it all the time! I mean in the six weeks since we began this, I have been out of the thing maybe 4 days and I am now going on my second stretch of more than a week in it. I know that sounds like nothing to some of you, but I honestly dont know how you do it This is certainly not what I had in mind. She has totally embraced the control thing. For me, I notice that the first couple of days it is quite easy. The next couple of days I start to think about sex (which has been incredible, btw) and start to make overtures and this leads to nights where I service her, followed by her kissing me (or kissing me off) and then turning over and falling fast asleep. I dont mind that part, really. I get much enjoyment and satisfaction out of satisfying her. I mean I do love her after all. But by the end of the week though, I am busting to get laid. And I can see it is heading there and she is wanting it too, but twice now it got foiled and I was left holding, well nothing, really, because I cant get to it! Last weekend for example, I did everything I was told to do. Made the bed, did the dishes, went grocery shopping and prepared a fabulous Saturday nite dinner, with wine and candles! Afterwards I kissed her everywhere selflessly and with abandon. She came more times than either of us could count. Again, I got the kiss /kiss off goodnight. But Sunday I knew she wanted to have me. She woke up in a great mood, telling me the more she got it the more she wanted it! Well that lasted until afternoon, when a certain annoyance made me lose my temper and raise my voice for like 15 seconds. That was it! She was pissed and the mood changed and I knew I would go to bed frustrated. Monday she was still mad. And I was pissed which she sensed, but had no idea how much. And there is the issue. This does not feel like fun. I did not bargain to give up all control all the time. But still I want to give this to her if she wants it to continue like this. So my question is am I being a whiny baby or do I have legit concerns? If she wants this 24/7 do I accept that for her? If so, does the lack of control and denial of sex get easier to accept over time? And what if this goes on for a lot longer? How do you cope? Thanks for any advice.