Hi there: I approached my wife about wearing a secure device and she loved the idea VERY much. So, I ordered a Lori 5b and took precise measurements so it fits snugly to my flaccid penis. The internal diameter will be 1 in. We'd like to ask KEYHOLDERS for advice on how to introduce me to the chastity regimen in terms of lengths of time over the course of the next 12 months. initially we thought of an initial 30 day period, then 60, followed by 90, and then back to series of 30 days. Is this adequate? I've been a selfish masturbator all my life and I now definitely want to put an end to it, once for all. Best wishes to all
Play it by ear, it may just be for a few hours, then 12, then 24, then a week. Learn from experience, your body, libido and mind will take time to adapt. Don't try to promise too much or force the face. And enjoy! Guy
This is definitely a topic that the 100ish women on the site know more about than the thousands of men.
As soon as I did a week locked up, I had been unlocked and allowed to wash and clean my self, and as madam was shutting my lock, she calmly said that this it, if I asked to be locked then I had no more say, if I didn’t then I could take it off right now, I said please lock it, And it’s been 24/7 ever since.
We jumped in with both feet immediately. Once the device arrived he was locked in it 24/7 except for doctor visits, play and cleansing. We did do nightly inspections the first week or so just to make sure there were no sores or other issues. We were lucky and the device fit great from the beginning. We have been enjoying our FLRD for almost three months now so I am definitely not an expert. My best advice is take it a day at a time and listen to your body. If it hurts you may have to be unlocked for short intervals until you can adjust. Good luck!