Ok, where to start lol. So I'm currently in a relationship that I've been in for around 6 months, to begin with my girlfriend was quite vanilla but we've slowly progressed to using some toys and even some light ball busting. For the longest time I've fantasized about being cuckolded and being kept in chastity, and these thoughts have only gotten more intense from being in a relationship. I really want to bring these things up with my girlfriend and see how she feels, on the chastity front I would happily give complete control over to her and have experimented with chastity in private before. On the cuckold front, I'm not sure if I want to actual take this into reality and if so to what extent, but really want to play around with the idea together. My question is, which should I bring up first, or should I do both at once, and how do I bring them up. Im worried about freaking her out and scaring her off, and don't want to rush into something to fast. If anyone has any advice at all it would be massively appreciated
Your relationship is very young 6 months almost makes you a virgin in the relationship category. I was with my spouse for 30 years before we started chastity. So take it slow. You honestly hardly know this girl. If you introduce cuckold what does she need you for. Get to know her on an item to level I do t mean having sex with her I mean what makes her happy, her dreams and desires. Make her the most important person in the world. Than present the idea of Chastity to her for Her benefit not Yours. More orgasms for her and more attention to her pleasures. Take your time. If it's meant to be it will be. And you will have a journey that will Blow your Mind. Be patient
As I said in my last reply to this question, it is a dangerous path you seek, especially with a girlfriend that you have not know for long. It requires a very high level of trust and love which you are not going to get in the amount of time you two have been together as a serious couple. I lost my girlfriend of one year. She lived with me and was cuckolding me. You can cheat even when you give them permission to have sex with others. I do not know anyone in real life who just tells their female partner to have sex with anyone at anytime and don't keep me informed of what is going on or does not care if they are having sex with people who are likely to have an STD or do not use a condom. My girlfriend broke one of our few rules by letting my friends know I was her cuckold by asking them to gang bang her. Turns out that she was having sex with two of them anyway without telling me. Then again, trying cuckolding with a disposable girlfriend is much better than trying it with a wife. Ever see a long married couple or relationship into cuckolding? Ever meet a cuckold in real life? It is not as prevalent as the internet and porn makes it seem. What you are seeing is a lot of guys into the fantasy with most pretending to actually do it. I have only met 4 cucks over 44 years and never another bull despite being in a fetish non monogamous marriage with both of us being polyamorous.