Advice needed for Promised PIV

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    #1 Andylocked, May 25, 2023
    Going away in July - wife wants me to remain locked until then. 100 days will earn me PIV - which is nice!! However, wife wants me to wear a condom and wants me to finish off inside her. My only concern is, after 100 days, I will probably only last 10 seconds thus spoiling this for both of us….
    My question is, would a ruined orgasm beforehand help with lasting longer during PIV after the ruin?
    Anyone out there with experience in this ? Thanks
     
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    #2 BarbCD, May 25, 2023
    If she is asking you to wear a condom then I suggesting a desensitizer. You should be able to last quite a while and still enjoy much of the pleasure.
     
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    #3 Queens servant73, May 25, 2023
    Wife did this last summer before our 31st anniversary, it was only 55 days for me though, but she gave me an incredible slow and light ruin by handjob before we had piv, no orgasm for me. We had discussed that we didn’t want me to have the drop and laziness while on our romantic trip. So, she gave me a ruin each day of our trip until the final day, then allowed me to orgasm by piv our final night and the morning before we packed up and had to leave. It worked out perfectly, I still received relief and had more orgasms within a handful of days than the previous couple months combined, and we were able to make love multiple times per day without having to use numbing cream or condoms.
    Not sure how that would work for 100 days
     
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    #4 Shellysboytoy, May 25, 2023
    Good suggestions above. One other one... Set the expectation. Turns out my wife LOVES that she has made me so sensitive.

    She has really enjoyed be in control, and she especially loves the fact that she is still in control even when I'm unlocked and attempting to hold out.

    My last release was two-ish weeks ago. I was bitting the inside of my cheek and clenching ever muscle I could control. She was riding me. She stopped, looked me in the eye, touched my face, and said, "I'm proud of you for lasting so long." That sent me over the edge.

    I had assumed it I'd lasted 10 minutes. It was only 3. But she giggled with delight. She gave me a minute to come to my senses, and then I serviced her in a way that she enjoyed.

    For us the loss in stamina has been part of the experience of me giving control and her taking it.
     
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    #5 BavarianWoman, May 25, 2023
    You did not mention her intention. Does she want you to last or not?
    A ruined orgasm before PIV works for us but we train with edging and ruining.
     
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    #6 Andylocked, May 25, 2023
    Am pretty sure she will be expecting me to work as previously before we started the “100 day challenge”…. ie, every way that’s physically possible for a guy who will be 60 in June! At least until her 45 year old body gives up…. That’s how it was but PIV has been less and less the last couple of years - we’ve been married 12 years, and we have a young daughter - so not unsurprising… but a night away ?? That last happened 10 years ago!!! So I have no idea how my caged member is gonna work that night!!
     
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    #7 BavarianWoman, May 26, 2023
    Do you get teased or ruined during that hundred days? Might indicate your stamina.
     
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    #8 Andylocked, May 26, 2023
    I’ve had 2 ruins…. Both times I was so horny at getting a release of any kind…. I probably lasted a minute!!! Maybe!!
     
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    #9 Andylocked, May 26, 2023
    I’m kinda thinking….. little blue pill - delay/numbing cream as well as condom… (maybe 2!! ) and I should be able to keep going without getting over excited!!
     
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    #10 BavarianWoman, May 26, 2023
    We don't have experience with the blue pill but a bit with numbing cream. It can have a strong effect. Don't numb the whole penis, too few sensation might kill the erection. We numbed just the glans, he kept being hard but did not had enough sensation to cum.
    Maybe try teasing with just a bit of numbing at the most sensitive spots.
     
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