Hey guys It's been like 3 weeks i have been using a cock ring over my cock and balls all day everyday, except at night, in preparation to my chastity journey. I still cant go all night without a burning feeling but im slowly heading there! Anyhow, lately i read on this forum that using another ring around the balls prevent them from slipping through the larger ring especially for someone that have small balls and that worked really well to me. I'm able to use a 1.5" ring around my balls with some spare gap, however my testicles are becoming very sensitive, very dry and sore on some spots. What can i do to improve my skin? with more use do the skin get used to it? According to some blogs i can use a ring with diameter that is 0.8 times my diameter measurement for the loosest and 0.74 for the tightest. So at 1.5" / 38 mm im well on the loosest side. (my diameter measurement was about 45mm) As for the cock and ball ring im having skin soreness too and some spots are red and sensitive. I'm trying to put baby ointment but its not so effective. Any advice?
I know there many options with some things working better than others for some people - I would say you definitely need lube of some sort, maybe silicone based or something such as that. If you are getting skin soreness and spots you should really take a break and give the skin time to recover.
@headlovr You don't actually say what cage you are using but I would certainly advise what Jules has told you. It could be a skin reaction to whatever the cage is made of.
2 things work great for different rights. For a wet method use a silicone lubricant such as "Gun Oil" (not the kind used for firearms). For a dry method use "Fresh Balls". It is a powder product, that goes on as a cream and turns to a powder. G
@Mistress B i didnt specify my cage since im still not using it, but ill use the one in my picture. I'm using a regular metal cock ring, do you think its a reaction to it? Thanks everyone for the advice!
Hi Unless it's actually going a funny colour or rusty , the device not your boy bits , reaction to the stainless steel is unlikely. As you stretch what is very soft thin skin it's going to take time to get used to this new activitie. Simple baby oil is good , but be very careful how much you massage your bits before you end up being a bad boy. Xx Wendy
I've asked the cage manufacture and it is made of 304 stainless steel. How do you guys classify it? very good, good or not? @Wendygirl For the cock ring, my cock and ball ring lost its shininess and became a plain grey due to prolonged wear, but, beyond that, its not getting rusty or funny in color. As you said, my skin is very thin and soft and it was not accustomed to any activity at all, so i think you are right in that it will take time. And its not good if i massage it too much, im a very bad boy
Hi OK books and pencil at the ready. 304 against 316 stainless steel. 304 good quality very common use food industry and the like . But with one exception it's not good with salt in high concentration or prolonged exposure thus no good for boat fittings. 316 has the vital ingredient of molybdenum which makes it very resistant to corrosion in all but the most extreme conditions . Hence it's use in implants . That is why 316l is the metal of choice for body jewellery. Xx Wendy
Another 'gun oil' silicon lube enthusiast here. Brilliant stuff. You can get big bottles of it on ebay.
@Wendygirl so the cage im looking at is not good to use long term? see http://www.dhgate.com/product/2016-stainless-steel-super-small-male-chastity/383707618.html do you know where i can buy cheap stainless steel cages that use 316l?
I don't think that's what they're saying. It's absolutely fine for a cage, although if it was for a piercing you'd want the 316L steel for long term use as it goes in your body. You are NOT going to get that used on any cheap device, I can tell you now.
@keephimcaged ah okay, i understand. Good point actually. Later when i can i'll buy a custom made cage, but as of now , money is a concern hehe
Lol exactly! Unless you are doing something that would notionally fry your boy bits chemically that cage looks very good at any money let alone the price quoted it's a no brainer as far as I can see. Xx Wendy
I have found for me personally (my anatomy) that an anatomical shape to the base ring is needed ... I tried round / oval both in metal / plastic / even silicone and always found that at a particular spot under my balls I always got irritated (even with powder or lube) ... when I switched to an anatomical ring it rested slightly back from where the other rings sat and I can go without lube or anything ... So I'm in no way saying in anatomical verses round verses oval one is any "better" then the other, but if you follow all the above advise and still have an issue you may want to try a different ring shape.