Advice for a new beginner

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    hello,

    I'm new here. On Monday I will hand the keys to my holy trainer over to a pro domme. The longest time I have spent locked before is probably only a few days. This time though will most likely be at least a month, as to get the keys back I will probably have to book a session which I can only really afford once a month.

    I'm excited but also nervous I might discover a problem that only surfaces after a week. But I guess I should be fine.. the holy trainer is a very comfortable device as they go.

    Nonetheless if anyone has any words of warning or helpful advice I really want to hear it. Also any general coping strategies from those who have gone a month or longer?

    Thanks
     
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    I am sure if you are handing the keys over to a pro Domme she will have a safety procedure in case of emergencies. If not, hopefully you are using a small padlock that could be broken or cut with cutters if required.

    It will be a completely new experience not having access to the keys, enjoy.
     
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    Thank you Mistress Jules for your reply.

    The lovely woman taking the keys is most definitely a pro and I believe she holds many others keys. So you are probably right when you suggest she will have some sort of safety procedure. Let's hope so because the lock is brass and integrated into the device if that makes sense.. so not exactly flimsy.

    I did give up the keys once before to an ex gf but she wasn't really into it and only held them for a weekend before deciding it wasn't for her. So you're right, this will be a new experience when I give them up on Monday
     
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    please have you worn your cage for a bit before cos if you have not it migt hurt afters a bit and then you wont be able to do anything. When i had a new cage once it hurt me but only after it had been on me for some days and then i went to Mistress and told Her and she tooked it off me and there was a little bit of sharp on the ring and that was what was hurting. i hope that you are ok in your cage tho.
     
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    Hey jemima. I have practiced wearing it but only for a few days at a time. There was no issues or major discomfort with this. Only pain was first thing in the morning it kind of pinched under my balls. But this only lasted until I got up and walked around.

    My only concern is that something else might develop if I wear it for longer than a few days but I don't have time to practice as I hand the keys over on Monday.
     
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    How are you doing?
     
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    Hi william, curious how your life is at this moment,
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    Sounds very exciting! My biggest concern is that the plastic of that cage is going to get really smelly. Hope it meets all your expectations,,
     
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