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Discussion in 'The Bar' started by PouchPantyLover, Jul 24, 2017.

  1. Logged in today to check how things were going on the mansion and was stunned to find my avatar had been removed. When a guy named Pouch Panty Lover can't have a picture of a pouch panty (not a locked cock shot as accused) you are taking your self way to F***ing seriously. Pissed off, taking my toys and going home. Yes it's a tantrum and a well deserved one. So adios CM, enjoy your sterile and happy environment. I'll see you again when or if I cool down.
     
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  2. I hope you will come back to visit again soon
     
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  3. Come on, now.
     
  4. I agree with you! Strange rules in the US!
    You could have an AK47 as avatar, a burning cross from the KKK, a syringe full of dope... No problem!
    But a covered crotch is shocking!... Very strange!
    A long time ago I learned a lot about chastity play on http://www.tpe.com/altarboy/newstuff.php
    Nowadays that site is like a ghost ship, still running slowly, but with no pictures!
     
  5. I hope most in the US would choose AR-15 as we are trying to support stuff made in the USA. AK is excellent weapon, but gotta support US economy. BTW, I don't think ANY weapon is a suitable avatar. Would seem ANY cock is also a poor choice. Go figure
     
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  6. But your avatar is a stylised cock, but cock nevertheless
     
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  7. True. It's a poor choice, but my choice never the less
     
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  8. See you later panty pouch lover
     
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    Maybe he should change his name to "pouting pouch panty lover".

    Who wants to have a bet how long it will be before he comes back, 1 week?
     
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  10. Lucy that's awful!!!
     
  11. The only rules are the ones that the website owner makes. Has nothing to do with geography. Unless I am contributing money or time to a forum, I do not expect to have my personal wants accommodated. Listened to yes, accommodated no. I have quit a few forums because I disagreed with their rules. That is why I am here. Not many chastity forums to run to, so I no longer get all worked up over things that are important to me, but not so much to others.
     
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  12. Kangaroos have nice pouches and would make an excellent avatar plus I can look at one and eat my breakfast at the same time.
     
  13. panty pouch lover how dare you show pantied crotch in your avatar!!! Now, lets discuss the tame items such as pissing in peoples mouths, inserting food into pee holes, and for gosh darn sakes lets not say a curse word, we would all be mortified!

    curtseys, bowing, and giggles galore
     
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    How about not talking about pissing in mouths and inserting things in pee holes?

    If it was down to me I would have deleted that disgusting pee hole thread, not encouraged it.
     
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  15. @PouchPantyLover@PouchPantyLover Firstly let me say I hope you do return at some point , what I find odd about this is that you have been a member here since march 2017 and to my knowledge have always had the same avatar , also you have been actively posting in that time without any mention by anyone of your avatar being unacceptable , but now after nearly six months it has become so , Just seems strange it has taken that long for an objection to be raised . So what has changed ??? . Look forward to your return
     
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  16. yes lucy, that is the whole point. Certain things are deemed acceptable that pretty far out there, and an avatar of women's undies upset the masses. Perspective.
     
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    The removal of that avatar had nothing to do with me. But whenever I see a pic like that I think of a smell of stale urine, and a fat belly above it doesn't help matters. I know lots of women have the same opinion. But it doesn't seem to register to males that these photos might put women off joining the site, or make them leave, your own partner for example. I mean, what are we to do if we don't like it, just leave the site? Who wins there?
     
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    Perspective.

    What do you see when you first log on for the first time?

    A header, a forum list, and click, a row of avatars. And then after that you see words in threads.

    One of the most important things in this place for new members, is those avatars. Jens the owner has a wish to make chastity in general and this site in particular more acceptable to what he sees as a mainstream audience. And so it becomes important that our avatars are the sort that will not put off women.

    Perspective. ;)
     
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  19. I would just like to point out that this website has nothing to do with the USA that I know. The administrator and owner is european based as far as I know. I also think the consensus on here has been to remove crotch/penis/locked penis shots to help encourage more females to come aboard which I think we can all agree is a good thing.
     
  20. i totally agree with you subverity, and right next to the avatar is the thread reading drinking the golden nectar...or how can i get my wife to let me wear panties.... the obligitory dic pic is i think the original problem. It flashes everyone whether they like it or not.

    that being said, the vivid imagination of what is above or below the picture, just wow. what about a picture of a cage...someone might imagine a stale urine smell or a fat person. Now people worried about what is imagined?

    Yes, perspective. If a future female prospective member logs in, she wont see a panty covered avatar, if she steps in the door more than an inch she will see all sorts of material that puts panties to shame.

    My own partner hasn't gone anywhere, she is still a member, reads things, she just doesn't want to participate because when she does, she gets bombarded with nonsense. I looked at it, it wasn't normal members, very new members, in fact so new they didn't have an avatar.
     
  21. @Nicoftime@Nicoftime , thats a shame she is attacked lol. I wonder if there was a way to use the trophy system to keep newer members from contacting people on here until you reach a certain status? Might be a good idea in the future.
     
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    And that is under review as well. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
     
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    @Nicoftime@Nicoftime - Well, I get your point, I do, and at one point I'd have agreed completely with you. Have you looked at the threads back from 2010?
    It was a completely different forum, a far more joyful place, with swearing and dick avatars and tits and all manner of goodness.

    And then the fighting started - and so it makes sense not to allow swearing, or folks would swear at each other.
    And then as more and more members joined it lost it's cosy feel - we ended up with nearly every avatar being a caged cock. After a while they all looked the same and no-one could tell who was who - and actually, it just looked like a mens toilet forum, rather than something better than that. And some people wanted it to be better than a mens toilet forum.

    And that's how we are where we are.
     
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  24. I can agree with the policy of making the site in general more appealing to females and the mainstream , but some of the avatars still on here although not containing locked genitalia or underwear are still of a sexual nature and could be seen by some as offensive , so wouldn't an avatar policy of no sexual content be fairer to all , it would at least level the playing field for all members as to acceptability ??
     
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  25. yep, i do remember. I joined in 2009 or so under tinyone. I wasn't in chastity or have a kh, so never posted. I did however listen and learned alot about cages, expectations, pitfalls, and benifits. The site has changed several times actually, and i guess it is destined to keep changing, like any community. I will say this...the crusade to change in order to attrative "regular ladies" is noble. Its unrealistic that change will happen if we call in the national guard on a pantied avatar, and ignore the big stuff. Putting the cart in front of the horse. I've said my peace, and i have no issue keeping the penis pictures out of avatars, or not be the mens toilet forum...speaking of toilet....have you ever drank the golden nectar? Ill just read about it in the thread that is boldly on the very first page i see.