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    Hi all, after speaking to another Mistress on here i am thinking of getting a cage for my sub, he is in permanent chastity so the cage i want is one for him to go in as part of his training and or punishment. This will be for the bottom of the bed.
    Does anyone have any useful experience on doing this for example for how long to leave him in the cage, when to use the cage for at what level of punishment to fit the disobedient behaviour at the time.

    This will be a surprise present as he is not expecting it. Any advice would be welcomed.

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    There are large and rather affordable dog cages to practice caging. Once you know it is what you want to use on a regular basis you can always invest in bdsm cages.

    We currently don't have a cage, in part because the devices we have are more restrictive and better for punitive purposes, but I have experience being locked in cages. The main concerns are practical I'd say, for example:
    - depending on the duration: sanitary breaks (in a prison cell/room this could be resolved with a chamber pot)
    - emergencies (emergency keys)
    - physical and mental issues (eg. bad knees, claustrophobia)

    Under a bed the advantage is that the cage is rather spacy. I've usually been locked in smaller ones for a few hours at most (both solitary or in the presence of a Domme). Punishment wasn't always the reason, often it was for playing, and sometimes it was just a matter of appropriately storing me.
     
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    I know nothing about this topic, but it sounds like a really fun, interesting idea. You could get him special blankets and little food dishes. It sounds like he's fairly agreeable. I would put the cage next to the couch and have little goodies inside of it waiting. Let him know that it's HIS special little place where's he makes the rules. Then you have the whole house to yourself whenever you want. :D
     
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    Mistress Max, my thought is that length of time you cage your sub depends on a number of factors that you may have to find out by trial & error. As CumSlut said, physical & psychological issues are things to consider.

    When Mistress Kat9 worked as a prodomme and had her own studio/dungeon, I spent a lot of time there, as her personal sub, working: laundry, cleaning, painting, maintenance, etc. Between tasks or on breaks, she would frequently lock in me in a cage that was maybe 4-5 feet wide by 4 ft tall. Sometimes I would spend hours in the cage. She'd leave a water bowl if the weather was warm. Also, if she had a client, I would be locked in the cage for the duration of her session.

    I had no real physical issues with this, but now, 15 years later, arthritis in my knees makes keeping them bent problematic. So, if your sub is in good physical condition, he can probably be locked up for quite some time. Maybe start with shorter periods of time and work up to longer?

    Psychological factors are another story. Mistress once locked me in a cage that was part of a bondage table, under the table. This was to be overnight while she was in the next room. i discovered that lying down in a cage that was only 3 feet high, and exactly as long as i was tall, and in complete darkness was too much for me. I became extremely claustrophobic! It was terrifying! She did let me out after an hour.

    For me, the psychological factors had more of an impact than the physical factors. I actually came to sort of like being locked in the 1st cage I mentioned and today, we both miss not having access to a cage for this. For me, it wasn't really punishment as much as a demonstration of her power and to instill a sense of submissiveness in me.

    I think, and hope, you'll have a lot of fun with caging your sub. It is likely you'll have to find out bit by bit how to use it. Enjoy!

    I hope that helps a little, and sorry for going on & on.
     
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    Thanks for your advice, It’s not put me off, but will do this slowly and make sure my sub is safe..
    Mistress Max..
     
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    Mistress Max,
    Cages are so much fun, you really need to get one for your sub!

    I suppose true bondage cages are great, but also very expensive. My sub-hubby's cage is a standard dog cage, but a heavy-duty one with welded metal bars. It is about 32" x 48" by 36" tall. It has wheels which also helps and makes it even more fun, as it can be moved with him in it. It normally stays in a walk-in closet just off my bedroom, convenient when I want to put him totally in darkness. But it can be wheeled anywhere I want it.

    Hubby spends several hours every week in his cage as part of his regular training. Longer periods in it are reserved for punishment when needed.
     
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    Thank you for the information i will look into the large dog cages, it is great to hear another Mistress give it the thumbs up and can see the benefit of it.

    Mistress Max
     
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    My Goddess bought a cage for me a few months ago, and we both have really enjoyed it. I am put into it overnight, as a max, and occasionally for shorter periods for fun, and different punishments, stuff like that.

    I would tell you that when she puts me into it, I pretty much spend the entire time adoring and thinking about her.

    We did try the bottom of the bed, and it was fun, but everytime you move at all dog cages rattle. So, if you are a light sleeper, (My Goddess is) he will accidentally wake you up several times unless he can lay 100 percent perfectly still. Good luck. It's great fun in this type of dynamic.
     
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    Perhaps speak with my Owner @ms-maree as she has a lot of experience with cages and cells. She may be able to provide more Female Dominant perspective too.
     
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    that why Mistress put the cage away into the shed cos of the row it make when i was put in it and i glad its gone as well. It fun for a bit but not after a hour or 2 hour cos you cant stretch out and your legs go funny after a bit.
     
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    can't see this being something that could be done for any length of time without risk of DVT etc.
     
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    Thank you for your message and offer to contact your Mistress I will take you up on that and will make contact tom evening
    Thank you..

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    You're welcome Miss.
    She's away from home until Tuesday but may still be checking online if you send her a message.
     
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    I slept in a dog cage every night for 3 or 4 months and loved it. It was in the corner of my then Mistresses bedroom where she could lay in bed and watch me sleeping curled up in my cage. She really enjoyed that some mornings.
     
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    940AE136-F9D8-48AD-A9BC-CA8D0231B7EE.jpeg 21AE3426-7693-478E-B8E1-865C3FB1FA6A.jpeg Thank you to everyone’s help so far, we’ll the cage is set up and ready, a lovely surprise for my sub tonight.
     
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    Oh that's a nice one! Hell be a happy puppy being held for hours and hours in there. Maybe days and days too!
     
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    He is quite a large puppy he is 6’3” lol.. but fits ok..
     
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    Looks good! We have been using a large collapsible dog cage for a few years, and there great fun. Enjoy!
     
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    Following
     
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    what a lovely collection you have, and thank you for the mail I have replied x
     
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    Could be interesting
     
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    i'm also 6'3, my Owner-Wife is 5'3. There's always bonds (cages, collars, restraints) that fit tall subs :)
     
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    i dont think he will.
     
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    #24 Nicole Smith, Aug 3, 2021
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    Awwww, now you made me want one, too! Maybe I could put out a cage in the yard so one will show up and I can keep him. It would take all of a week to find find a dumb, loyal pet to keep in my living room.

    I'm just mad because I can't find a boyfriend. They can't be dumb.
     
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    This is such a hot idea
     
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