Hello everybody, I've been lurking here for some time now but never took time to introduce myself properly. I'm a late twenty boy, in a relationship were I tend to be dominating in the bedroom. I have been, however, more and more attracted by some kinky female-dominated play, which led me to discover chastity play, for about 6 years now. Why chastity? I suppose it's quite related to what I could read several times here, a wish to replace solo play by a more intimate connection with my lady, and also experiment some kind of intimacy control... Where am I? About one year ago I told her about how uncomfortable I was with my masturbation habits, telling her "devices" existed which could give her keys to the lock controlling any release I could get. I didn’t do as far as using the “chastity” word or describe any other stuff I knew about the lifestyle. However when she made some clear allusions to it several weeks later telling me she was ready to buy such "toy" I just chickened out and changed topic. Since there we never talked about it again, but I bought myself some birdlock to try it by myself and just sold it back, too uneasy to wear and to pointless where my significant one wasn't here to endorse it. I'd like to bring the subject back to her but still don’t manage to know how and when. And, beside, I'm still afraid of what it could change, since I do like the sex we have together and am really scared of anything but short term control. But some little voice keeps asking if I shouldn’t take my chance, at least to try it and know if it’s for us. So, here's my little introduction, I hope this wasn't too personal or intimate, but as as some members told me in another post, we are all on a journey, and it's where I am in mine. Thanks for reading it all, by the way.