A short introduction

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    Hello. I am 26 year old male from Norway. I am something of a novice, and spent my first 24 hours in chastity two days ago. I actually felt quite comfortable wearing it during the day, but at night I woke up after only a few hours of sleep (I don't know if this is normal in the beginning).

    Anyhow, my motivation for exploring chastity is that I am battling against porn addiction, and I want to spend my days more productively than what I am doing at the moment. It is my hope that wearing a chastity device can help me achieve this. As I have only just embarked upon my journey, I will use this site to learn more and read about the experience of other people. I don't have a keyholder or anything like that yet, as I still feel like I am at the bottom of the learning curve, but I am open to finding someone who can look after the keys at some future time.
     
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    Welcome, you've come to the right place. Yes, it's normal to find the cage uncomfortable at night.

    Well done on trying to cure the porn addiction. That's the case for many of us on here. Good luck. Let us know how you get on.
     
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    Hi and welcome.
    Great that your cage is comfortable during the day. And, yes it is normal to feel uncomfortable at night. It usually helps if you get up and have a pee if things are getting a bit too constrained.

    There are forums here for self locking and online locking which you might find useful. Also there is info on problems with wearing devices, which can come in handy (no pun intended). And there are heaps of friendly people on here. Have a look around and see what interests you. Throw in your questions and two cents worth. Enjoy.

    Good luck on your journey.
     
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    You are nicely on your way. Just be patient. The cage has really helped cure my wanking and I am much better for having achieved that!
     
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    Hello and welcome @Benno2666 to the Mansion.

    i don't know what device you are wearing but i have found if it is to big and you have room to grow somewhat, night time can be uncomfortable. When you can, try a smaller cage, not allowing any growth.....
    If you stick with it and work towards your goal, eventually your nocturnal attempts at erecting will dwindle until it's no problem to sleep through the night.

    Again welcome, best of luck and enjoy your chastity.

    P.S. There is a vast amount of info here that can help you accomplish your goal......hehehe......no porn allowed.
     
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    Thanks for the replies, everyone! I figure it's a good thing to start small and not be too ambiitous in the beginning, so my main focus going forward is to use it as much as I can during the day. After this habit is well established, my next goal will be to also wear it during nights.

    Thank you for that information, xcitedsisssy. I didn't know that at all. I thought it was the other way around, that big cages caused less discomfort during sleep. My current cage (CB 6000) is a bit too large for me, so I should probably buy a smaller one.
     
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    Welcome, and good luck getting those addictive erections under control. It's harder to go small at first but it's the right thing to do. Sort of like avoiding momentum and inertial forces. Unlike some other's experiences, I find the night time uprisings are never quelled.
     
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