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    I own the CB6000 (clear) although overall I think it a good device, I find it a little bulky. This has led me to a few questions I would like to ask the women of the site.

    Firstly, when aroused the squashing and pressure applied to the penis is visible, is this something you find attractive or off putting with such devices?

    Secondly, what would be your desired chastity cage design? Would you go for something bulky and visible a reminder of who's boss, or is it a case of the less visible the better? Would you go for a see-through or clear device, or something that hides the body part in question all together?

    Look forward to hearing your thoughts.
     
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    All sorts of questions here. Ian is in a clear cb6ks, which is a reasonable fit.

    Yes, I do like the pressure, it's part of the teasing.

    Design is different. When I win the lottery I will go for gold, so to speak, but irrespective of material I want bulky. That's nothing to do with being the boss, but all to do with, even when he has clothes on, I and others know he is wearing his cage

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    Hi Jane, thank you very much for your insight. It's very much appreciated
     
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    Less visible the better, I'd prefer not to see it at all.
     
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    Thank you very much Mistress Lucy for your opinion! In truth I think the feelings we experience in chastity would only be amplified if every time we looked down, we could see nothing at all!
     
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    This can actually make quite a difference. him not being able to see is organ at all for long periods of time. I've know several Neosteel arch wearers who were marked quite deeply by it.
     
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    Really, I had no idea. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge with me mascara snake. Nobody would want to cause any kind of mental scarring I'm sure.
     
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    What do you mean by "marked quite deeply" Mistress ? Does it has bad influence on their mental state ?
     
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    I asked Mistress this question and She would prefer to see only a normal Mound of Venus in my panties. I'm agreeing with Her!
     
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    Changed
     
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    Small as possible

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    I'm pleased when he gets "excited" and the cage presses against him. I use CB-6000 on him with the KSD-G3, so when he gets "excited" there's pressure from that, too. I have the CB-short cage that I sometimes put on him for teasing sessions, but don't leave it on too long, since it might hurt him. I also use the Points of Intrigue for teasing sessions. It pleases me to see him paying the price for doing things that displease me.
     
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    Thank you very much for your response!
    You sound like you have a lot of fun, and keep your man in check!
     
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    Oh I have alot of fun. I have noticed his pornography viewing has gotten a lot less since I started spanking him and putting him in chastity as a penalty. It got even less after I acquired this one wood spanking paddle, which I call "The Brown Spanking Paddle) and learned how to use a cane.

    When I went away on business for a week in July, I came back, looked at his computer and noticed he hadn't looked at any pornography. He doesn't delete his history, because he thinks it's dishonest and honesty is important to him. I asked him if he masturbated even without pornography and he says he wouldn't do it without pornography. I believed him. The last 3 times before that I caught him looking at pornography, I punished him very severely. The first time, he got a spanking session and a week of chastity. The second time, he got a private spanking session, a week of chastity, then he got released in front of 3 of my friends, got spanked again in front of them and had to do sissy maid service for all of us. The last time, I gave him 12 strokes of the cane. This pro Domme taught me how to do it without drawing blood. i laid 8 stripes down his bottom and and four crossing stripes. He was a bawling mess by the time I was finished and I showed him neither sympathy nor mercy. I called him a sissy for crying, a sissy for letting his Girlfriend dress him up like that then bending over and letting her tie him down and swat his butt with a cane and make him cry like a little sissy girl.

    The cane and the Brown Spanking Paddle send a powerful message I don't approve of pornography or masturbation.
     
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    I think that's fantastic!
    You are doing a great job. I honestly believe that we men are better at pleasing and are more attentive when we are not allowed to masturbate. Punishing him when he does is a great way to make him associate it with something bad!
    Dressing him up and humiliating him is also a great way to emasculate him and make him more docile "Do you really want me to invite my girlfriends over again to watch you?"
    No I'm sure he wouldn't, so I bet he does everything you want. Once again, I think you are doing a terrific job!
     
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