A practical Guide and Expectations for 24/7 Cock Cage Wearing

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    I flew from Indiana to Texas. In Indiana, I had my Jail Bird cock cage in the carry on language. I went through the security with 0 issues. Absolutely nothing.

    CLEARED with the cock cage in the carry on laguage

    Traveling back from Texas, I. had my cock cage on. I have PreTSA and went through the mental detector. First time, the metal detector went on. I was asked if I had anything in my pockets and I replied no. I was sent through the mental detector again. Second time, I went more in the middle. The metal detector was silent.

    CLEARED with the cock cage on through the metal detector

    There is a nice thread: Airport security: All you need to know

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...rt-security-all-you-need-to-know.25821/page-3
     
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    I have to say I have tried metal and plastic and silicone. It turns out the bio resin from a real Holy Trainer works best for me. It flexes and moves with my body and I’ve found I can even wear it to work and I do landscaping. It gets really hot in the summer but it’s really comfortable. I do have to take it off to clean daily it but I don’t have any opportunity to play with it.
     
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    I am glad it works for you. I don’t have experience with bio-resins. We certainly have better bio-materials now. That being said, the resin is more porous and it is not clear how long it can stay bio-compatible. Therefore, the doctors use medical steel for surgery. Cock cage certainly does not reside inside your body like a plate to fix your broken bone, buy medical steel will not be penetrated by any agents as resin potentially can over years.
     
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    Krystine Kellogg made a podcast about the guide I wrote.
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/krystines-flr-podcast/id1529833492?i=1000571210960
     
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    Thank you. Yes it is our story.
     
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    I find that I am getting chafing/abrasions after a few days even with the high quality Mature Metal cage. I do not do long locks all the time, but have done gifts of chastity for my Lady. This year we did a 3-month lockup (with very occasional releases) and we are currently doing Locktober.

    Since there is some distance, I have a key and have permission to monitor my health. I take the cage off every 2-3 days for cleaning (myself *and* the cage). If I have any irritation to the skin I might put some cortisone on it. In one rare case, when we did the 3-month, I had the cage on non-stop for a week or more, and I had some bad abrasions, so had permission to sleep one night without it (though chastely)

    I had permission when driving my son to the airport late at night, in case of metal detectors -- turned out to be unnecessary. But I had gone to a Broadway theatre the day before and they had detectors and I set it off -- luckily, they assumed it was because I carried my umbrella through with me!
     
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    Quite possibly some of the best advice I've ever seen on this. Seriously. This has been game changing for me. Thank you.
     
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    Thanks. I am glad my guide helped you.
     
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    I appreciate the guide. But is there a podcast I could see to help along the way also?
     
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    It was like a lightbulb went off and now I am wearing a base ring only of a ring size I never thought I could and I’m not having chafing.
     
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    I am glad it worked for you. I had a lot of issues initially and that is why I wrote this guide. I am glad you found it useful.
     
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    I feel like it could be a fitting and trouble shooting guide for people. I didn't understand the importance of the gap until earlier this year but then I still had the chafing. I didn't realize it was supposed to be that snug. I've been trying off and on for over 15 years to be able to wear a chastity device for longer than a couple of days without shredding my skin.

    I didn't realize the size with the cage to be so small as to prevent any growth at all. No growth means no pressure on ring. No pressure on ring means no moving of ring, which means no chafing. That it's ok to be snug as a bug in a rug. The fitting of the ring is separate from the fitting of the cage. Their relationship is important for the gap but they are sized separately.
     
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    It seems simple to match couple of dimensions, but it is not. I believe that chastity should be comfortable and safe. Wearing chastity 24/7 takes time and getting a properly fitted cage is important. Hopefully this will help others too.
     
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    This is not even half of what I would add but it's the general idea. it was kind of fun. Reminded me of a bacon flow chart I saw once.
     

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    Very nice :)
     
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    I like the read. I am similar, that my KH wife has control of how and when, or even a great tease session and denial. We have recently changed from the resin cobra to the steal. It fits amazingly well, day and night.
    I use a basic natural deodorant bar on the ring and it works great. Showers allow it to clean better and easier then the resin. it also easier for electric stem play.
    Yes it’s heavier but for the most part o never really notice.
    KH tells you to do 25 jumping jacks and boy, I’ll tell you know you have a steal cage on.
    Www.cobrachastity.com
    Enjoy everyone
    Click.
     
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    thanks for you input. Yes, resin is more porous and less biocompatible for long term. I wish we would have high quality titanium cages available. Unfortunately, it is expensive and titanium is also hard to work with. I am happy with my Jail Bird it is only 161 g (5.7 oz).
     
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    Titanium, yes. Expensive. What a cage though.
     
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    Hi
    I wear an off the shelf stainless cage
    Not sure if I am just lucky but it’s been fine since day one
    I did have a cheap plastic one beforehand so had a good idea of the right ring size to get
    I wear it 24/7 when I can. Personally I like it’s weight and also love overnight ruined erections. To be woken by my cock oozing out of the cage is a great feeling. Then followed by a bit of nipple tweaking and sleep. Rinse and repeat
    Do any of you guys get the same kick?
     
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    Nice clamps. :)
     
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    Thanks jailbird
    I love them!!
     
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    I am familiar with that company, thanks. It is not clear what the purity of their alloy is, but it is likely not a medical grade titanium. I tried to find that out, but without success.
     
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