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A newbie who has a masturbation addiction to beat

Discussion in 'The Foyer' started by Lapinou, Jan 3, 2017.

  1. Hello all

    I sign up on chastity mansion this day because I have a masturbation problem for a long time, many years. It hurts my relation with my girlfriend. At the beginning it was, like many couples, fantastic, I concentrated my sexual energy on her, and after a few years... She feels sad about that bad habit, it disturbs me in my work... All these symptoms you know about an addiction on masturbation.

    As my girlfriend can't handle that I touch myself (even stratching one minute under her supervision), I told her about the implementation of a chastity device, which is one of my fetishes for many years. She answered me that she was totally ready to lock me up.

    We had many ball trapped devices but none of them was okay: I could cheat. Even with a piercing security. And I couldn't stand for carrying it more than hours.

    Considering that, now I'm preparing to introduce myself to her while wearing a real chastity belt, ie a full belt.

    I'm considering a Neosteel belt.
     
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  2. thank you all
     
  3. Aren't we all addicted to wanking? Some of us are more controlled now that we a re locked. Mistress & I practiced chastity on the "honor system" for about a year, util it became evident that I had been dishonorable. My wanking is now under total control. Good luck to you being properly secured!
     
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  4. The cage may not stop you, but it should be used to help you to control yourself. You need to want to stop, not want to cheat on masterbating. The cage has helped me greatly, when I touch myself the is little or no stimulation. I have a key, that I use for showering and shaving, or to put it back on if I slip out, or if its causing friction sores.
    I'm trying not to cum, to give all my orgasms to her.
     
  5. I certainly have that problem and I sympathise. I got the point where I would avoid sex with my partner or find an excuse not to, just because I'd been wanking earlier that day or the previous day and there was nothing left in the tank. It's a shitty thing for me to do, selfish and disloyal. A cd in itself is not the solution but it helps me. I've been masturbating furiously since I was 11, over 30 years so quite a habit to break. I've gone cold turkey, no touching down their at all. Cage remains locked, clean with soap and Q tip. V difficult.
     
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  6. I believe KTB is a perfect solution for masturbation prevention. Pavlov's methods are the most robust ones <weg>

    Regards,
    K.
     
  7. Sorry, "KTB"?
     
  8. I'm afraid that a KTB makes sleeping very hard, awaking the wearer when he gets night erections, which you don't control. KTB is not good for health, doesn'it?
     
  9. KTB stands for "Kali Teeth Bracelet" (Google that) which is a tubular shaped device which fits snugly over the penis and, as an added treat, incorporates 2,3, or 4 rows of sharp or dull teeth or spikes inside. (See Kir_S avatar!) When flaccid, the KTB is almost comfortable as it has no ball rings or other way to keep it secure. When aroused, the KTB can become very painful. The wearer quickly learns to think of other, non sexual things to diminish the arousal and to prevent pain.

    My older KTB is made from solid metal and is very heavy, which adds to the discomfort. That device has been only employed very sparingly by Mistress, as a discipline or punishment device. I am currently testing a newer version of the KTB, printed in plastic on a 3D printer. It is much lighter and more comfortable when flaccid. The teeth are slanted a bit to prevent pull out or turtling (which it does quite effectively.) When worn, any KTB has to be secured in place by clothing to prevent/minimize movement and irritation. (With the proper panties, it hangs straight down, like a natural penis does, and helps to make my mound more feminine in appearance). Being required to wear a KTB is sure to prevent wanking or even thoughts of wanking!
     
  10. I will not recommend a new device. Nothing will work unless YOU want to quit. Do not rely on devices to do what you cannot do. Even a full belt and a vibrator will make you cum. Many seem to think that chastity is really being forced not to cum but it is not. It is merely a speed bump to give you pause before you attempt to make yourself cum. If you cannot supply the other half of what is needed, you can go through a hundred devices and not find what you are looking for. All that crap you read online is just fantasy. No one is held and denied against their will. The real players know this and the rest pretend.
     
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  11. Vinny, there are Neosteel users who says that their belt is 100% inescapable and that even with a vibrator it is impossible to cum. I'm thinking about Andrew K who is at CM. A good full belt should work fine, doesn't it?
     
  12. I am looking forward to trying the Kali Teeth Bracelet. You might consider giving it a try.
     
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  13. Gil, I'm looking for a device designed for 24/7 wearing. A ktb frightens me to reveal you the truth. It seems so hard.. And I'm not sure my KH would accept to make me wear such a device, because she's not sadist. You have one?
     
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    Excessive masturbation is a habit and whilst cages can help, only willpower and a genuine desire to curb your habit will cure you of it.
     
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  15. Mistress_B, I wish I'd been a man who can control his drives.. Unfortunately it's impossible to me. Even with my GF next door, I masturbate. I know it's a pity. That's why I need to act know. And I'm lucky: she's okay to lock me. Whe tried lots of devices, with no result. Now the question is: what device. I need a serious device. It's expansive. So I need advices. Thank you.
    Yours sincerly.
     
  16. Hello and Welcome. Try an Attica Hell 1.5 or 3.0. They are serious, inexpensive, comfortable and totally secure. Believe me, I cannot slip out of mine, nor get an erection.
     
  17. They make a KTB with only 2 rows of teeth. This model has blunted teeth instead of the sharp points, and they have a version of this which also comes with a cock ring to help support the weight of it. The screws are adjustable for your size and sensitivity/pain level. It has been said to be very comfy for 24/7 wear and will only cause pain when erections begin. It would be a good secondary device to have on hand in addition to a good cage, atleast a CB6000s or a custom made cage.
     
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    Some may be hopeless cases.
     
  19. Hello all
    I did my choice: just ordered a Neosteel belt. Now I'm waiting for delivery...o_O
     
  20. The KTB I have is OK, but not for active daily wear, as the base rings to hold it in place are a bit too big. The bracelet without the base ring just slips off my cock. Still would like to use with my KH sometime for a play and punishment time.
     
  21. I can relate to that
     
  22. We should never give up! Ms
     
  23. Had the base ring on my cage break this weekend while my KH has been away. She asked me how I was doing and commented on if I had jerked off yet. She went on to comment about how I would give in eventually and jerk off again. So, I went into our bag of tools and now I am wearing the next smallest sized ring. What a nice snug fit. It is slightly uncomfortable from time to time, but I know my body will continue to adjust. Have to agree with her though. It is just too easy to masturbate without my cage., and I would.
     
  24. Hello all
    I received my chastity belt: a Neosteel Masterpiece Sports belt
    Very tight, confortable and really unescapable! I achieved finally to find a device 100% secure.
    These are the first days, my body and my mind need to adapt. My GF is awaiting the keys now..
     
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