My name is Alice. I'm here looking for community surrounding chastity, denial, and cuckolding. I found this site via a link on Mature Metal. I would like to apologize in advance for such a long first post. There is so much to share! My wife and I are a late-50's couple, married for 15 years. We have been into swinging since before we were married. For the last five years my wife has maintained a relationship with a BBC Bull 17 years younger than Her. We have had our ups and downs trying to make this work. Over the last few months we have begun moving into a FLR. My wife used to regularly bottom for me, but that is over. She is now a Domme and I am her sissy cuckold husband. We spent many years playing on the fantasy of every time we had PIV sex it would be my last time. I think I had PIV sex with Her for the last time, just over a month ago. It was my idea to introduce chastity. Partly as a way to demonstrate my devotion to Her, and partly to fulfill my desire to be teased and denied. I had a CB-2000 we would dust off once in a while. I have been wearing it for most of the last 5 or 6 weeks. My cage time is limited because of the nature of my work, but I am currently trying to cage within 15 minutes of getting home and stay locked until time for work. So averaging 12-14 hours per weekday locked up depending on schedule, and nearly all weekend hours. I ordered a MM Jailbird a couple weeks ago and am really looking forward to being locked up as much as possible. My wife has laid down 5 essential rules: 1. My penis is banned from any contact with her body. 2. I am required to be locked in chastity at all times when not at work. 3. No masturbating. 4. No viewing of porn. 5. Ejaculation limited to one time every 7 days. We have established a punishment and reward regime. I am punished with impact play once a week until I utter "yellow" twice or "red" once. Then I am allowed to rim my Mistress while I masturbate. The last couple sessions have included a kitchen timer. I came after about 8 minutes both times. Ma'am said I had 7 minutes leftover tonight. I know I have been driving Her crazy with all this chastity and T&D stuff. Her therapist is a former Domme and is telling her to ignore me and ban me from talking to her for 24 hours when I get too pushy. That would be the worst punishment of all! On May 1 we had been playing at this for a few weeks and of course things weren't progressing as quickly as I thought they should. I suggested that we could try this until June 1 and see how we feel about it then and decide if we want to continue. But things slipped into high gear this week, with my wife meeting a new potential BBC Bull and even sucking him off in public, something that is still blowing my mind. She has told me we aren't going back to the way it was before, and that she is done having anything to do with my sissy chastised penis. If someone had suggested to us even 5 years ago that this is where our relationship was headed I am sure that neither one of us would have believed it. So far I can't get enough of it and I am excited to see where this path leads.