I've been interested in chastity for some time. The power exchange that happens when you apply the lock and click it shut knowing that the key is in someone's else hand or in my case attached to the anklet that my partner would wear. It symbolised she was in control and that if she wanted someone else would be fucking her. I've watched while that has happened and I sat at home awaiting news of how her night was going. Problem is she's not the type of person who teases or enforces the chastity. I'd be locked but there would be no tease, denial and no frustration. All I had to do would be ask for the key. Well now now that is all to change. I've been in touch with an online Mistress, she does physical domination as well but that I feel would be a step too far at present. We had a good chat about what I was after and she's prepared to be my keyholder. I made a list of items needed and showed her. A new chastity cage which will be better for long term wear then my previous cages. I wanted the ability to be able to be teased so found a secure way for her to know I was locked and she suggested plastic locks but temptation is there though so will still be a standard padlock and key but she'll keep 1 copy and the other will go into a lockable box with a mater lock. She is going to order the items but I had first to send her a giftcard to cover my purchases. It was strangely erotic and it gave me an erection as I placed the order. Now I wait for for her to set up the padlock and then send my new cage. She offerers monthly keyholding with extras on top. I'm nervous because now as soon as it arrives I will be completely giving over control. She will have control over me.