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Discussion in 'The Vault' started by MatCagedSub, Sep 29, 2017.

  1. About 2 years ago I discovered a male chastity belt and a year later I bought my first chastity device. Since then, I have locked it a few times and tested various models and sizes of rings. Since then I have asked my wife / KH to put me in chastity. She still has not done it, as I wish. Every time I was locked up, it was my own choice. One time he asked me to lock myself in a cock cage, I got hurt. My biggest blocking time was 48 hours. Whenever I touch the subject, my wife does not seem to like it very much and she says she prefers it loose and big. This morning, before work, I locked myself up again and gave my wife the keys. She said: Are you sure? Is it well placed inside HT2? I said yes. Her: Because I'm going to keep the keys now. Was it the beginning today? Will I feel the power of chastity? Now I'm locked in here, excited and scared. Loose the control of my body makes me apprehensive. What else will I feel?
     
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  2. Neediness, wanting her close to you. Helpless. Missing erections. Doubt. Borderline anger and frustration. Peace. Contentment from letting go and letting her have it her way knowing she's happy. Fear and trepidation. Not knowing when or even if you will ever be allowed to reach orgasm again. Desire to cum, desire to stay chaste to keep your mindset the same for her.

    All sometimes within moments of each other. It is truly a roller coaster of ups and downs. She of course will not be that in tune to this...she is not thinking of your chastity 24/7 like you are. So keep that in mind when you are feeling neglected or want attention all the time.

    Have fun
     
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  3. Thanks
    Let's see what will happen
     
  4. Your journey has begun and the less complaining and asking for release, the better! Enjoy the journey!
     
  5. The first night when my wife was at home there was not much conversation and no teasing. Soon we went to sleep. My first night was normal, I was only bothered by the strong nocturnal erections. I woke up early, she shortly after, I was a little excited and I began to give her affection, kisses and even got him to let me do an oral (I love his smell). It also teased my balls and nipples. I think she gets overexcited to know that she has my control. In the afternoon she invited me to go to the Motel (Here in Brazil they are directed and furnished for casual sex and have available Jacuzzi, large beds, mirrors, erotic chairs, etc.) I was not sure what to say but I agreed to go. Arriving there we took a Jacuzzi bath (I still locked it) then blindfolded me and went to get dressed. Then he tied my arms and legs and gagged me (I love that part). When she discovered me she was wearing a black latex dress, socks, boots all black, it was stunning. He teased me a lot and said he would unblock me. She said it was too early to unlock, but she said she had the key would do whatever she wanted. To get around the situation
    EN">I said that I should not cum, to help I put a condom on. She sat down on me and slid delicious, made fun of me. I was holding on tight. I managed not to cum, she understood the situation and did not force me to enjoy it and congratulated me for my self-control. I was proud of myself and her also for providing a beautiful afternoon of sex (without orgasm it is logical). The second night was worse because I had many painful nocturnal erections. The next morning I was disappointed, although I gave a lot of affection and kisses and received many provocations she insisted that I would unlock and did. He took a gel and gave me a handjob and then made me penetrate it, I cum a lot, only after 48 hours locked, when a woman wants something she always gets. It was a mix of yummy and disappointing, as I'm sure I should go much further. I'll talk to her some other times to see if she can keep me going any longer. I realized she considered the cock gage to be her competitor, not an ally. I want to feel really frustrated, helpless, losing control of my cock.
    Sorry about my English, sometimes a used a translator.
     
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  6. 48 hours locked up is a start. But only a start. It all depends on your key holder and what she wants out of this arrangement. It is t uncommon to go for weeks or months without an Orgasm if the KH doesn't want to allow you an Orgasm. Every arrangement is different and unique and that what makes it exciting. Thanks for posting your Journey and please continue.
     
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  7. Last night I was talking to her again and she asked me why I found little time. I said that I would like to be denied more time, since I had been locked up 48 hours before. She asked if I would like to be locked up permanent. I did not know what to say and I said no but I would like a longer game. She said I was going to get addicted to being locked up. I said no, but I think I lied because I liked that feeling. I slept very excited because she is not to touch on that subject. Maybe she was even enjoying the idea now. Are we addicted?
     
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    Very likely. Agree that it's to be her decision and you'll soon find out. If you're not sure, suggest a trial period of, say, 6 months.
     
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    Very likely. Agree that it's to be her decision and you'll soon find out. If you're not sure, suggest a trial period of, say, 6 months.
     
  10. I want more than a expect. I big surprise. I want : "Chastity started whem you want out"
     
  11. Be careful what you wish for.

    There is no written rule book saying what is right and what is wrong. Only your word to give her complete control of your orgasms. It is very likely that eventually she will discover how much better it is When you don't make a mess.
    Communication is important, very important. But when ever SHE decides she needs you to cum is always the right amount of time.
     
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  12. Thanks

    I'll try it a little bit at a time
     
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  13. Since I was unlocked last Sunday we have not had sex until now. I can not tell her that I really want to be blocked because it's going to happen that I do not want to give her pleasure. She would be very upset. I do not know what to do because I thought about chastity all week. She could have locked me all week but did not, as she had asked. I would have beaten my time locked up and would be very happy. Any suggestions for this beginner?
     
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    Mistress and I have been doing this for the better part of a year and I am very much a self locker. I welcome the prospect of being pushed but her appetite usually finds me within a couple of weeks. And that's usually OK. Her pace and communication.
     
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  15. You seem to be impatient for longer lockups. However, if she wants you out more than in, you’re learning an important lesson about giving up control. It sounds like she’s pretty much up for trying chastity - you just need to show her how it helps her to keep you locked up.
     
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  16. Thanks for the help and support.
     
  17. Last night my wife / KH said she would give me back my chastity device. I told you again if you want me to use it, she said that I can already like it so much. Then after the bath I began to kiss and tease her them she sent me to bed and started doing a handjob and oralsex, I was imagining a Tease and Denial (so desired) that I could not take it and cum. I was super relaxed and I fell asleep. Unlocked still. In the morning my chastity device still on top of the sink I was smiling and she said why? Because I did not put the chastity device on yet. She said you should locked up. Hrrrrr. I was super excited, hard, that I had a lot of work to lock it up and hand over the keys. I'm here again locked, excited, anxious...
     
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  18. Last night I had a long teaser session. I even had to ask her to stop because my balls were crushing. I tried to figure out what her intentions were about me being locked up, but she let it in the air. This morning we gave some hot kisses, I said that I was very excited and she replied you will be a little more locked (I wanted to listen: long locked).


    One thing I notice when I'm locked up is that she gets a lot more aroused and excited and gives me a lot more affection than when I'm free. It´s a good thing, but the chance that I feel the power of chastity in the long run is smaller. As I had read to women, male chastity does not mean less sex. Maybe the power to have control over the partner leaves her like this.
     
  19. She is discovering her power within. Don't pressure her by stating "more time". Instead, focus on how YOU can provide her pleasure without using her cock. May I strongly suggest you provide her pussy with your tongue's loving devotion..!! Do it right and often then you'll find your self locked for quite a long time..
     
  20. Sorry, I did not have time to update my status. After 48 hours locked up, my wife / KH said she did not want me locked up anymore and I was pissed off by my cock. I said I was fine. After a few kisses and teasing she really took the key and unlocked me. I started a massage and the handjob on my dick still a little wrinkled. Then he sat on top of it and began to ride, enjoying himself. I enjoyed it. I found that cum after a period of time locked is different, I can not explain why.
    I workship her pussy the night before at the suggestion of Muzzo4you.
    I could not get back for more than 48 hours locked. I'm still going to stay on the goal of staying longer on chastity. Since then we have not talked about my chastity and I am unlocked at the moment. The only thing that happened was when we were having sex the other night she said that I was very naughty, I said, you need to punish me then. She only nodded.
     
  21. If it's any consolation, my wife is also new to this and I'm having an equally frustrating experience.
     
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  22. Let her take the reins on when to and for how long you'll be locked. Keep up your tounge's devotions - doing an especially great job when locked - and you'll see that over time she'll apply more lock time because that is when you're REALLY showing her how special she is to you.
     
  23. The funny thing is that I'm paying more attention to her, but on the other hand when I'm locked she also gives me a lot of attention, more than normally.
     
  24. I believe that is a situation without any 'down side', also known as a 'win win'. Good for you both!
     
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