Over the weekend me and my wife had a talk and chastity was discussed. After 13 years of using it she still didnt fully understand but thats down to me being unable to explain it properly. I found some literature on line that explains it better. Behaviours Feelings How it changes mindset She said they might as well of put our names on the article as it described us to a T. I've mentioned key holding in the past. She took the keys, threw them in her draw and let me be. I was locked and she didn't get pestered for sex. I mentioned it again and this time she wanted to know more. We spoke and read more articles. I then got a shock when she said she wanted to hold the keys and become a proper key holder. I had dreamed of this for years and now it was going to become a reality. She read more and more. Reading about edging, ruined orgasms, teasing, locking me away for indefinite periods at a time. We talked about everything. My love for bondage and women's lingerie. I even showed her my photos on here, she liked them. This is now a new chapter of our lives together that we are both looking forward to. I'm nervous for this new adventure but now I have my soul mate doing this with me, we can guide each other.