A mind blowing event at work

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    I have held off posting this for a few days as on reflection it felt like people thought I was posting a fantasy I had thought of, but I decided to to show that chastity is not as sheltered as we think it is!
    a little background to start, I am a theatre nurse, and we work so closely with each other, we have a very close working relationship,
    so basically to begin I walked in to my theatre and two of my colleagues were having a conversation about cages, Ann I have talked about bdsm before, so I knew she was into the scene, and nia is recently back on the dating scene after being divorced, and Now has a guy that is in To the kink scene,
    As I walked in Ann said, he knows about cages! I said, just make sure you have the collapsible one so you can hide it easy from the kids!
    and Ann said, no! not those cages, I’m talking about cock cages! And as she said it she looked down to my groin and flashed her eyes at me!
    I just stood there speechless! Ann then asked, how do they lock on? What stops you getting it off?
    I said, a padlock. Ann then asked, can you get hard in one? I said no, she then asked if they were comfy, I said normally, unless you have one with spikes in it. Ann laughed, then started asking me about whips and canes ect for a couple of minutes, and then we had to do our pet list check, so it ended there.
    I was just in shock! The conversation kept going round in my head for a few hours, but nothing more was said.
    Then yesterday, we were just finishing for the day, and I walked into the break room, and everyone was talking about cock cages! A few people had googled it and were sharing pictures of them! Then Tim said i Was told you have one, I laughed, and make a quick exit, and everyone else was still talking about them!
     
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    quite an experience. How do you feel about it, a few days on?
     
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    Wow, that was quite the experience. But given the group dynamics, believable. Thanks for sharing.

    p.s. Your note was very credible and believable. Plus, you have always been sincere in your postings here. But I understand your reluctance to post.
     
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    Personally I would like a sensible fact finding intelligent conversation about chastity (or any other kinks). Sounds like your colleagues accept you as you are and have not judged you as "different"
     
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    Since my Key Holder and I work together, this is a fear of mine.

    There are some at work who could probably handle a mature conversation on the issue, but I work in a conservative area, and many just would not understand.

    Had everyone been able to talk about it in a joking fashion, it would be rather hot
     
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    This is the kind of experience many might hope to have. Of course the situation was perfect since you and the other nurse had talked kink before. Sounds like it might make working there more relaxed for you, as others have been intrigued by chastity.
     
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    Wow, that is an interesting conversation. Where I work (tradesman dominated), there is a lot of banter around the bar at drinks about various sexual elements (e.g "does it make you gay if........" type convos). Our apprentice is quite the noted deviant, and his exploitation's are stories of legend here, but I think it would be a step further than I would be comfortable with if others knew of my various kinks (not least of which because I am part of management, not at the coal face with "the boys").

    I once had a package turn up at work, a colleague jokingly said "is that your new butt plug", I added, yes, and harness and dildos. He laughed assuming (I think) that I was going along with the banter. What made it funnier to me and my wife is I was actually telling the whole truth.

    Sometimes the greatest way to tackle awkward situations is head on and own the news, don't give them anywhere to go in terms of taking digs or pot shots at you, but with something so private and "left field" as chastity, that is probably easier said than done. I really doubt I could do it.
     
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    Congratulations to you on your courage: both for 'coming out' and sharing with us all !
     
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    So any chance, Ann will want a peek, just to 'check your design'?
     
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    People can’t tease you if you own it. That is what lgbt PRIDE is all about!
     
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    Wow, what a wild freaky rush both experiences must have been!
    Every guys dream of having two women discuss his caged cock so nonchalantly, co-workers at that.
    Then to have the positive group dynamic afterwards... double wow.
    Maybe it was so casual because you're all in the medical field and have seen just about everything?
    Or you just hit the jackpot with a rare cool group of people.
    Either way, those moments are forevermore burned into your brain, and you're so fortunate to have them.
    They always say reality beats fantasy, and you just proved it!
    Sounds like you handled it perfectly too!
    I think owning it is the only way forward. That said, in my testosterone fueled work environment, I'd experience such a backlash, I'd really have to become an island unto myself to survive it. I would have to go to HR and seek protection, which I would get in spades, but I would be all alone. Would I change anything in my life because of the very remote risk? Never!!!
    Thanks for sharing.
     
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    My colleagues know I'm "different", just not how different! :rolleyes:

    A truth for all to live by, thanks for the words Jessica :+1:
     
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    I wish I could feel more comfortable being out about my kink and queerness. The problem for me at work is that I'm the boss, and any sort of sexual conversation that I partook in could easily turn into a harassment situation -- I need to be completely discreet and restrained. Sounds like you've got a good group of co-workers, @madams-sissysub! (Though it was a bit rude of whichever of the two women who outed you to others without asking your permission first?)
     
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    I was off for the 2 days after posting that, and going back i Have to admit, I was a little anxious, but I got in and nothing was said, no more talk of cock cages, I worked with Ann, and nothing was said, bdsm came up briefly, a few of the girls talking about that 365 days film on Netflix, Ann said, it’s a bit tame for the likes of us. And that was all.
     
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    It was quite an experience I can tell you! And not all enjoyable!
     
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    i don’t think I went in to enough detail about the last part of the day, in the break room they weren’t talking about cock cages with interest, they were laughing about them, looking at pictures on the net and saying things like, why would anyone do that? What would you get out of that? How weird? Ect, that’s why I didn’t engage and make a quick exit,
    As I said in my previous post, it made me anxious about returning to work to day, but as I said it was all forgotten about and they had moved on to the next thing today.
     
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    I would hardly call it coming out! As I was answering Ann’s questions, my brain was saying to me why are you saying this! Stop talking!
     
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    I did think this my self! But no request yet!
     
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    totally agree! I have down the same only it was about being fisted!
     
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    totally agree!
     
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    I agree, we have seen more than most, now I don’t bat a eye when you see the 70 yr old gent with 20 genital piercings,
    But as I said in a previous post, it wasn’t all that casual, there was a lot of laughter and disbelief going on.
     
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    I agree! My co workers have always known I’m different, I have never hid, I am submissive and my wife, my madam makes all the decisions!
     
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    I totally understand how you feel, it could easily turn to harassment situation, or someone could try to use it against you!
    And yes I though it was a bit rude to! My only thought is cause of us discussing bdsm before she thought I was out there with it.
     
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    Just reading your further comments and getting a real sense of the stress of the entire experience. Geeze. My gut clenches when I think of how intense that must have been. I hope I wasn't too glib as I enjoyed the smack talk fantasy aspect of the scenario for I now see the full picture and am sorry? it happened.
    I'm glad things were chill afterwards.
     
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    Ah - not quite what I had thought. Glad to hear, things are "normal" with your work life
     
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