My wife is planning on redecorating the bathroom soon. When I say that, I mean my wife is planning on me redecorating the bathroom… Anyway., she was showing me all the new furniture and accessories and I was doing my best at listening intently. She then said, “I’m getting one of these.” It was just a small, circular, lidded glass jar. I had no idea why she needed to show me something so insignificant. That was until she said, “it’s for your cotton buds.” As I need them in the bathroom every time I clean I was actually quite impressed that she had considered my chastity status whilst planning. It also had me wondering how serious she is actually getting into making this permanent, as in all her doubts of another lifestyle are gone. So just putting it out there, has anyone else had a minor experience where your partner surprised you as such? A little moment that made you pause for thought?
Yes, but it didn't take that long for my wife to act. Within about two days she had purchased a small, elegant copper cup perfectly sized for holding my buds (q-tips). It's now a year or more later and she has not suggested getting rid of it or them. But you raise a point that I never gave much thought about.... how quickly and without hesitation she accepted this as the new norm!
Yesterday, after giving me the key so I could unlock and shower, I put the key on my nightstand. When she saw me later, she told me to give her the key back. "sure thing, babe".