A lesson learned?

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    I got up excited to start the day off right with piggy but he informed me that since he was up hours before me he had already enjoyed his UNLOCKED little dick without me and he wasn’t really feeling it! To say i was mad was an understatement but i proceeded to make him pleasure me while he was fully clothed. Surprisingly he was suddenly FEELING IT but i denied him any pleasure. After that he locked himself up like a good little boy and put some pretty pink panties on so we could go out for the day

    While out we we’re reading posts on CM about the poor guys that don’t have wives that support their kink and piggy says to me that he needs to learn to appreciate what he has with me! Hallelujah! Was today the beginning of a lesson learned. I sure hope so...
     
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    It was sbout he woke up
     
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    If that, was kind of waking up "base", then not for long in my opinion:)
     
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    Sounds as though the Mrs Chaste approach to chastity is required! Get him to fix a keysafe to the back of suitable wardrobe (we have a walk in with a solid wall). Set the combination, take the keys and lock them away! No more unlocking and unauthorized play.
     
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    That’s an great idea
     
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    I don't understand this. How did he come to be unlocked? Were you negligent in leaving him that way? That can't happen in your start and stop situation. Did he remove it himself? That's the highest level of spanking offense!
     
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    I hope he learns that if he’s unlocked that his manhood still isn’t his, it’s YOURS. He needs
     
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    I doubt, mans are weak and it will not last long, you should keep him caged and with no avaliable release, only you or an emergency can free the penis and if it the second better it is a good excuse

    You are too merciful, lock and dont lock back, when he wants to have it freedom he only has to ask to you
     
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    How long have you been locking him up. Sounds like your a great KH
     
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    I think you should make his life hell for a while. He is playing games and needs to be taught a lesson. If he is serious he wil comply with what you do and if you are serious he will never want to do it again.
     
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    A good pegging should stop that.
     
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    I totally agree with this. There is only one question: is he serious about your FLR and his chastity. If he answers no, then it is over. If he answers yes he needs strict unforgettable discipline and strict chastity, probably the springtime version of Locktober, a whole month with no erections and a lot of Mistress worship.
     
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    Caging needs to be unconditional in order to work properly. Otherwise it's a fun fetish.
     
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    I would figure out what he despises and let him have it, think outside the bedroom for your punishment. And he would be sleeping on the floor for a week with just a pillow no blankets.
     
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    That's not cool, and there need to be consequences. Nice work denying him pleasure. But does he need a stronger reminder of who is in charge?

    If I recall correctly, he introduced chastity. Is this a case of he should have been more careful what he wished for?

    There is a thread on here titled 'It was only one wank' started by @Mandynjack before you joined CM.
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/it-was-only-one-wank.26281/

    If you guys haven't caught up with this thread I suggest it is worth you both having a read. IMO it gives a great insight into the thinking of a number of wives/girlfriends/keyholders about why they don't love it when the guy takes things into his own hands.

    Good luck.
     
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    Given the situation, I can't help but agree.
     
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    Thanks for that thread suggestion, I’ll definitely look it up
     
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    On and off about a year and a half
     
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    Piggy has a hard time making it through the night caged and he was released so thats why the morning happened. He promised me his dick and I’m not letting him off the hook. I want him caged for long periods of time and he’s too weak to handle it and I cave in! Thats why i say that we both have work to do but I WILL WIN THIS ONE!
     
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    The making it through the night issue is solvable. There are two possibilities -- he's getting erections and they're waking him up or he's getting ball pain associated with erections. The former should ignored, it'll sort itself out after several weeks. The latter is almost always a too-small back ring issue -- as his erection grows it's *girth* (not length) is compressed and some testicle-related tubes or nerves that flow through there feel compressed and ball-painful. If it happens every night it's a ring issue, get a bigger ring (not a longer cage). If it happens only once in a while just take a pee and let it go down and go back to bed. But clearly he shouldn't be unlocked.
     
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    Clearly!. Thank you for that info. We'll have to try that
     
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    I am amazed, about stubborn, and well.. even fanatic stupidness of commentators..
    Mad, deeeep, stupidness.
    In one and total, it sounds, like a bunch of empty heads wankers. Mhm, it does.
    Even worst, sounds like FUCKING NAZIS(sorry for dirty words), BUT IT IS TRUE.
    I'm offering some small "trip" into far land of idiots toughts...
    - clearly he shouldn't be unlocked
    - I would figure out what he despises and let him have it, think outside the bedroom for your punishment. And he would be sleeping on the floor for a week with just a pillow no blankets
    - There is only one question: is he serious about your FLR and his chastity. If he answers no, then it is over. If he answers yes he needs strict unforgettable discipline and strict chastity, probably the springtime version of Locktober, a whole month with no erections and a lot of Mistress worship.

    (ALPHA IDIOT)- I think you should make his life hell for a while. He is playing games and needs to be taught a lesson. If he is serious he wil comply with what you do and if you are serious he will never want to do it again.


    (ALPHA IDIOT)- I not sure but maybe he didn't get the memo. It Is Not Yours To Play With. If he gave it to you
    what is he playing with it for. Doesn't sound to me that he is getting the message. I think it is lock up
    time until Your further notice. No more snapping the carrot for him. His attention is supposed to
    be on You. Tell him he is cheating on you. Enough already

    (ALPHA IDIOT)- I hope he learns that if he’s unlocked that his manhood still isn’t his, it’s YOURS. He needs

    (ALPHA IDIOT)- How did he come to be unlocked? Were you negligent in leaving him that way? That can't happen in your start and stop situation. Did he remove it himself? That's the highest level of spanking offense!


    Now, fuck it, simply feel bad about wasting my own time going "forward", about copy/paste "gems" of IDIOTS.
    I dont care, will I be thrown out from this place, or whatever..
    Why it sounds like nazi fanatic dogs? Cause: -- LOCK LOCK LOCK PUNISH LOCK LOCK PUNISH LOCK....


    Dear IDIOTS, EVERY, AND EACH FORM OF LIFE IS KIND OF UNIQUE UNIVERSE... Do someone can somehow remember "things" as - FEELINGS, HEART/SOUL, MOOD, etc...
    After all,.. MISTAKES, -M I S T A K E S- ,is the thing, what we all doing, no matter, strong/weak, Dom/sub, old/young....

    What about Lady...

    I believe that Females are amazing form of living creatures, amazing in all ways, and so IMPORTANT moment is GENTLENESS of Womans. . . and that gentleness usually being fucked fucked fucked fucked, and so on, by males.. I'M NOT KIND OF - MALES ARE PIGS. NOPE! We all are comming to this world as equal, GOOD forms of life... and then all brainwashing being launched...
    - SON! my son was born!
    - Girls are silly
    - Man(male) "holding" all four corners
    - It's MAN'S TALK, can you ladies please leavethe room...
    - Hey, fuck that bitch there is 1000 000'ns of them around
    etc...

    Ladies being, ARE pissed of by male behavior, nearly in every step... should I remind, about things, like - right to vote, (FUCKING HELL) right to ride a bicycle.... etc..

    OKAY, males are pigs, blah, blah... Nope. Exist endless number of shit, which males, can drop on Ladies....
    Endless story...

    He is masturbating, lying, messing, or any.. with you BKwife?
    You taking advices of some males, mostly IDIOTS, probable superma....maaasturbators ;), vankers, heroes of monitor, without real life experience... They will "help" you, with LOCK LOCK LOCK... and then tell to us what is going on now between you/him..

    I'm living nearly 8 years in Dom/sub(call/understand it your way) kind of relationship, with amazing Lady, my Mistress. I'm pretty good looking girl, I'm living as one, I'm locked for ages, etc..
    All shit as in best fantasies of web vankers :)


    Yet, was saying it for ages - IT IS COMPLETELY DIFERENT THINGS, TO MASTURBATE IN FRONT OF MONITOR WATCHING PORN, AND TO LIVE REAL DOM /SUB LIFE.
    It is HARD path/way... We had so painfull crisis, and so amazing times... After all those years, I can say honestly: - "HOT" things is the very last things.. All is builded up, on LOVE, which brings TRUST, what is the feeling of safety at the same time...
    I dont think that "terror therapy" does any point. Maybe leaving partner in "peace" about these things, could help?
    He is dissapointing you about this kind of lifestyle, after asking for it by himself?
    Again - it is common thing for human beings to be weak. You can try to give some warm, yes, even more warm, conversations, as two Persons, who cares and love each other...
    If things will go on same way.. DONT - LOCK, DOM, PUNISH him... AS THE thing IS - YOU ARE "RUNNING" AROUND partner "ass"..
    After being disappointed again.. Give time and Love, to YOURSELF
    Do not run to him, with "punishments" or strict talks.. FUCK it! Go to restoran alone(NO IT IS NOT ABOUT CUCKOLDING SHIT), simply have a good evening with YOURSELF. Instead of pissing of yourself in messed up lewdness of partner. Have bubble baths, glass of vine while reding a book, beloved tv show, or anyting, what would be FOR YOU, not for his "HOLLY BETWEEN LEGS".. AND JUST IN MY OPINION, IT IS NO NEED OF PRESSURE, JUST LOVE.
    Dont be nazi:) LOCKED, LOCKED!!! HAHAHA! any device, any, ANY can be unlocked, by conscious person, except for "superlock", crafted by mutual respect, and understanding of each others feelings.

    Personally for you BKwife - I am sorry, if I insulted you in any way/somehow. I was writing all this, from all my heart, with very best hopes for you, and your partner.

    For IDIOTS... Hate me, make fun of me, ANY.. I dont, DONT care.
    Also, I believe, SOMEHOW, it is possible to understand, at least abstractly what I'm was about.
    I'm SORRY for MY poor English language skills, AS English IS NOT MY FIRST language .



    Have a nice day now
     
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    We read it together and it was very much the way I feel sometimes.
     
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