A journey into ever-greater chastity

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    I first came across chastity when reading porn stories on the web about a decade ago. The idea of enforcing male chastity by locking a man’s penis in a chastity device really caught my attention. I became drawn to stories and images of locked men. I found myself dreaming about my wife locking me in a chastity device, but only for one or two days. In those early days, while I found the idea of long-term chastity very exciting, it was certainly not for me.

    Some years later, after I became single again, I started to play with a few different chastity devices, eventually graduating to a MM Jailbird. It is a beautiful device. Later, I had it shortened –the old mistake of ordering that first device too big! I loved my Jailbird, but could not wear it for more than a few days at a time as it produced soreness on the underside of my penis, where it meets the scrotum. Nevertheless, I was starting to yearn for longer periods of chastity, and the ability to be locked for maybe a week or two.

    As I write today, in January 2022, I have not had an orgasm since September 2018. After that release, I decided not to cum for a while, then for a while longer, and then to extend my growing period of denial even further. As is well known, the longer you remain chaste, the harder it becomes to give up your chastity. It is now 3 years 4 months since I last ejaculated. Now, after all those years of wariness of long term denial, I am finally looking for a way to be locked long-term.

    A month or so ago, I bought a Cobra N chastity device. It is wonderfully comfortable. At last, I have found a device that I can wear for a couple of weeks, maybe longer, without problems. I find that the contours of the Cobra cause it to grip me more tightly than did the Jailbird, thereby creating a greater feeling of horniness around my balls and throughout my penis. With the Jailbird, when my penis tried to get hard up against the bars of the cage, I could push firmly against it with a finger, which gave a pleasurable sensation. Now, with the Cobra, in which the gaps are a lot smaller, when my penis tries to get hard, the Cobra prevents me from touching it at all. This inability to touch my aroused penis is extra frustrating. Is that good? Maybe not physically, but mentally it is exactly what is needed – the denial of as much sexual pleasure as possible from penile stimulation is just what chastity demands. So in the Cobra, I end up rather more frustrated and my cock aches more than it did in the Jailbird. Anyway, I think the Cobra may have solved my long-term device problem, and also enhanced the delicious frustration of chastity a little too.

    But what about the problem of being self-locked? I have never experienced what I imagine is the heady emotion of being locked and knowing that I have no way to unlock myself. So I have now acquired a “kSafe mini +” time lock container. Currently, I have the keys to my Cobra device in the kSafe and have set the locked time to 2 hours. I then removed the batteries, which stops the timer from counting down. So now I cannot get to the keys until 2 hours after I put the batteries back in the kSafe. At last, after a few years of wanting it, I am locked in a chastity device and am unable to release myself, at least until 2 hours after I decide to replace the batteries. After a little more experience, I might start locking the keys in the kSafe for 1 or 2 days, and gradually build the time up. Although the maximum period for locking the container is 10 days, it is possible to add additional time to the locked period whenever you wish, up to a maximum of 10 days. Having set the lock time, it is not possible to reduce it – you must wait for the lock timer to count down to its expiry. But you can freeze the timer’s counter at its current value by removing the batteries. I guess removing the batteries, throwing them away, and making sure there are no other AA batteries in the house, would be similar to placing the keys in a safety-deposit box! Maybe at some point in the future, I might be tempted to keep continually increase the timer so it never drops below a few days so that I never get access to the keys!

    After more than three years without ejaculating, my whole being seems to be focused on my cock and balls. I love the tight grip that the base ring of the Cobra applies around my balls and how closely the cage encases my penis. I enjoy the insistent feeling of neediness in my cock, particularly around its head. I love the dichotomy between my physical urge to cum and my emotional need to remain denied. I also love the persistent horniness that has become the principal sensation of my existence. I wonder when (or if) this will end. Is it possible that I will never cum again? And now I hope that in addition to my long-term denial I will also be able to experience long-term lockup too.
     
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    Love the story of your journey. Similar to mine but I use a tube with a pepper pot end as my cage which gives also give me the feeling of being tightly encased but leaving me unable to touch my penis in anyway.
     
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    Love your pics majorsk :lockkey:
     
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    I think all you need now is a woman to tease you to make you hornier but not able to do anything about it
     
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    Thank you starflyer
     
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    Thanks for sharing!
     
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    Thank-you danlocked.

    I enjoyed the story of your recent re-entry into chastity.
    Good luck and keep it up (or locked down, as that would be more appropriate.)
     
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    Good luck with it. You're certainly a hardcore explorer of chastity.
     
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    I just did my first search about long term self locking and this message was the first I read.

    I was curious if some men locked themselves long-term without needing or wanting a key holder. Basically long term masturbation denial and as a result orgasm denial.

    I have ordered but haven't received a Jail Bird, so I'm mostly just toying with the idea at this stage.
     
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