A good way to keep an eye on a sub / husband

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    Manything lets you use older phones as web cameras that you can monitor on your smartphone. This way you don’t have to buy a webcam. Cheap older phones are at thrift stores.
    Also http://www.ifttt.com (if this then that) lets you make devices and apps work together easily.
    My husband used that site to set up check ins that were reported on “slack” so when he reached a spot on a map like dropping off the kids at school or arriving at walmart his phone would notify “slack” and I could get a notification on the slack app.
    Check out how ifttt can help you.
    https://manything.com/
     
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    If you don't mind me asking Princess, what type of dog training shocker did you buy from Amazon? And what types of modifications did you have to make to it? Is the vibrate mode painful for him? Or does it have to be in shock mode to cause pain? I'm only asking because my KH just gave me permission to buy one, and I am trying to figure out which one to get. She wants one that will cause pain, not just rattle my balls. :eek:
     
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    I believe there are a few real-time budget management tools that can be shared.
     
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    That was really good!
     
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    chastiff said:
    good idea.
    I wonder if there's a way of observing financial transactions remotely

    Kind regards,
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    You may observe all your financial transactions by phone. You may observe all your joint account transactions by phone. So arrange for him have a only joint account with you.. you don't have to use it yourself at all just use it to monitor his actions with it.
     
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    Use Everydollar. It’s a really nice personal tool to manage your money. Make a budget and then track purchases almost in real-time.
     
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    Sounds good but if I would have done that I would have a lot more money now but wouldn’t of had nearly as much fun. It’s a balancing act LOL
     
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    My KH monitors every transaction I make by receiving text alerts from the cards I have access to. I handed over half a dozen cards to her and now retain just one credit and one debit card. She gets notifications on both and seems rather happy about it after being pretty much in the dark financially for the first 11 years of our relationship when she was the sub and I was her Dom. It works well for us.
     
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    :) Outcomes sometimes take a while to take shape.
     
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    That is pretty impressive. Did it make a healthy difference for your finances or was it enough that she knew?
     
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    My Mistress has never taken control of our finances. She has her business and I have mine. I help her with hers a lot but she has no interest in what my business is. I make about 5 times as much as she does and spend most of it on her so she’s very happy with our arrangement. What ever works for you is the right way. Our relationship is more of a SCFLR. ( Sex Control ).
     
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    Well said, and thank you for the perspective.
     
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    That is amazing! Would love to have a mistress to do this for. If she had multiple subs it could maybe even be a challenge, like who can make the biggest name in their city
     
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    In a city like Edinburgh you might even be and to choose a font with some of those windy streets in the old town :)
     
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    Great idea and how my wife follows me. One thing she does that may work for you is to give me a time limit to do three things like food shop, stop at UPS and then pick up mail. There is a penalty for not going from one place to another in a specified times and another penalty for not completing all the task in a specific time.

    It is safe for us because all streets here are one lane with a 35 Mph speed limit so I am not going to be driving unsafe. However I have to drive smart and find the quickest routes and also complete my tasks like food shopping real fast. Perhaps you can tell them what time to leave for work each morning according to their feedback and then have a penalty for leaving early or late.

    What we do may not work in your situation. You can think of time based tasks. Perhaps do not leave work until an hour later than usual one day. Leave for work an hour earlier, etc. Go to store and buy four inexpensive items and then get back home in a specific time. They send a photo of the items they bought. Stuff like that. Of course there are always GPS guided drones. :)
     
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    I have not looked at the app itself, but there seem to be a number of things you can do with it. The geofence feature lets you know when someone has entered or left an area. At the simplest you could use this to impose a curfew on someone (you can not leave the area around your house for the next 24 hours) or a negative curfew (you are not allowed home until midnight). More creatively you could virtually hide someone's key in a city (your key is somewhere in london and you will not be let out until you find the location, good luck)! If there were two people locked up, you could only have one virtual key and the first one to find it is the one who gets out. You could make several geofences, some would give clues, some would have punishments, but only one would have the key. You could set up geofences so someone only could go between work and home for a while. You could set up a geofence 200 miles away and make someone travel to that location. You could set up geofences around every strip club in the city and have someone have to visit them all before they are let out.
     
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    That idea of going to a store and sending a text can be very exciting. About a year ago Miss Shelly told me to stop at the adult store when I got their I was to text her and hand my phone to the owner. A lady that we know rather well. Miss Shelly texted her this text. “ My husband needs a Spanking when he gets home, can you please help him buy a new paddle.” The owner picked out a paddle like she was picking out groceries. Your post just reminded me of that day LOL
     
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    Ours works with an iPhone app
     
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    It was a discounted at amazon. My husband bought it and I am pretty sure it’s on his blog I made him write. https://iloveitwhenshe.tumblr.com
    I think you can search on it. Look for amazon. If that doesn’t help I will ask him for the link.
     
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    That's a good way too. Especially of you can combine with a remote control zapper where it matters most to him so he knows what's coming should he step out of line.
     
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    It has a vibrate mode that I can set and a shock mode. The vibration mode I can set as high as I want with no problem. It has a fence mode that I have never used. It has a variable shock mode but I tested it. Anything over a level three is abuse. It shocks so hard! He modified it to fit over his current cage. It seems to pass the electricity through his skin rather than just through his cage. He is the tech guy not me though. He told me not to delete the app because it is no longer on the App Store. They had a few that worked with a iPhone or Android he said. I like using it when I feel like it. It’s a fun toy. It’s best when the kids are not around. I would never use it if he was driving.
     
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    don't worry about losing "trust" any system could be beat, what is important is each little boy has yielded to you.
     
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    It’s fun, but only when I feel like using it. (Or I think he needs a attitude adjustment)
     
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    I find myself getting more into the being controlled for her pleasure...beyond the locked and denied for and by her thing

    So with that thought in mind I would not want to wear the shock collar thing but I'm sure I'd enjoy her wanting to and actually controlling me further with it much more than the reality of actually being controlled with it.
    Which is perhaps exactly as it should be.
    After all I gave her control so the method by which she chooses to exercise and enforce that is entirely her choice.
     
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    I think having multiple methods of control is the way to go. If all you have is a hammer all problems look like a nail or something like that. I like having all kinds of tools
     
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