A goal.....100 a year!

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    Well, I have a goal. Because I've been neglectful and been masturbating too much. I have been limited to 100 orgasms a year. A goal. To start, a few weeks of just one orgasm a week. The journey has just begun. Where will it lead to.....what will it lead to?

    It's been about 90 hours now. I'm starting to feel HORNY! If only I could rub it or squeeze it. But I can do neither. My heart thumps with that sexual excitement I only felt years ago.
     
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    100 a year! That is more than Mistress allows me. Wow!
     
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    (Wonders......how many do you get?)
     
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    A 100 a year....geeez,....doesn't sound like orgasm control to me. Many people are lucky to get 10 a year. I think you need to challenge yourself a bit more than 100. Just my opinion.
     
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    100 a year? LMAO....I know this is a joke, LOL
    Thats 2 a week....so much for orgasm control LMAO
     
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    Most of us subs on here can only dream about that, a 100 is a distant dream

    Amber
     
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    I will be fortunate if I get one a dozen ogasms next year, and I do it on the honour system!
     
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    Congratulations for setting a goal, Nadine! It's a good place to start. Dollyanne had this problem also--too much masturbation up to 3 times a day with lots of porno! That was over 2 years ago. Since joining the site and getting locked (self-locked) into chastity all that has changed drastically.

    Before chastity, dolly started with trying to limit herself to once a week. It was difficult, and required some edging during the week, but it was doable. Then after about 2 months of this, dolly went to masturbating only in a gurlie mode--rubbing through panties, rubbing nibbles, etc. That also worked for dolly until she reached the point where she could cum in her panties through rubbing her nipples alone. This probably took about 3 months and dolly was totally amazed when it happened. Dolly did this for several months and extended her time from once a week to once every two weeks, to finally once a month. Yes, this was quite difficult!

    Then dolly locked herself in chastity. It took some time--several months really--to get adjusted to the chastity, but once dolly did she was able to allow herself a gurlie squirtie only once a month. Of course, a gurlie squirtie is not the same intensity as a boi-mode squirtie, but it still satisfying because it gives dolly goose-bumps over her whole body! At some point, dolly also developed the ability to have a squirtie in her chastity, but dolly thinks this is because her chastity is a bit too large and allows too much of an erection. Dolly plans to solve this with a shorter custom made device.

    Dolly mentions her experience to give you some things to think about as you go forward, because setting goals for yourself is never ending. Once you reach one, you need a new one! If you are like dolly, you are going to be horny gurl almost ALL the time! Good luck!

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    :interrogation: Are you sure you didn't add an extra zero on that number? You meant "10", right?

    Because, sweetie, my pet would be as submissive as a pit bull with a hard on if he had that many orgasms per week/year.
     
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    Sorry I have to agree with the majority here. While I say congrats on setting the goal I would be right on 100 a year with no enforced control. For me it would not be uncommon to masturbate twice to three times a week. Since we have started I am well under 40 a year probably. Hell there months this year without a single orgasm. Sounds like a fun thing to track in 2010 though! As long as Goddess does not see this I could get away with a 100 a year easily. Any rate just chiming in to have fun harassing you. nothing serious is intended so please take it as such. Good luck with your goals.
     
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    That sounds like a terrific goal. I know that would be extremely difficult for me. Good luck with it.
     
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    I'm sorry if my goal is disappointing to others here. I realize I'm like a fat tubby freshmen trying to run a race against in shape varsity elite. But, this is a place to start. I just got my cb 6000, 4 days ago. I still haven't even figured out the ale or spacer that is right for me. I'll try to do better.

    Thank you DollyAnne for your support. As you said, I was masturbating atleast once a day. Being TG isn't easy. Finding a SO that is not only understanding but supportive is like a dream come true. I never thought that would happen. But, I can't curb habits that have been forming for years. This is a place to start. And the 100 are for my GF, as she wants them. We are deeply in love.

    P.S. No hard feelings though. I do like to be friendly and talkative.:love0071:
     
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    As an update...it's been over 100 hours now, and for me, that's a big thing. I've satisfied my GF twice this week too. The first time we used my chastity. It was difficult, but we managed. She liked a few things about it, like where the lock would be when I lifted it when we were having fun. But, I noticed she wanted it deeper, like it wasn't long enough....and I suppose it's not. So, I got a very functional strap on about the same size as me. She really liked it.

    She made the comment that she wants it everyday. I have a goal to lose weight as another measure that must be met. She told me, this would help me lose weight faster. It's like the roles have changed.

    I'm also having feeling that I haven't had since I was a teenager. A racing heart of lust. I remember feeling this way every time I would talk to a cute girl. But, this time it is different. I can't explain how.
     
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    Oh, honey. I feel like such an ass.:sad0020: I apologize for being such a smart ass earlier. Please except my apology! Everyone has their own "right way" for chastity and I so rudely forgot my manners. You and your GF sound like you have a wonderful loving relationship and I wish you the best of luck in your journey! Forgive? :manga_blowkiss:
     
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    We all have to start somewhere! Good luck and we are all here to support you
     
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    It's all good! I'm just happy to have made a goal and I'm trying to stick with it. I guess 100 a year does sound like a lot, but I'm already used to about 10 a week. So, this is a factor of 5 reduction.

    Giggle, the smilies on this site are funny.....like this one.:chores036:
     
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    TGNadine I have to agree perhaps we jumped on you a little to much here but please realize we are just trying to help, sometimes the wrong way, but none the less here to support you. I would say if you are doing ten a week then 100 a year would be a HUGE goal to hit!
     
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    How soon I forgot my own previous (as in distant past) masturbation habits... I was once (in a day before time began day) a three a day cum guy too...

    Hurray for achievable goals! :jumping0044:
     
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    TGNadine,

    Congratulations on setting the goal and good luck toward achieving it. I'm new here to the forums, but I've been locked up for short periods of time (days to a couple of weeks) off and on over the past couple of years. I really enjoy the feelings of my manhood in chastity and my wife (my keyholder) also enjoys the added attention I seem to pay her once I'm locked up.

    I, too, seem to have a very weak will and will masturbate quite a bit if not locked up. With the chastity device on, I'm able to focus on things that are more important than my satisfaction...like wifey's. :)

    Usually, I'm released to satisfy my wife. Seems she really enjoys the feeling of me inside her. Plus, she also has very strong submissive tendencies, so she likes to be the "sub slut" and be forced to service her man.

    I would think that your goal of 100 orgasms is reasonable, for starters. Hey...you might be able to really beat it by a long shot. But if your GF is like my wife and really enjoys the feeling of "her man" inside her, than it might be a bit harder to keep your goal.

    Of course, if you are released to satisfy her needs, I guess you could almost ignore that as an orgasm for you. I mean, you're doing it for her, right? It IS important to keep her happy, especially since it seems like she's been willing to play along so far, right?

    Anyway, good luck and have a GREAT New Year!

    -subrick
     
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    So, true. I guess I want to limit it to 100 a year due to poor performance. I'm hoping cutting back put the perspective of where thing should be, well, where they should be. Masturbating too much was destroying our love life. What I like best about the 100 a year is that if we want, we can have maybe 4 or 5 in just one week, but then that means going longer the next time. Schedules out, it is about twice a week. But, nothing is to say that a strict schedule will be kept. I have a stop short of 10 a month.....so that I don't get too carried away and lapse back to how things were.
     
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    Well, the first week is over, and I made it.:anim_19: Tonight I go out clubbing with my GF. I'm all enfemme, looking sexy as can be. I'll post pictures of our night out. Too bad I'll have my cb on while we are out. I'm hoping nobody notices it, under my dress.
     
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    Yippie....I'm out of my belt. I know, I know....bad gurl. Well, my habit is under much better control. So, now the new torture begins. I won't have to go back into the cb if I can make the next week without orgasm. I need to get one in the slot so to speak to avoid being locked up. These sissy panties I have to go to bed in sure do feel silky after a week in the cb. And there is room to grow. I hope I don't make a mess while I sleep.
     
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    I hit some button and lost what I was typing. I'll have to start over. sigh.
     
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    Well, I am out of my belt and it feels good. Healing up nicely. I don't know how you all do it. I guess there is a getting used to period. I've learned a lot since I've been coming here. I've played around with the rings and spacers on my CB 6000. I still want to play around a little more, I'm thinking of the 4th ring and the 3rd largest spacer. The idea is I want to allow erections but without the possibility of stimulation.
     
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    Since the belt has come off, the teasing has begun. I guess my GF is kinkier than I thought. When we were having sex, she demanded that I not cum. The restaining is killing me. I've since bought a strap on to satisfy here when I'm locked of or not functioning. I have something the similar in length and girth to what I really have. This really satisfies her. Even though it is I who is making love to her, it still feels like someone else if fucking her. Her moans tell me she loves this all too much.
     
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