A Girl And Her Boy

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    You are really taking the grip on things to come. Your two points are to be strictly kept and the results will follow.
    Be happy!
     
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    Isn't it maddening when you have a cunning plan and it ends up changing into something you hadn't planned for? You know what you want but the options are just too delicious to resist sometimes.

    We jump between plans and surprises all the time because life just gets in the way, then fun gets in the way and then it all just ends up in a heap of sexy fun and giggles.

    Enjoy the planning and succeeding alongside the planning and the failing ;)
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Absolutely!! :):strong::strong::+1::strong::strong::)
     
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    Right girl!
    Go for it without restraints.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Indeed. The best laid schemes of mice and men gang aft agley.
    But when they succeed...:):+1::strong::strong::strong::strong::strong:
     
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    My goodness, I was not expecting such a positive response! I'm flattered and encouraged by all the support, truly. It means a lot.
     
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    Something must have come over me recently, because the past two nights have been an experience I won't soon forget. Let's just say that when I saw a scarier and sexier me in the future, I didn't think the future would come quite so fast!

    It started when I ordered a few new BDSM toys earlier this week. I was excited to try them out on him, and I must've tapped deeper into my sadistic side than usual during our session last night, because I was downright brutal to him. He trembled uncontrollably as he told me that he'd never felt so viscerally dominated before. We had a similarly intense session tonight, but this time I gave him an orgasm, as I'd promised him prior.

    Fascinating as his intense submissiveness was, it seemed to be localized to that one moment of torture, and he's since told me that he's reluctant to start an FLR, especially with how strongly I came on. I'm willing to talk it through and find a regime that works for both of us, but even though I'd be okay with resuming our switchy pattern for a while to give him a mental break, I can't help but be a little bummed. Then again, hot damn, am I feeling more confident in the relationship (and the bedroom) than I've felt in a long, long time!
     
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    Hello, all.

    I’m Puella’s SO. I’ve scarcely touched this account in some time so I figured I’d pop in and reintroduce myself.

    I don’t have a whole lot to add, as she and I are very transparent with each other regarding our thoughts. (She sometimes asks me for my thoughts to weigh in a bit as she writes her posts.) But, nevertheless, I am around and willing to join in on the discussions here with whatever thoughts I have. (Or at least the ones that Puella doesn’t articulate before I have a chance to!)

    As is probably evident, we’re a little unsure on how to proceed. I both understand the benefits and am wary of the deep psychological commitment that a long term chastity scheme would entail, and she, likewise, is thrilled by the notion of such control, but doesn’t want to do anything to jeopardize our happiness or damage the wonderful relationship we’re so lucky to share. We’ve been talking it through and we’ll most likely just continue taking it slow for now, which is probably for the best.
     
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    Good to see you here, love. <3
     
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    Moving to an FLR was the best thing we ever did. I am not dominated completely all the time, that is not necessary, and Elle my Wife demands that I am a strong, helpful partner. She doesn't want a weak slave. I would read How to set up an FLR by Ivey Green, it helped Elle really understand more about what an FLR is and can be. It isn't for everyone but it works for us amazingly well.
     
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    I feel ya. It's important to me that my boy be strong; there's a reason I demean him with "boy" and not something sissier.

    Hey, thanks for the rec! I'll look into it! :)
     
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    It's one of the things that fascinates me the most a woman experience her own power she might have downplayed for years. Something fascinating when discovering it and the changes
     
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