A dating question for Keyholders

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Ladies if your relationship with your submissive ceased to exist would you

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  1. Rodeo cowboy
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    Dear Keyholders,

    I am curious and have a follow on question to Abstraction's earlier question:

    Abstraction, Jun 6, 2020
    Dear keyholders, from what I see, most of the time it's the man who takes the first step. I'd like to know if anyone has had experience initiating chastity with their partner.

    Ladies if your relationship with your current partner ceased to exist what type of man would have a relationship with? Is your Dominance based on your relationship or your true personality?
     
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    I would definitely only date submissive men after this experience, I just hope my husband lives long enough for me not to have to date anyone else.

    But yeah, now I know what being a dominant is like and how much better company a chaste man is, I will never want to go back. I am sure of that after being dominant for two years.
     
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    i would much rather date an alpha xy type then dominate the xy. the preference is a xy with real spirit and a strong honour code where submission is not now in his nature.
     
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    Why did you choose the title "VERIFIED FEMALE" instead of doing the process with the admins?
     
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    1. we do not post pictures in any way on the internet.
    2. we don not store pictures on computers that are connected to the internet.
    3. i am not tech savvy but my daughter is. she showed me the passing requirements here by using her brother. he moved and spoke as a young man. the computer had a naked woman moving as he did. my son spoke as a man but the computer sounded like a woman. i was truly amazed. i had another daughter. today with a little talent you can fake anything on line. so female verified means nothing. still i was born an xx and continue to be an xx. i have given birth to my children and i bleed every month. i take offense to being asked to prove i have tits and a vagina. on the other hand my puck who has tits and a camel toe easily seen in a bikini would surely pass miss lucy's test.
    what surprises me is that dominate women will jump through lucy's hoops to prove to others that they are too weak to stand on their word alone. that they need the reassurance of another to be believed..... hhmmm doesn't sound dominate to me!
     
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    #6 L-u-c-y, Jul 24, 2020
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    No one has been asked to prove themselves, it's voluntary as you know.. In fact you have approached me 3 times asking about the verification process since I introduced it, but have provided nothing.

    No one has to jump through any hoops, they approach me if they want to be verified. I've verified for other sites, I didn't see it as jumping through hoops.

    Photos of body parts are not required for verification, as you also know.

    You're making yourself look very fake by trying to falsify a verification badge.

    Now put up or shut up.
     
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    in all fairness lucy has been pretty straight forward with me about her reasons as you can see all our communications on this issue below. though she asks for what i would not give to anyone nor do i believe anyone should ever ask that of me. the reason it is asked is that someone once fooled lucy for years. as i have pointed out even with what she asks for now she could be easily fooled. not that i know how but my daughter showed me how easy she could do it. your suggestions of put up or shut up seems to me you want me to have my daughter to open up accounts for men with verified female status and then show how the system can be beat or why verified female proves nothing. an effort really not needed since most know this to be true.
    on the other hand i know what i am and i verified it myself (actually i asked my sister ma'ats if i was female and they verified it for me.) without making a real issue out of it. when asked i answered honestly.
    the bottom line here is this is lucy's mansion and she can set the rules how she chooses. it does not make them right. no one has to like them. it is just the way it is and i appreciate the mansion as a place to learn, hear others opinions and express mine.

    1. Ma'at Rebekah, Feb 25, 2020
      i have no idea of how to verify i am what i was born, female. is there a procedure for verification?


    2. L-u-c-y, Feb 25, 2020







      (Personal email and privare conversation deleted by Mod other than L-u-c-y - this is unacceptable so please do not do that again.)

      Ma'at Rebekah,
    3. we are a very private community. remember that europe sent as many puritan to america as possible and though it has been hundreds of years ago their intolerance for other still premiates throughout our society. our spirit way of life is vulnerable to say the least.
      i have never placed my photo nor any family or friends on a phone or internet. even within our community many feel me just being here makes them more vulnerable. i will speak to the council but i am pretty sure sending a photo will not be allowed.
      i suppose just as we have been forced to set rule for the protection of all concern you must do the same. still i have a little trouble seeing the long term benefit to portray what one is not.

      thank you for your quick reply

      mr

      L-u-c-y,
     
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    #8 L-u-c-y, Jul 24, 2020
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    I didn't ask for anything, you approached me and asked me about the procedure for verifying.

    I would appreciate it if you didn't post private conversations and my contact details in public.
     
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    Here is my take on this...

    You know there is a "VERIFIED FEMALE" badge given out by this site and you took the exact syntax... and made it your own "title"...

    If V.F. means nothing, and making it your title is your way of showing it means nothing... that's fine, I just thought it was interesting.

    I also think it is very manipulate and wrong, but that is just my opinion.
     
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    This is an interesting topic. Can we get the thread back on target?
    Thank you all verified or not.
     
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    Oh, welcome to the internet. Here's your accordion.
     
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    this made me laugh!
     
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    Y’all are killin my vibe.

    I posted this for keyholders not just verified females. I wanted a broader section of the women here to consider this question. My goal is to start a dialogue.

    I am interested in what you have to say.
     
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    For reference:

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    Of course, Gary Larson. Brill.
     
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    Head Mistress Lucy has spoken
     
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    Great questions, sorry you didn't get more traction.
     
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