A chaste switch

Hi! I'm curious to find out how distinctive my situation is - I wouldn't be surprised to bump into folks like me!

I switch, though never with the same person (tried it - spoils the dynamic for me.) My wife is vanilla and not involved in my kinky life, though she knows about it and encourages me.

I've submitted to a few women, one recently for three and a half years. I've played with chastity more or less, with my longest lockup being about three weeks.

Recently a friend agreed to hold my key and be very hard on me. I've been locked for five weeks minus once for my "last" orgasm (ever? Yikes!). My KH lets me have sex, but no orgasm. ("Three hours, no more!") Strategies like this let me be have sex but stay "chaste". While my KH originally only agreed to hold my key, she's gotten a lot more demanding. We're new, but it's wonderful so far.

I discovered this site looking for advice about airport security while caged. It won't prevent me from flying, but it can be embarrassing. My KH hopes I get caught and humiliated! I do, too. :blushes: I'm glad to discover a community of like-minded folks.

Oh, I use a custom device from Lori that secures through my apadravya. Completely secure.

 

Good question, LesterBallard. My wife and I have a strong marriage, but sex hasn't been part of it for a while. Outside of that, being discreet is enough not to involve her in things she would rather not be involved in.