90 days, attempt #2

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  1. davidphd1866
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    Hello Everyone,

    My recent attempt at a three month "breaking" period, ended early at around day #35. I learned quite a bit about myself and quite a bit from the thoughtful commentary of fellow members.

    Now, my keyholder (and wife) have begun another attempt. This time, we will break the 90 days into two segments of 6 weeks each. After six weeks, my wife will evaluate my progress and she will determine the proper course of action from that point.

    What I am most eager for is to endure the initial two weeks or so to get over that intense frustration period and the intense ball-tugging nocturnal erection period. For me, this seems to subside at around two to three weeks. I know it gets easer after several weeks, I still have yet to see what rests over the two month horizon.

    Best regards to everyone,

    David
     
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    Good Luck David,

    I have just come out last weekend after 2.5 weeks. I wanted to keep going but circumstances ment I had to come out on Sat. I fully expect to go back in today but Mistress is in a fowl mood and I don't think she will remember.

    I would love to get through the 30 day mark.

    Keep it on!

    Dub sub
     
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    good luck

    we had a goal of 90 days, my Keyholder had me remove it on day 87 so i would not reach the goal and would have to try again and again. i haven't been locked that long since as we took a short break to clear up some relationship issues.

    In September my Keyholder did go out of town for a little over a week She had me locked me up while She was gone.

    i am awaiting another try at the 90 day goal.
     
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    Thanks DubSub and HerPantyBoy,

    Your replies show me that reaching long-term milestones is more difficult than I thought. Typically members' posts describe how challenging it is to "endure" the non-cumming, chafing and the like. But what I am learning from both of you is that it's just tough working with a keyholder sometimes. They have more influence over reaching a goal than we do sometimes.

    I appreciate the feedback. I must admit, I am dreading the next week or so, as my body has to "RE-learn" how to be locked. It sure gets easier after a couple of weeks.

    David
     
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    Hi David,

    My Mistress remembered last night and so I am back in. I know I had a three day break but now hope I am locked until December. The pain going back in last night was difficult because of rubbing etc as they have had only two days to clear up. Today is most uncomfortable. I hope you are ok.
     
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    Good luck david... just checking in to see how it is going this time round. :animal0008:
     
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    Thanks for asking Mistress Watchful!

    Tonight is one full week locked. (12 days without cumming) Looks like we are off on a good start.

    I have to say, like many of us have, the first week or two is by far the toughest. I yearn for hitting about the three week mark, it's much easier at least as far as the "frustration" goes.

    I will keep ya all posted!

    David
     
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    Dollyanne's chastity is self-imposed and she hasn't had a cummie in over 38 days and noticed the same thing, that the first couple of weeks or so are the toughest. It is especially difficult not to give in to temptation, especially since there is no one other than dollyanne guarding the castle. Good luck on reaching your goal!

    Huggs,
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    Thanks DollyAnne!

    Congratulations on hitting the 38 day mark. That is roughly my record. I hope you can keep strong and stay chaste!

    Luckily, I am JUST now getting the "edge" worn off. It's been about two weeks since I last squirted and I can now start to settle in and relax a bit. Boy, those first two weeks are tough.

    David
     
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    Thanks, David. Dollyanne is certainly not trying to break your record! So far, it's just the way the chips are falling. Dolly read a study recently that testosterone level peaks on the 7th day afer ejaculation (with abstinence in between, of course). This probably means that the most difficult time is around that week, when testosterone levels are high, which might explain why the first couple of weeks are so tough.

    Even if dollyanne gets a squirt this month, which is not guaranteed, it will be a little one--appropriate for a sissy gurl--since dolly does it by rubbing her nipples and squirming in her panties. It's not as strong that way, and dollyanne is still quite horny afterwards. Still, it provides a little bit of satisfaction. Dolly is certainly ready for one!

    Huggs,
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    Good Luck david on this current lockup!!
    dollyanne.....I would love to see you enjoying a sissy orgasm!! May be frustrating to you but it would be very entertaining for Me!

    Mistress Michelle :sex020:
     
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    Thank You, Mistress Michelle. It IS quite a sight to watch dollyanne doing this, especially after more than 30 days of abstinence! Dollyanne rubs her nipples furiously and squirms in her panties like a wanton slut! Even dollyanne is amazed. Looking down at her shaved legs, painted toe nails, pink satin sheets, and frilly panties stimulates her even more! There seems to be a direct connection from dollyanne's nipples to her sissy clitty!

    It is interesting that previously, when dollyanne did this in boi mode, she used sexy stories to help get her stimulated and "primed". Now, in gurl mode, dollyanne only needs her gurly imagination. No more porno material needed at all! This is quite a change.

    Also, in boi mode, dollyanne had difficulty consuming her sissy milk. The desire to do that seemed to pass with a strong cummie. However, in gurl mode, probably because it is not a full cummie, dollyanne has no trouble at all doing that, and it fact, looks forward to it. Dollyanne can't wait for the opportunity to do it again!

    Curtsey,
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    I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving--especially you Mistress Michelle.

    I think the group may be pleased to note some progress here:

    This Holiday weekend was met with a lot of "family" issues as is so common with many of us. Luckily, it was mainly my keyholder and her family having the issues this time. What I found interesting is that these family issues left me with HUGE opportunity to masturbate as my keyholder/wife was occupied with them and I was unlocked and home alone for some of the time. I am proud to say that I had NO problem resisting the temptation to violate my agreement to stay chaste for 45 days (with the extention of 45 more after that if I am successful) My word and comittment are, luckily, more important than cumming without permission.

    For the record, I was locked on the 16th and didn't cum since the 12th. That makes it about two and a half weeks since I had a cummie. I am glad that the most challenging first two weeks are complete.

    David
     
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    As your keyholder gets accustomed to the power she has over you, your period of lock up will get longer. As of this writing, (Jan. 11, 2010) I'm in day 168 and have no idea when I'll get another orgasm. Its up to her. - sir peter
     
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    David, As your keyholder gets accustomed to the power she has over you, your period of lock up will get longer. As of this writing, (Jan. 11, 2010) I'm in day 168 and have no idea when I'll get another orgasm. Its up to her. - sir peter
     
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