50 days in chastity orgasm free

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    50 days. Longest I have ever gone since discovering orgasms without one.

    I have spent less than 1 hour outside of a cage in this time. My wife has really stepped up this time around, total denial. She has given me no date for release but did comment that I have a ways to go even at 50 days.

    Chastity and orgasm denial is becoming the new normal. It's what I wished for....

    Also she is with holding any anal pleasure as well. She feels for now I don't deserve to get any form of sexual satisfaction. No ruins, no milking. Just tease and denial....
     
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    Congratulations on your mile stone! Here’s to another 50 days!!
     
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    Here, here! Here's to 50 more, congratulations.
     
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    You’re halfway to my 100 days personal record. The days will slip by faster with the nice weather, things to keep your mind off your confinement. Soon enough she will reward you for your obedience, enjoy what she provides.

    right now I am day 21 since my last release, I will be let out on July 4th and hope to have my own fireworks.

    keep up the good work!
     
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    What does tease and denial look like in your relationship? Congrats on the milestone.
     
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    Congratulation on your 50 days.
     
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    Congratulations!
    I've been locked for a month now, without an orgasm. I thought my KH/GF was going to let me out for father's day, but no such luck.. I don't know when I'm getting out. It looks like I'll be joining the 50 day club soon enough!
     
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    She had mentioned I might get an orgasm on father's day. She was generous and let me unlock for piv sex but I wasn't allowed to orgasm. She had me lock back up before going to sleep.

    Now she mentioned my birthday in December as a potential orgasm date.....
     
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    Lucky you! I haven't been permitted inside at all since early January.
     
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    So it depends on her mood and how much sleep the kids let her get the night before. Lol.

    I don't get unlocked unless we are having PIV. So all teasing happens caged. Usually we make out then I usually progress my fingers to her clitoris if I feel she is ready. If she wasn't in the mood to go further she tells me no, and she rolls over and has me cuddle her and we go to bed. I'm always straining at this point.

    If she is in the mood to keep going, I'm usually tasked with giving her an orgasm with my fingers. Sometimes she will let me rub my cage on her vagina while she masturbates.

    Lately she has taken to caressing my caged manhood. Finding little pleasure spots when I'm bulging through and she rubs them. Me using a strap on her has been very successful. Especially since I bought a vixskin dildo.

    And of course there is PIV. No orgasm allowed for me. We can usually get two or three in for her then she will have me go lock back up before bed. Very difficult task.

    She's not a kinky person but she has started getting her feet wet in the kinky pool. We are taking it slow and trying things at her pace. It's difficult for me because I want to jump full speed because I am a very kinky person.
     
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    Sounds perfect! Though it has to be a challenge with kids running around.
     
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    We are far from perfect. Took us over a year to get where we are today and quite a few false starts.

    Anything sexual happens after the kids are in bed. Luckily they are pretty good sleepers. Wife can get a bit loud sometimes.

    Everything once in a while she will give my little cage a tug in a vanilla setting. So rewarding. She is doing her best to build on what we have so far but sometimes needs little reminders to push me a little further.
     
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    100 days today. No orgasms.

    Allergy season hit and my wife always has major flare ups every year. It effects her sleep and over all well well being. So of course things have slowed down a bit as she gets through it

    I hate to see her suffering, it sounds awful. She has remained resolute in denying me though, even when my attitude got a little sour.

    No idea when or if I'll be having an orgasm.
     
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    Remind me again why we enjoy this?

    I always considered myself a normal male..strong robust libido. Handsome and full of energy. Many gilrfriends, heck I even worked at Clubmed!

    WHY DO I WANT TO BE CAGED AND ORGASM DENIED!!!

    BAH..NM...Just ranting!

    Congratz...hope you reach the total days you want...or don't want!
     
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    Seems your wife has total control now, with you being caged and denied indefinitely. So what is she going to do with it? Is she now in charge? Are you submitting to her in other ways, or just being denied? I always see chastity as a means to an end, but for some, maybe you, chastity itself is the goal. Just wondering if you are one of those or if your wife has other plans in mind for you. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Woah, sounds intense! I guess you're all in now. 50 days shows her just how long you can go, so there's no reason for her to overthink keeping you locked a lot longer.
    Have fun!
     
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    We really didn't map this out. We are just trying different things out as we go. Right now I'm just doing extra around the house. Pampering when she ask. And orgasms when she wants them, and no complaints when she doesn't.

    She's bleeding her control into our vanilla life ever so slightly. She's recently discovered chastity memes and has amused her self by sending them to me at different times.
     
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    100 days today!
     
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    Well if you are finding your way, together, with her leading slightly, that sounds like a winning formula. You obviously enjoy being denied and likely controlled, so I expect it will be fun. Congrats!
     
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    Good for you. May you double of triple this record;)
    That being said, you should be milked regularly.
     
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    Congratulations. How do you feel?
    I’m on day 84 of denial and have spent every second of the last 74 days in my MaleChastityNow cage.

    My wife teases me that someday I’ll get used to this, and I will accept the frustration. I’m wondering when that will happen (if ever) as I’m struggling right now.
     
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    'in the beginning'... wow, there were marathon sessions that were easily counted in days... then the focus was weeks, and this year, seem to be easier to count by months.... Just passing 114 'days' in this session, but denied since February... Perhaps these long-term numbers are the norm for me, and perhaps ya'll can wait it out as far as my 'count' after I get freed again? Might be a while, though!
    Congrats on everyone's milestones! Don't get me wrong! For some, it's getting through a full night locked that is a next-step! I always encourage others to find their limits and see if they can push beyond them...
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad things are working out for you.
     
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    Meme from this morning.


    I was regulated to the bedroom to fold all the laundry because I didn't do anything with it during the week.
     

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    It's been quite the emotional rollercoaster ride. I don't get near the attention I desire, having to compete with three kids for my wife's attention is a losing battle. She assures me it will get better as they get older. And I will admit things are better now than they were just a few years ago. I think chastity has played a big role by helping her overcome some ingrained stereotypes in marriage.
     
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