45mm ring too big, 40mm too small

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    #1 AliSlut120s, Sep 15, 2019
    Hi.

    I'm trying to work on being able to wear a chastity device long term. I have tried about 5 or 6 different devices, all relatively cheap ones, but have not found the right fit. My issue is this. I have one testicle that is much smaller than the other, and it is twisted at an odd angle. With a 45mm base ring my smaller testicle is able to pop out of the cages I own when I am very aroused, or during sleep. A 40mm ring is too tight, and causes pain and or chafing, and I'm unable to wear it for more than a couple hours.

    I think ideally a 43mm ring might work for me. The 45mm ring on my holy trainer is comfortable, but slightly too big. Unfortunately they dont make a 43mm ring for this device. It seems like my only option for a 43mm ring might be a custom cage, but they are expensive and I'm hesitant to invest i none unless I know I can wear it comfortably for a week or more.

    Does anyone have advice for potentially modifying a 45mm ring to make it smaller? Or other advice to help me with chastity. The other option I'm considering is a PA piercing so I can wear a cage without a base ring, but I'm not as big of a fan of that style of cage, since I'm hoping to wear something that will compress me penis to keep it small and limp.

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    Thanks,

    Ali.
     
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    #2 maid julie, Sep 15, 2019
    Maybe try coating it with tool dip to see what that does, you can always remove it with no harm done. A lot of the time closing the gap will help with the pop out.
     
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    #3 AliSlut120s, Sep 15, 2019
    Thank you for the response. That sounds like its worth trying.
     
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    #4 MissyB, Sep 16, 2019
    Sounds similar to my situation. I found that the gap between cage and ring was more important than ring size - 45 worked if gap was tight enough, but not too tight. (even with one smaller nut). Good luck.
     
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    #5 MissyB, Sep 16, 2019
    Oh, and welcome to our community. I think you'll find it helpful. Your avatar is very cute too!
     
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    #6 jemima, Sep 16, 2019
    hello @AliSlut120s and welcome to here. When my Mistress got a ring for Her finger and it was a bit small She tooked it to a jewel shop and they make it bigger so they migt do that to a cage ring as well.
     
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    #7 Captcagedman, Sep 16, 2019
    I don’t know what base you are using. I had the same problem. I had the circle base with the tube key. 50 was too big and 45 too small.

    I went with a different metal base ring on my next purchase. I got if off ebay. (Please don’t judge). It came with 3 different bases. The base is the style that hinges in the middle of the bottom portion. The base ring is more oval. I have not had any problems since switching.

    Best of luck and let me know if you want pics of the cages for examples.
     
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    #8 Captcagedman, Sep 16, 2019

    I will add pics of current first and then previous cage and bases E0991FBD-9407-4B32-B0B8-4A3E4D8FD68C.png

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    #9 AliSlut120s, Sep 17, 2019
    Thank you for the reply. The pictures are very helpful. Based on the responses, it seems like 45mm is the right ring size, and it may be the gap between the ring and cage that is too big. I won a cage very similar to the one your posted. I will have to look into getting rings like the ones in your pictures. The gap shown in your pictures i noticeably smaller than the one in my Holy Trainer v2.
     
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    #10 lockedhusband11, Sep 22, 2019
    So i think i may have found a solution to this problem. I have a knockoff CB6000s and the 45 ring has got to where i can put almost two fingers in there and the 40 ring after a few minutes turns my balls purple. But I just tried the 40 again and went up to the largest spacer and it's working very comfortably so far. I guess if i start to get used to the 40 then i can think about moving down a spacer later
     
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    #11 Lås&slå, Sep 30, 2019
    You could get knock offs for like 10$ apop @aliexpress and put the ring part in boiling/hot water a few minutes. Dont heat up the locking part to avoid warping. Then when it cools abit, its silicone like, and will stretch/bend to your body. Maybe worth a shot if you like the HT devices. Good luck!
     
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