2022 chastity year?

That is a good idea, but she is too kind so would always unlock me if we have a sex session to let me cum in her at the end out of pity.
I love it when she cums and we then just cuddle, leaving me hot & horny. It's only fair after the hundreds of times she has let me use her pussy to cum in, even when I know she wasn't even in the mood for any sex.

 

2 calendar months locked & denied.
I’m flying at the weekend at my wife has brought up a few times that I will need to take off the metal CD.
She has also indicated that when that happens she wants PIV sex. I’m going to do my best not to cum.
Then I’ll show her the resin CD I bought and explain to her that I can use that for flying.

 

Yesterday evening my wife allowed me to unlock & remove my steel CD. She said to get used to being out for when I fly at the weekend.
I showered & shaved smooth.
I then put in my all resin cage and told her that my underwear had been rubbing my penis uncomfortably so I could not stay unlocked.
When we went to bed my wife left her pyjama bottoms off, an indication that she desires to have sex. She mentioned that she wanted to try PIV to see if her vaginal hormone medicine had relieved the pain she feels due to vaginal atrophy.
We made out and I caressed her breasts & nipples. I used her bullet vibrator on her body and eventually moved my mouth & the vibrator down to her pussy. I told her that her pussy smelt wonderful.
She took hold of the vibrator and guided it to her clit while I tongue fucked her vagina, which became delightfully wet.
Fairly soon she started to cum and her orgasm just went on and on.
After she was completely satisfied she wanted me inside her, but only out of pity for me.
I told her that I was happy to just cuddle, which we did scissoring like lesbians.
She continued to rock against me providing stimulation to my cage until I had a ruined orgasm in my cage, which also went on & on. I produced much more cum than my usual few drops which covered my wife’s thigh. She told me to go to the bathroom to clean up.
When I returned I remained unlocked all night and we fell asleep cuddling closely.
In the morning I will put the resin cage back on using a plastic numbered tag lock.

 

Just realised that was my 1st orgasm of any kind this year!
Don't know how many more I may get this year or whether my wife will want PIV at all this year. It's an interesting journey...

 

I just cannot tolerate the 'negative' resin cage. The head of my cock becomes very sore and the skin become s damaged and weeps causing it to stick to the inside of my knickers.
I'm back in my small metal cage, which is much more comfortable and can be worn long term.
My wife is totally in charge in the bedroom now. I have tried to initiate sex a few times recently, after discussing with her that I am allowed to do so, but each time she has declined and stated that it was time to sleep. When I have asked her to touch me, she simply says, "No".
We have talked about how much less hassle it is for her to have the final say on our sex lives. Soon it will be 3 months since we had PIV sex.

 

A couple of times over the last two weeks during the day my wife has said she would like sex in the evening, but each time when getting ready for bed she has put her pyjama bottoms on and said we're too tired and we should just go to sleep. On one occasion I told her that I felt like I was about to cum while we were cuddling and she just said that if I do I should go to the bathroom to clean myself. I didn't cum, but went to sleep feeling so turned on. I've only had one orgasm this year and that was a ruined one whilst locked chastity. Tonight I am really hopeful that she will leave her pyjama bottoms off and allow me to pleasure her and enjoy her body.

 

We're going away for a night staying in a hotel. My wife has said we will have sex while we are away. As we were packing she was searching for her key and could not find it. Initially she said, "Oh well, you'll have to stay locked forever". She continued looking for her key and eventualy found it in a wash bag she had used the last time we went away and she took the key in case of emergency. I got out a couple of her vibrators and some massage oil and when she saw them she said, "Better put those in the bag." I'm so hopeful that we'll have sex tonight. I'll suggest that I stay locked so that I don't cum to soon and spoil the evening. Then I'll pleasure her till she can take no more. She usualy wants me inside her at that point, but I'll ask her to just cuddle for a bit and will probable cum just from that if I haven'y cum already from being so turned on by her orgasms.

 

So last night went better than I anticipated.
We had a lovely evening out with friends and returned to out hotel room about 11.30pm.
My wife had said we would be having sex and duly left her pyjama bottoms off as we climbed into bed.
I had brought some massage oil, lube, her full size vibrator & her bullet vibrator with us. I noticed that she had also packed her Rabbit vibrator.
My wife lay on her bed on her back withe her legs closed and I offered to give her a massage. I gently rubbed the oil onto her breasts and her body. We kissed and I could tell from how softly she presented her mouth that she was aroused and ready for sex.
I played her bullet vibrator over her neck, down to her nipples and slowly worked my my further south until it nestled in her pussy lips. As she became more responsive and further aroused I kissed my way down to her wonderful pussy. She took control of the bullet vibrator and allowed me to concentrate on smelling & tasting her pussy , as she got wetter & wetter. I then replaced my tongue with a single finger curled upward to rub her G-spot. She continued to press the bullet vibe to her clit and together we shared her delightful first orgasm of the night.
I asked her if she would like to use her Rabbit vibrator and she responded yes. I moved to get the vibrator & the lube I had brought, but she handed me some lube she has been prescribed from the doctors.
I squeezed some of her lube onto my finger and spread it around the opening to her vagina. Then I started to push her Rabbit vibrator gently inside her pussy. I switched on the Rabbit ears vibration & rotating function and slowly moved it in and out with the same rythm I used to when we had PIV sex.
I let go and she took control of the Rabbit, burying it deep in her pussy. I moved to play with her breasts & nipples and she had an explosive noisy orgasm. After she came she said her pussy was stinging a bit, which is a problem we used to have if we had PIV sex and came inside her. I moved down to soothe her vagina my lapping up all her juices, which she seemed to enjoy.
At no time was unlocking me ever mentioned and she hadn't even touched me up to this point. Almost as an after thougt she said, "You haven't cum. Would you like to try holding a vibrator against it?" I told her it was fine and to think of the hundreds of times we've had sex and I got to cum when she didn't. I asked her if we could cuddle and if she would touch me. She agreed to this and she gently caressed my balls and cage. Eventually her fingers slowed as she fell asleep. I was left erect as I can be in my cage and happily frustrated. My balls are very full and I think the only way I'll get to cum is when I eventually have a wet dream as My wife has said she doesn't like like touching my balls.
In the morning I told her how wonderful having sex withe her was. I also asked about her pussy stinging after she came. She told me it was a lot less than it used to be. We agreed that sex with her having clitoral orgasms and oral sex was probably best and that we should not have PIV sex for the forseeable future, maybe never again.
I think she is getting used to my little willy being locked up.
She seems to enjoy the sex we have now and definitely does not miss me just giving a couple of pumps inside her and making a mess in her pussy.
I like it too, but wish she would allow me to worship her pussy more often.
She is now fully in charge of when we have sex and my penis no longer seems to be required or desired for her satisfaction.
I guess this is what I wanted so I will have to live with it.

 

Today, the 31st March 2022 is the end of my third calendar month as a Born Again Virgin. I have only had one orgasm this year, which was a ruined one while I was locked in my chastity cage. My wife seems to have accepted and embraced the situation that my penis has no part to play in our sex life. To my knowledge she has only had 3 orgams this year, all of which were a result of her allowing me to lick her pussy & clit and assisting her to use her toys. She has not suggested that I unlock at any time and certainly has not indicated she desired or would allow me piv sex. I'm hoping the net 3 months will be easier, but I'm currently so horny and constantly think about the smell & taste of her pussy. I have been helping out with household tasks more & more, hoping that my wife will then feel less tired and be in the mood for sex. I would be happy licking her to orgasm every night, but how often we have sex is totally up to her. We seem to have settled into a very close & intimate state with me almost feeling like her lesbian lover. Occassionally she has expressed the need to feel something inside her during our sex sessions and she has her Rabbit vibrator for that. I think my days of piv may be over for good. I know I would cum instantly so there is very little point in her having piv sex with me anyway.

 

My wife had told me we would have sex this weekend and that I would be able to use her wand vibrator to cum myself too. She was not in the mood on Friday night, but also she left her pyjama bottoms on, indicating no sex, on Saturday night. I was so frustrated that I couldn't help but comment that I thought we were having sex tonight.
She said she was not in the mood but that I could use her vibrator. I asked her if instead she would touch me. I had come to bed still wearing my knickers & my nightdress. She caressed by balls and gradually increased the pace as I gently touched her neck, then moved to her breasts & nipples. We kissed passionately and I came in my knickers. She continued to rub my balls while I was cumming, allowing me to have my first full orgasm of 2022. I had made quite a mess in my knickers so she suggested that I go to the bathroom and sort myself out.
I took my knickers off and wiped myself as best I could, returning to the bedroom I placed my wet knickers in the laundry basket.
My wife then said, "I ready for my bullet vibe now". Although I don't enjoy sex as much after I have cum I could not refuse her so got her vibrator from my bedside table, switched it on and proceeded to pleasure her. I moved the vibe up and down her pussy eventually settling on her sensitive clit. She started to moan but I switched the vibe to an intermittent pulse before she could cum. This had the result of bringing her to the edge over and over, which she seemed to enjoy. Finally I switched it to a high contstant vibratoration and this pushed her over the edge.
We then cuddled, with as both satisfied, and fell asleep.
I think my wife has fully embraced that we can gave great sex without any involvement of my penis. Any guilt or sympathy for me seems to have gone as she has realised that we can both cum while I stay locked. She doesn't seem to miss piv sex and cums everytime we have sex now, unlike when I used to treat her pussy like a cum dump.
In the morning I thanked her for letting me cum and told her that a bit like happens to a girls pussy after sex, some cum had leaked out of my cage during the night. She gave a little laugh at that.
We both seem very happy with me being locked in a chastity device. She gets to decide when we have sex without me pestering every night and I think she prefers my tongue & her toys to my penis. I'm hoping to get her used to the feel of her 7" purple jelly dildo, which is so much bigger than my little willy. I don't think I will ever get to slide my little thing into her wet pussy again, but if I do by then my aim is that she wouldn't even feel me inside her.
I love her so much and get my sexual pleasure from her arousal & orgasms.

 

Over recent nights I have been frustrated and asking/suggesting that we have sex. A couple of nights ago my wife fondled my balls while we were in bed and actually fell asleep holding them, which felt great.
Last night I really wanted sex so layed her pyjama bottoms on the floor on her side of the bed as this is what she often does when we have sex, so that they are ready for her to put on afterwards. She noticed and said that it was up to her when we have sex and because I had done that maybe she would not allow it now. I didn't respond but was defferential to her and she relented and left them off.
I caressed & kissed her for some time and then suggested that I give her a massage. I used sented oil and gently massaged her body & breasts. She removed her top so we were both naked. Very slowly I started to move closer to her pussy then back to the rest of her body, telling her how beautiful she is.
Eventually I lightly touched her inner thighs and around her pussy, occasionally running a finger over her outer lips. Graudually I spent more time touching the outside of her pussy and venturing to her inner lips, which I could feel were getting moist. Very gently I pushed a finger just into the opening of her vagina which caused her to moan & squirm about.
I then slid down and licked along her wet opening before circling her clit. After licking for a while and feeling the effects of her arousal I started to suck her clit which really got her going. I then also started to use her vibrator, starting near her clit then moving it to her vagina and gently working it inside while continuing to suck her clit.
She started to orgasm and this went on for quite a while until she was satisfied.
After cumming she asked, "What about you?", without any suggestion that I should be unlocked. I lay on top of her and asked if I could rub myslef against her pussy, which she agreed to. I made sure I was very gently but as soon as I placed my caged willy near her pussy entrace I could feel the heat & wetness. I told her how it felt and humped agaisnt her being careful not to move too much for fear of hurting her. We kissed and I felt that I was getting near to cumming. I asked her if I could cum on her pussy and she held me and said, "Cum". I exploded and kept pulsing over & over and havig little spasms like a girl cumming. We then cleaned oursleves and she pulled on her pyjama bottoms & I put on my nightdress. It was my 2nd full orgasm this year and was the closest I have got (or are likely to get) to piv sex this year.
Sex is not as frequent as I would like, but my wife has much more powerful orgasms than she used to have when we had piv sex as I used to be too much of a hurry to get inside her and then used to cum immediately.
I think we have settled into a new way of life....

 

It's been over a week with only cuddles and me providing back rubs and holding her breasts. Each time I have tried to initiate sex or asked my wife to touch me she has firmly declined. A couple of times I told her that I really needed to cum and she replied, "Too Bad". My wife seems to be revelling in the fact that she only has to have sex on her terms when she desires to do so.
The longer I stay locked & denied the more she seems to think that I really don't need to be allowed out or that I should receive any sexual pleasure. She seem to think I will eventually get used to being totally denied just I seem to have got used to being locked in chastity, which has been continuously for almost 4 months now.
All I can think about is her wonderful body; her soft breasts & juicy pussy.
I have accepted that piv is probably something I' won't get to enjoy for a very long time if ever again, but I get so horny for her to touch may balls.
We cuddle every night in bed & I have told her that for me this feels like sex for me now.

 

On Thrusday my wife told me that if I behaved I might be 'on a promise' for Friday.
Sure enough last night she came to bed with her pyjama bottoms off. I was still caged & had kept my knickers on. We kissed tenderley and I caressed her head & neck. Then I stroked her sides and stomach brefore fondling her breasts & nipples. When she started moaning softly and kissing me with her soft open mouth I moved to licking & sucking her nipples in turn. She had also played with my nipples, casusing me to sigh & moan in a similar manner to her, which she seemed to find amusing. She was lying on her back and I whispered in her ear, "Please may I lick your pussy". She replied, "Not tonight", and then suggested that we use her vibrator indicating that she would like her small bullet vibe. That was already packed for a few days away so I suggested thay we use her Magic Wand.
I got her wand, plugged it in and brought it to her nipples. She then rolled on to her front. I massaged her legs & bottom and gradually worked my way to her pussy. I pushed the wand vibrator under her between her legs and applied a small amount of lube to the entrace to her pussy. She was not very wet so I gently worked a finger araound the entrace to her pussy while she squirmed on the wand. She began to orgasm and continued for a while with little jerks & shudders until she was content. Then she kindly asked, "What about you." It was clear that me being unlocked was not even a consideration. I said I would like to cuddle, which we did. She stroked my balls through my knickers & I felt my orgasm building. I asked her to stop which she did, but it was just too late and I spilled a ruined orgasm in my cage soaking my knickers. After a short time I went to the bathroom to clean myself. She said she had no need to clean herself & pulled her pyjama bottoms on.
I lay on may back and she cuddled into me and she soon drifted off to sleeep. I lay there for a while still feeleing horny and contemplating how my wife's attitude to sex while I stay locked in chastoty has changed. Never mind no piv, I may never be unlocked to feel her touching my willy or to masturbate. She seems happy with our sex life and I guess this is what I wanted so I should be happy to just being allowed to cum in my cage every few months.
We're off on holiday tomorrow and she saw me packing her vibrator so hopefully we will have more sex and that I'll get to lick her wonderful pussy while we're away. She pointed out that I will need to, 'take that thing off' to fly, but I expect I will be relocked when we land.

 

Back from a week away. I was allowed to unlock for airport security & the flights. Apart from then I was locked all the time. I eplilated my legs & shaved by balls and pubic area as best I can while locked. During our trip I requested sex a couple of times (sex for us now seems to be me bringing my wife to orgasm using my tongue &/or toys while I remain locked), but she said she was too tired and didn't feel like it. She did agree to touch me, which she did by very lightly stroking my balls and rhythmically pressing on my cage. I don't know whether she did it on purpose but each time just as I was about to cum she stopped and said it was time to sleep. I told her that I was so horny and really needed to cum, but she said "too bad".
The third time I asked her to touch me she declined and said I was being a nusance. She reminded me that if she desired sex she would come to bed without her pyjama bottoms and that I was to stop 'being such a pest'.
My balls are so full so last night I suggested that I should wear my knickers to bed under my nightdress in case I have a wet dream, which she giggled at.
4 months without piv have gone by and I am starting to forget what it felt like to slide into her delicious wet pussy. She seems to have decided that I'm no longer allowed to have sex like a man and experience that pleasure.

 

I've been away for the weekend and returned on Sunday evening. We went up to bed about 10pm and my wife said that it was a pitty I was tired as she wasn't. I quickly picked up on the subtext of that statement and told her that I was not 'that' tired.
She climbed into bed naked from the waist down and lay on her back with her legs closed. We started kissing gently and I covered her face & neck & lips with soft kisses. At the same time I started to caress her body, staying away from her breasts & pussy for as long as I could. As her kissing became more loose & sensual I started to graze her breasts with my fingers moving closer & closer to her sensitive nipples. She started to moan quietly so I started to lick her nipples and moved my hand to her inner thigh. I slowly worked my my towards her pussy just brushing against her soft curls. Feeling her becoming aroused by pushing her pussy against my hand I explored her moistening inner folds as she gradually allowed her legs to fall apart.
I suggested that she may like me to use her wand vibrator and she said that would be nice. I moved to knell on top of her taking my weight on my legs and postioning my caged weenie over her pussy. Her legs were now wide apart and her pussy was pulled slightly open. We continued to kiss and she started thrusting rythmically . I could feels her wetness on my balls and the sensation was amazing. I then told her I would get her ready for her vibrator and started to kiss my way down towards her pussy. As I got closer I told her how wonderful she smelled and dragged my nose up and down her slit, flicking it against the clit each time. She started to moan louder, so I changed to licking her pussy until I could feel her juices covering my face.
I reached for her wand vibrator, which I had alread fitted with a small dildo attachement which is curved to reach her G-spot and has ears to stimualte her clitors. Together we slid the vibrating shaft of the dildo along her open lips and she writhed each time is touched her little button. I also continued to lick her clit & she seemed to be approaching an orgasm. I moved the dildo so that it was at the entrance to her pussy and started to enter her with a rocking motion which caused her to push back against it. I took my time until the vibrating dildo was fully inserted so that her G-spot and clit were simultaneously getting strongly stimulated. I pulled the dilo out and slid it slowy back in a few times, but my wife then pulled in firmly inside her and would not let me pull it back. She rapidly approached her first orgasm which lasted several seconds. As the frequency & intensity of her shudders & jerks subsided she relaxed and allowed me to ease the dildo out. I returned to running the shaft along her soaking slit and she had a second less intense orgasm. She was satisfied and kindly turned her attention to me and started to gently tickle my balls, gradually increasing her grip and so that she was giving me a chastity handjob. She continued doing this for some time saying that I should come. At one point even suggesting that maybe I should be unlocked so that I could penetrate her, but she made no attempt to access the break-glass key box. I told her that I would probably cum just pushing into her so it wouldn't be worthwhile anyway. She began to tire so I suggested that if I could lick her pussy while she continued to stimulate my balls I might cum. She agreed so I moved round and basically licked her pussy clean of her cum while she touched me, but she soon asked me to stop and suggested that I should use her vibrator. She pulle her pyjama bottoms on while I removed the dildo attachment from her vibrator and placed the round head under my balls with the vibrator on the lowest setting. I moved the vibrator around above my chastity cage to the base of my small shaft and onto the cage but couldn't really feel much happening. I returned the vibrator to the spot under my balls and changed the pattern to a repeating rising pulse. My wife said that is her favourite setting. She was starting to drift off to sleep and I was not getting any orgasmic feelings so I decided to stop and aksed if we could cuddle. She gently caressed my balls some more, but it was clear I would not be able to cum. I told her that even though I hadn't cum I still really enjoyed our sex session. We talked about how things had changed from when I would always be the one who got to cum and she didn't. Now when we have sex she comes every time and I rarely do. We fell asleep in each others arms.
So it seems that in addition to no piv sex I can't even cum using a vibrator. If I ever have piv again I wonder if I'll be able to cum or will I now just have to live for my wife's orgasms. Maybe me not being able to cum will turn out to be good for us as the main reason for ending piv was my chronic premature ejaculation.

 

Last night my wife denied my any sex again, although she did hold my balls while we fell asleep. I woke up this morning and my knickers were soaking wet as I must have had a wet dream last night. My frustration has reduced and tonight my wife is likely to require me to pleasure her. I will enjoy my wife's body but everything will be focussed on her pleasure as it should be.

 

As I anticipated my wife came to bed naked from the wasit down last night, which greatly excited me. I gave her a long gentle massage using sented oil and really spent time rubbing her shoulders, arms, back, bum & legs, having asked her to remove her top. I also took off my nightie so I could feel her naked body against me, which I really enjoyed.
Eventually I asked her whether she would like to cuddle and go to sleep or have an orgasm. After a short pause she said that she would like to cum.
I wet my fingers with some silicone lubricant and for the first time that night started to caress she inner things, working my way towards her pussy. I ran my lubed fingers along her slit, alternating hands so I that I was always stimulating her lips until I felt her getting wetter & opening. I slid one finger gently inside her moist tunnel and moved my other hand under her so that I could tickle her clit at the same time. I kept up a steady rythm and she started to moan softly and push against my hand under her. I continued circling her clit while stroking her g-spot with my finger that was between her now very wet pussy lips. She orgasm started to build and I managed to keep it going for quite a while. She turned over on her back and I stroked her pussy, telling her that she should have anoter but she declined. I climbed on top of her and very carefully positioned my caged willie near her juicy pussy. We then proceeded to thrust very gently in time which soon caused me cum in my knickers.
I continued gently thrusting until I was completly spent. She told me that she could feel my cum running down her inner thighs and that I should go and clean up. I went to the bathroom and removed my knickers and cleaned around my chastity cage. My wife came into the bathroom and used some tissue to clean herself as she had run out of tissues on her bedside table. I put my nightie back on and she pulled on the bottoms & top and we returned to bed and fell asleep cuddling.
I love it so much when she cums and these days she really seems to cum so much harder. Gone are the days when sex was pretty much just about me pumping in & out a few times and making a mess in her pussy. I think she seems to like getting to cum without having to do anything to 'take care' of me.