101 Things I want to do with my D/s life in 2009!

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    Just a little bit of fun! I thought I'd put together a list of things to do in 2009.

    Who knows if I'll get to 101... who knows if I'll achieve any of them?!

    Anyone else care to join me in posting their wish list for 2009?

    Top 101 things to do for 2009...

    PLACES TO (4)
    - Durex Play Room at Pelirocco, Brighton
    - The Fetish Studio in Reading
    - Ess and Emm, Warwickshire - Suite 1 **DONE**
    - Ess and Emm, Warwickshire - Suite 2

    CLOTHING ITEMS TO BUY (1)
    - Pink PVC thigh high boots

    TOYS/EQUIPMENT TO BUY (9)
    - Pillory
    - Rose Flogger
    - A Good Remote Love Egg
    - Blue Tooth Cock Ring
    - Pink or Blue Flogger **DONE**
    - Pink or Blue Cat **DONE**

    - Queening Stool
    - Love Lounge (When we have a bigger house!)
    - An umbrella stand for my canes and whips

    SCENES TO TRY OUT (1)
    - Nasty cheerleader and the computer geek

    PHOTO SHOOTS TO DO (9)
    - Valentines
    - 4th July
    - Halloween
    - Christmas **DONE**
    - Pink/Blue Corset
    - Pink/Black Robe and Black Thigh Highs **DONE**
    - Bathtime with Duckies (especially for dollyanne!)
    - Outdoor Rubber vs Graffiti shoot!

    MILESTONES (2)
    - First "proper" cuckolding experience
    - pet to suck a cock


    (26) In List
    (74) Left to Decide On
    (5) Done
    (21) Left To Do
     
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    Mistress Watchful

    The queening looks and sound fantastic.
    A big thankyou for the link to the website.

    Mistress Strapon
     
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    Definitely like that pillory.........:yes1:
     
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    Votes yes for the queening chair.

    Rachel
     
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    Got to go with the Queening stool & pillory . :jumping0045:
     
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    I can't believe we are in April and I haven't completed the list, or done/purchased pretty much anything on there!

    There should be room for the stool at the new house though... and the Liberator too!
     
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    omG, i have to find a US source for that Queening stool. i would love to serve Mistress that way! omG, i am so worked up now.
     
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    What a wonderful list
     
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    Great List

    Ms. Watchful,

    What a great high bar to set! This is a fantastic way to do this and whatever happens, great. Whatever doesn't, there's always next year. It's diverse, experimental and open to some wonderful experiences - to me, one of the real reasons we do all of this ess and emm stuff.

    my list is about five and i better get going on it.

    Share the fun and have it as special as can be.

    Aline:butterfly:
     
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    Just updated it... not really going very well is it! :sign0094:

    tightlockup - I have those boots! They are not as fabulous as they look, which is why I wanted some PVC ones.
     
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    Ooohh, Ess and Emm looks amazing. Too bad i dont live in the UK.
     
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    Yeah... I think 2009 was a bad year for everyone...

    W/we had plans, have a list of things/toy to buy and W/we haven't purchase many items yet...

    W/we we're suppose to do a few photo shoot, but haven't had time or money do the ones W/we want.

    I hope 2010 will be better for all of U/us.

    -Cherry
     
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    Maybe instead of looking at 2009 as a bad year (and it's wasn't so bad for me), we all should start taking a little time and reflect on what we've done so far, what we would have liked to do and what we can do before the end of the year. Start making the list for 2010 NOW and plan on making it an amazing year after we finish this one off as good as possible.

    Now with that said, I was going to respond a few days ago when MW posted this but I really wanted to think about it. I suspect that if MW looks back and reads some of her journal entries and posts she'll see what a busy year she had especially when school, relationships, kids, family, work, etc are all factored in. Maybe she didn't do all she wanted to but instead of looking at it that way, maybe looking all that was done might make things seem much better. I know that's how I'm looking at things in my own case!!!!

    Anyway, I've heard MW will be coming to Virginia for the fall gathering and to visit MM so she'll have plenty opportunity to do things, and some may be on her list, and some may not so maybe those need to be included also.
     
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    i just came across my 2008 goals...life goals, not D/s or chastity. i was shocked at how little i accomplished that year. 2009 has been much better but i need to finish strong. i'll have to talk to Mistress about setting some D/s goals.
     
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    chastityslavejohn, thanks for the reminder of something I do to really get things done and that is to have make a list of goals at the beginning of the year, the beginning of each month, each week, and each day. For the year, I set some big, medium and small goals, In my case, I try to set 12. For the month I might have parts of the big goal, and some small ones, etc. Each day I have some regular chores to do and at least one or two things to do that are part of a goal and one or two things that I might or might not get done. Then I try to do one more than half or at least 7 each day. The idea is that if I get one more than half, I'm moving forward.

    Years I've been very regular about this, I get an awful lot done. Years that I"m less careful about it I get less done. So you reminded me as we wrap up this year that I need to get back to doing this and throw in a few kinky things to do this coming year. So thank you.

    And for my in 2009 I've completed a few major parts of a couple of very large goals, so this year and next year will be pretty productive in that two major goals will be completed next year and possibly two others.
     
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    no problem, tomf. Mistress got me started with goal setting. W/we have separate goals and mutual goals. W/we already started talking about next year.
     
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    tom, that sounds like Best Year Yet strategy, have you read it?
     
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    Think i will have to have a to do list for next year, Great idea Mistress Watchful!!

    Dont think i've done to bad this year

    *Finally got a chastity device in april
    *Found a Lady to control my chastity and my further submission
    *Started being turned into the sissy i am
    * And the biggest of all, Joining this great site!!! I've had alot of great advice and met alot of great people on here :)

    Slavematt
     
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    No I haven't but have been doing this from years. I "developed" the technique by wanting to get things done. I suspect that the "idea" came from various management books, and a little trial and error of what works for me. In other words, the basic concept is nothing new. The only thing that might be different is the specifics on how I adjust things and follow through.

    I'll see if the library has that book when I go to one (it's not like I don't have access to several and use them all on a regular basis), if so, I'll look it over.

    Anyway, guess I should start working on thinking about 2010. BTW, did you post about your weekend? I hope all was well, and ask as I didn't want to miss a post. If things don't go as planned I'm sorry for asking.
     
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    Just picked up on this thread and - Queening Stool!

    I followed the link and read the history of Queening. I was straining in my CB6000! Brought back some memories. Not exactly Queening but of being coerced into licking.

    Thank you Mistress Watchful!
     
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    any items in particular?
     
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    1 nylon cat (pink), 1 nylon flogger (purple) and 1 suede flogger (pink/purple).

    I need to go re-order and send to Ms Michelle's now because they don't ship to UK!!! :evilgrin0036:
     
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