‘Performance’ problems after lock-up period

I should have added to my previous post that I too have a fairly large letdown when I cum after a long denial. I actually prefer to just avoid the orgasm since it took so much time and effort to get to a whole year or more without one. It's very disappointing to realize it's going to be another year to get back to the same place again.

 

Even when not locked and it's been 7-10 days without a release, the orgasm feels like it's clogged. I just assume it was 'backed up' and the cum would just oozz out, not a spurt. Getting an erection after 10 days is difficult and i can orgasm without an erection, again without being locked up. They are strange little creatures.

 

I have had one or two times when my wife unlocked me after a few months of chastity that I would not get completely hard. However, we wouldn't dive right into things so a few moments and things were fine.

In general, chastity has been the opposite for me. Masturbating 1-2 times a day I got to the point where the sensitivity was low and when using a condom I would go soft. Many times we would stop, and revert back to me masturbating to orgasm. The chastity causes me to be very sensitive and can orgasm within a few strokes if I don't try to hold myself off. This has helped our sex life because my wife feels more "wanted" rather me having to take care of myself since she couldn't.