How are you doing so far?
I used the search function expecting to find a lot going on for locktober but last posts I saw were from last year. (I’m not a great researcher...
I’ve been doing locktober on my own for several years now. I usually start a week early, so today. . . . . And have made it the full five weeks a...
I’ll bet your urologist knows about chastity and even if not, you should feel comfortable asking the question directly. I’m not that kind of...
I'm in. Had a week under my belt when it started. So if I make it through Locktober it would tie my personal record. I figure at that point I...
That is a fantastic podcast, and William did a great job. Still having trouble wrapping my head around anyone who watches porn for the dialogue....
I love this approach. Whereas a lot of the FLR info here on CM is based on the male being of little worth,. High humiliation factor…, this book...
That looks intriguing. Looks comfy and soft and quite reasonably priced. Maybe a new device is in my future. Ideally I’d like to be locked all the...
As an aside though…, I am an amateur cyclist (“age grouper”). Despite my best efforts and trialing several devices, my cage can’t be worn while...
I have been going to the gym regularly for the better part of the last year. Always locked. For the longest time I would arrive already dressed...
Thank you so much for responding as you did. It was very helpful and your insights give me something to think about. I am in an asexual marriage....
That is brilliant. Thanks. I’m definitely going to try that.
I have been interested in chastity for a long time. . . . years and years. Just started my journey this past February. Absolutely no science...
I like the retaining belt idea. I’ve tried using rope and bungee cord which hold the ring well but not very comfortable. Any pre-made straps out...
If you’re worried about being a grower, you miss the point. If you get a custom cage that truly fits well, then your flaccid penis will take up...
Of course I can only speak to what I know. Tried plastic for a while and I have to say, long term in my opinion, not easy. I spent the money and...
I so very much appreciate the give and take of ideas. I’m taking away from the discussion that there may not be a simple answer but that I’m not...
That’s really helpful thanks. Needed to hear that this wasn’t necessarily abnormal.
Still fairly new to this. In the midst of my longest continuous period locked, approaching 5 weeks. As expected from my prior experience, from...
You were honest with her, she was honest with you. She knows about your self-locking and is OK with that. Despite not being the outcome you might...