OMG - do not send me your wank fodder as an opening gambit! GRRRRR
"You don't have to use an honorific, we're not in dynamic" I just said this twice to people chatting with me. Don't make me repeat myself.
I'm so sorry you're going through this! You probably don't need yet another voice telling you that you're right to feel angry and frustrated. It...
Sounds like you're on a good path...and I will reiterate the advice from others: start slowly. Add rituals and such as you both agree on them....
@PouchPantyLover - this is a tough situation. I know a lot of people on CM don't see chastity and FLR as BDSM...define things as one will, the...
Definitely enjoying this conversation. I've been cheated on, in the 'normal' sense - it was ugly. That relationship was healed, but it took a...
Good suggestions so far. I would find out what her love languages are. (here's a link if you don't know what these are:...
Reflect on the difference between telling a story in the abstract and telling one with excruciatingly unnecessary detail.
@Open to it Uh, I'm not sure why you are telling me this. @QueenOfSwords and I were having a conversation and you came in with your dick hanging...
I'm glad you're able to think about it.
@QueenOfSwords is correct, @Open to it - Your first 3 responses are details about sex - inappropriate to the conversation she and I were having....
Thanks. I find I'm not interested in the "I must be caged or I will not be able to control myself" mindset. To me, putting my toy in a cage is to...
You're asking for a lot, offering nothing. Sounds like you want a fetish dispenser, not a Mistress.
Please do not address me as Mistress unless we're in a relationship. I am not a kink dispenser.
Yikes! the only option it gave me to add was 6 days 6 hrs 6 min! :)
If you are gagged often, you should also have a non-verbal safeword - be it something held in your hand to drop, or banging on a surface 3...
It's a great question! Is it that chastity is under the umbrella of CBT? It *is* a type of psychological torture... Is it a Venn diagram? CBT...
I can't 'like' this enough - do NOT approach women with your cock in your hand, caged or not. Approach women, especially on Fetlife, as human...
Definitely! My pleasure comes from the submission, the reactions of his body as he gets turned on but lets me control whether or not he gets to...
My toy (and I) are newish to chastity and denial games, and this week will be his first 24 hours in his cage. He works at a very physical and...